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Trying To Conceive #1 Only Vent Thread

Went to the black Thursday/Friday madness to get Xmas presents & I saw so many prego women & women with lo's.. there's no way I would take my children to that like some people get seriously hurt. Pushing through crowds & people don't care one wrong move someone could hit your belly there's no way I would even risk it. If I was prego or had a lo dh can go by himself. It's so upsetting how careless people are over stupid sales. There's no way I'd risk my lo over a stupid sale. Ugg! :/
 
Watching pregnancy announcements on Youtube.

I don't know why.

OMG did that the first month we were TTC! Was so convinced that I needed to have a plan because the BFP was going to come quick! HAHA What a joke!

Currently waiting for AF... not sure when she will come because I don't know when I O'd. I don't know when I O'd because OPKs wouldn't work after I had my mc last month. Sooo... tick tock. When she'll show, nobody knows!! In the meantime I must refrain from drinking and consuming caffeine "just in case". Ha Happy Holidays!!!!!!!! ugh. :coffee:

Wow! Took a test right after this post and bam! BFP!

Last month I started mucinex, vitamin c, baby aspirin, and b50 complex along with my prenatal and dha. That month I got preggers ( but miscarried). This month, the same (except mucinex) but I stopped taking b50 and c a little after my assumed O. I believe these vitamins and aspirin helped! Was using preseed and soft cups before, but not when I fell pregnant. Just wanted to put this info out there if you haven't tried it! Best of luck to everyone! I hope this one sticks!
 
Happy for you mindylou:-) would love to everybody on this vent thread with a bfp.
 
Watching pregnancy announcements on Youtube.

I don't know why.

OMG did that the first month we were TTC! Was so convinced that I needed to have a plan because the BFP was going to come quick! HAHA What a joke!

Currently waiting for AF... not sure when she will come because I don't know when I O'd. I don't know when I O'd because OPKs wouldn't work after I had my mc last month. Sooo... tick tock. When she'll show, nobody knows!! In the meantime I must refrain from drinking and consuming caffeine "just in case". Ha Happy Holidays!!!!!!!! ugh. :coffee:

Wow! Took a test right after this post and bam! BFP!

Last month I started mucinex, vitamin c, baby aspirin, and b50 complex along with my prenatal and dha. That month I got preggers ( but miscarried). This month, the same (except mucinex) but I stopped taking b50 and c a little after my assumed O. I believe these vitamins and aspirin helped! Was using preseed and soft cups before, but not when I fell pregnant. Just wanted to put this info out there if you haven't tried it! Best of luck to everyone! I hope this one sticks!

Aww congratulations! :hugs: :flower:
 
I'm new to all of this. DF and I are TTC our first together. After spending time with DF during my fertile week I just felt like this was it. My symptoms started 4-5 dpo. Sensitive nipples, headaches, nausea, fatigue, the extra creamy white cm. I knew. I was so excited. We began to talk about it and 14dpo I got the FAINTEST positive that I had a neighbor look at it to confirm. Later that evening I began to bleed heavily, I felt something like a clot pass but I did not see it. After 6 hours in the ER, the doctor tells me that my numbers are so low that they won't raise with the amount of bleeding I was experiencing. He told me that since these are common like a common cold he could only treat me for the pelvic pain, sent me home with pain meds and discharged me. I tried to call DF so he could listen to the doctor explain this. No answer. He then tells me I FAKED IT. I spoke with the nurse to explain chem pregnancies and she says the doctor is not acknowledging it as an issue because they are so common. I am in such distress. I hate that there is a name for the issue but won't even acknowledge it. It counts a pelvic pain. I needed this rant. My emotions are shot. My first chem pregnancy and everything seems to be falling apart. Any advice?
 
My pregnant cousin who can get pregnant just by looking at a guy told me she was going to send some of her fertility my way "since I'm having difficulty in that department"and laughed like she just told the funniest joke in her life. that's hella rude. Regardless of knowing if I'm ttc or not. She doesn't know my struggles and shouldn't be rubbing her fertility in my face. I instantly told her that wasn't funny and told her I would talk to her later. Can't stand it when pregnant woman act like they are better than non pregnant woman . sometimes I just wanna say, don't forget there was a time when you weren't pregnant and was in the same boat as me and all the other ladies in the ttc boat
 
Your pregnant cousin sounds annoying, glad I don't have one of those. The ladies at work suggested I drink the water at work as everybody else is pregnant. I have a good feeling for you rainbow baby.

My brother suggested I do ivf yesterday. I've never discussed ttc with him ever and didn't realised my private ttc decisions/life was up for general discussion. Xx
 
Right? I'm like girl bye lol. And thank you daisys that means so much to me<3

And sorry about that , people say things without even knowing how they are coming off unfortunately
 
I feel so bad. My aunt had 9 miscarriages. The godmother to both her daughters told her not to have anymore kids. What pissed me off was how her friend can get pregnant and she is high risk but doesn't care if she loses the baby. She doesn't do anything to keep the baby.

Females like that pisses me the fuck off. There's many of us who tries everything and anything get pregnant.
 
My pregnant cousin who can get pregnant just by looking at a guy told me she was going to send some of her fertility my way "since I'm having difficulty in that department"and laughed like she just told the funniest joke in her life. that's hella rude. Regardless of knowing if I'm ttc or not. She doesn't know my struggles and shouldn't be rubbing her fertility in my face. I instantly told her that wasn't funny and told her I would talk to her later. Can't stand it when pregnant woman act like they are better than non pregnant woman . sometimes I just wanna say, don't forget there was a time when you weren't pregnant and was in the same boat as me and all the other ladies in the ttc boat

I also can't stand when pregnant women act like they're better than those who have no children yet. It's so frustrating, especially when they start bragging about what worked for them.
 
My pregnant cousin who can get pregnant just by looking at a guy told me she was going to send some of her fertility my way "since I'm having difficulty in that department"and laughed like she just told the funniest joke in her life. that's hella rude. Regardless of knowing if I'm ttc or not. She doesn't know my struggles and shouldn't be rubbing her fertility in my face. I instantly told her that wasn't funny and told her I would talk to her later. Can't stand it when pregnant woman act like they are better than non pregnant woman . sometimes I just wanna say, don't forget there was a time when you weren't pregnant and was in the same boat as me and all the other ladies in the ttc boat

I also can't stand when pregnant women act like they're better than those who have no children yet. It's so frustrating, especially when they start bragging about what worked for them.

Omg right? Its so frustrating. It makes it so hard to be happy for them when they act like they are so much more better!
 
Thank You HSG procedure for completely screwing up my cycle! CD19 and still no ovulation according to my chart. GRRRRR pushes back starting injectables and IUI.
 
Crying as I write this. My husband and I made the decision to start TTC earlier in the year but couldn't do anything till I had a regular flow and I needed to go to the OB/GYN. We made the appt, got everything going. I did tons of blood work which found I wasn't ovulating. Doctor prescribed Clomid and I am on the last day of it today. We should be DTD Friday to get prego! HOWEVER, my dear husband decided to break the news to me last night that he has changed his mind and is no longer ready/willing to try to have a baby.

I am devastated! How could he do this to me? Especially since, two weeks ago we had a big blow out about me thinking he was not ready. Which he stated, he was in this just as much as I was. That he was upset that I thought anything different! SO, I apologized and told him I wouldn't bring it up again.... WTF? Now you change your mind? You couldn't tell me this before all the appointments, blood works, stupid pills, and sleepless nights. I was so excited to finally be able to TTC and here I am with the rug ripped out from under me and lay flat on the floor.

He says he's sorry that he had to do this and that he knows it's devastating me. But he just couldn't go through with it because then he'd hate his life and be miserable. I understand his fears about money, it's a logical reason. But this has been here the whole time and it has not changed!!!
What did I do to deserve this???

Sorry I just needed to vent!
 
Crying as I write this. My husband and I made the decision to start TTC earlier in the year but couldn't do anything till I had a regular flow and I needed to go to the OB/GYN. We made the appt, got everything going. I did tons of blood work which found I wasn't ovulating. Doctor prescribed Clomid and I am on the last day of it today. We should be DTD Friday to get prego! HOWEVER, my dear husband decided to break the news to me last night that he has changed his mind and is no longer ready/willing to try to have a baby.

I am devastated! How could he do this to me? Especially since, two weeks ago we had a big blow out about me thinking he was not ready. Which he stated, he was in this just as much as I was. That he was upset that I thought anything different! SO, I apologized and told him I wouldn't bring it up again.... WTF? Now you change your mind? You couldn't tell me this before all the appointments, blood works, stupid pills, and sleepless nights. I was so excited to finally be able to TTC and here I am with the rug ripped out from under me and lay flat on the floor.

He says he's sorry that he had to do this and that he knows it's devastating me. But he just couldn't go through with it because then he'd hate his life and be miserable. I understand his fears about money, it's a logical reason. But this has been here the whole time and it has not changed!!!
What did I do to deserve this???

Sorry I just needed to vent!

I'm so sorry :hugs: That is terrible. Does he want kids at all? I think that'd be my next question to him.
 
It would nice to know I'm barfing my brains out because of my hormones due to pregnancy but I tested on Saturday and it was a :bfn:
 
So today was another sad day for me. I think I started getting my hopes up because I had not had any more bleeding since last Wednesday (4 dpo I had some small amount of bleeding for a few hours). I also had gotten very sore BBS, which is not normal for me, so there was a little light still in the back of my mind that this could happen and just in time for Christmas! But of course the minute I get some hope, my hope gets crushed. I went to the bathroom at work (it always has to be a work) and there is was, for right now it is just some light bleeding, some pink and brownish, but I am definitely getting cramps like I do before my period starts and I am 99% sure the witch will be arriving tomorrow. My DH keeps telling me that is will happen, when it happens and I am trying to think positive, but sometimes it is just so hard when you want something so bad and month after month you keep getting let down. Trying to not let this drag me down to much, but at this point it is hard to be positive :(
 
It's O week and I have flu, DH is on late shift AND has a cold sore! Just tattoo me with not getting pregnant this month and get it over with.
Rapidly approaching 2 years yay me!
:growlmad::cry::growlmad::cry::growlmad::cry::growlmad::cry::growlmad:
 
My due date would've been today and what's the first thing I see on facebook..... Someone's ultrasound pic.... Blah!
 
:cry: On to cycle 4... :witch: arrived this AM. This is so depressing. I dont have really anyone else to vent to and I hoped forums would help. They just seem to make it worse. Im so discouraged and have no idea how some ladies are going on YEARS ttc. My poor DH tries to reassure me it will be okay, and next time it will happen... But im still so sad. Probably because our good friend has gotten TWO girls pregnant "by accident" (yes 2!), while were TRYING to have a sweet little baby with no luck.
 
My response to all the people on fb posting pregnancy facts

Since everyone's doing facts about pregnancy I think I'll spoil the fun.

1.Not all couples can have babies. Some people actually have to try or go through invasive medical treatment in order to have a child of their own. & still may never get that blessing.
2.Not all pregnancies end in happy endings. Miscarriages,still births, ectopic pregnancies, SIDS,etc. Do happen.
3. I don't have kids nor am I pregnant so why do I care? Because these things go unnoticed & unlike everyone else I'm not afraid to open my mouth about em.
Feel free to repost if you agree that people should become aware & considerate of these things<3
 

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