Trying To Conceive #1 Only Vent Thread

[Nazz4]

hi, im 11dpt , i had a single embryo transfer done 11 days ago i just did a hpt and it came back negative,it was a 2dt. is there still hope for me??

idk what a 2dt means, but I think there is still hope! Just test again in a couple or few days and don't worry too much, keep your chin up.

 

[Astridastrid]

I've had enough.

Enough of what??

Had a bad day, DW.

Awwww I'm sorry to hear. But what does DW mean??

DW = don't worry. It's okay, has put me off celebrating my birthdays in future though.

No don't allow that kind of mind set to make a home in your head. I understand how all of this can be frustrating. But you cannot set out to not celebrate future birthdays. Your will come and when he/she comes and you begin celebrating their birthday you will begin appreciating yours again.

 

[Astridastrid]

Yikes!!

 

[Astridastrid]

I was already on the edge, and today I was pushed of the cliff but instead of dying on impact I just laid there severely injured at the bottom of a canyon until I was slowly eaten alive by vultures.

Yikes!!

 

[AlyCon]

Yikes!!

Thanks! Hugs to you too! It's been really rough for me lately. Sorry If that was too morbid lol I was in my dark place

 

[Astridastrid]

Yikes!!

Thanks! Hugs to you too! It's been really rough for me lately. Sorry If that was too morbid lol I was in my dark place

Naaw it's fine this is the forum for venting after all. Lol . I hope you get your soon. Cause man this whole ttc can be trying.

 

[Aradia]

I am pretty depressed. I tried soy for the first time this cycle, and I think it keeps giving me false positives on my OPK. I really doubt that I'm going to ovulate this time around. I'm so pissed off at my doctor, all he did for us was prescribe Clomid for me. Twelve rounds of it.

 

[Limm]

I was mainly put off from celebrating my future birthdays because my OH tried to organise a surprise gathering at our local and one friend and 3 friends of my OH showed up. My friend then had to leave early as he lives elsewhere now and the others started playing darts or pool whilst I sat on my tod and drinking cider.
The worst part is this isn't the first, second or third time this has happened either. Not even forth or fifth. The fact that I also have no idea what's going on with my body right now, I can't get a job in this stupid town, me and my husband don't have a home to call our own and numerous BFNs just made things more upsetting.
15 days late and I have to wait a further 10 days 'til my blood test. Despite not getting a single BFP yet I still feel the need to test every other day until then. Hoping to get some answers soon as well as sort out the other parts of my life going poop.

 

[Nazz4]

I was mainly put off from celebrating my future birthdays because my OH tried to organise a surprise gathering at our local and one friend and 3 friends of my OH showed up. My friend then had to leave early as he lives elsewhere now and the others started playing darts or pool whilst I sat on my tod and drinking cider.
The worst part is this isn't the first, second or third time this has happened either. Not even forth or fifth. The fact that I also have no idea what's going on with my body right now, I can't get a job in this stupid town, me and my husband don't have a home to call our own and numerous BFNs just made things more upsetting.
15 days late and I have to wait a further 10 days 'til my blood test. Despite not getting a single BFP yet I still feel the need to test every other day until then. Hoping to get some answers soon as well as sort out the other parts of my life going poop.

I'm sorry... my friends threw me a party on my last birthday and the party ended up being a bunch of their friends that I didn't even know, and none of them knew me or that it was my birthday. There were only a few people there that were actually my friends and even they weren't really acting like it was my birthday. This year I spent my birthday with my OH and our dog. It was perfect. Hang in there, I'm on the testing every other day schedule as well. Tomorrow I will be 5 days late.

 

[Astridastrid]

I was mainly put off from celebrating my future birthdays because my OH tried to organise a surprise gathering at our local and one friend and 3 friends of my OH showed up. My friend then had to leave early as he lives elsewhere now and the others started playing darts or pool whilst I sat on my tod and drinking cider.
The worst part is this isn't the first, second or third time this has happened either. Not even forth or fifth. The fact that I also have no idea what's going on with my body right now, I can't get a job in this stupid town, me and my husband don't have a home to call our own and numerous BFNs just made things more upsetting.
15 days late and I have to wait a further 10 days 'til my blood test. Despite not getting a single BFP yet I still feel the need to test every other day until then. Hoping to get some answers soon as well as sort out the other parts of my life going poop.

Sorry to inform you that no one has kept a party for you in over 5 years! (So save yourself the heartache and put a stop to it)When you keep a "surprise party" for someone your suppose to know who their real friends are to invite that will actually show up...unless you don't have many of those. If that's the case chin up you will no doubt find a few here. In any event your birthdays should not be about your friends it's about you. So tell ur hubby no more "surprises" and try to make your birthday special for yourself . Plan a trip to the park or vacation or even a hike for yourself something you know will make you feel good.

As for your job I can't help you with that. Except to say nothing in life is constant. As long as the earth moves around the sun and day changes to night life will continue to change. So hey that's good news for you that means you MUST find a job at some point. Have patience I believe it will happen at the right time.

As for your baby you will get your little bundle of joy and when you do suddenly everything else will seem either trivial or so much more possible!
After all, in these forums what are we all but "possibility thinkers" we are all here because somewhere in the back of our heads we have a hope for babies and we aim to put in all our best efforts to make that possible. your in great company we will support and encourage as much as we all can

 

[vidyarashil]

Hi all,
I am new bee to this forum.. I have been trying to conceive for almost 1 and 1/2 years.. i had cyst and got it removed through laproscopy last month .. This month i had undergone ovulation induction.. first attempt to Ovulation induction..

 

[Astridastrid]

Hi all,
I am new bee to this forum.. I have been trying to conceive for almost 1 and 1/2 years.. i had cyst and got it removed through laproscopy last month .. This month i had undergone ovulation induction.. first attempt to Ovulation induction..

Hi welcome you'll fit right in !
what method of induction are you using for ovulation ?

 

[spanishgirl]

Hi ladies,
just wanted to join in. I need an outlet, I am not telling many people about my fertility concerns and the stress is getting to me. My DH is trying the best he can, but men don't understand how a woman feels when the issue lies within her. This month, FEB, is officially one year trying to conceive, the last quarter of 2012 was riddled with stress for me. I am hoping and praying that this will be our year. I have never had one single and I am beyond frustrated.
Sigh. . .

 

[vidyarashil]

from 3rd of my period my doctor staring injecting HMG to produce more follicle and on day 14th i got 2 follicles of 2cm .. my husband and i had intercourse two times for four days.. but we travelled 350 kms fifth day of intercourse.. i had lots of chicken,... is it wrong?

 

[krr]

This site gives me hope bc so many sweet ppl on here have been able to concieve (jealous!!)

Sadly I STILL havent had my LH surge and I am testing 3x a day. I JUST WANT TO SEE A +!!!!!!!!!! ahhhh!! ...lol Just when I think the lignes are progressively getting darker they start to get lighter, & never darker than the control line. It's all I can think about, I swear! & It is making me SO EMOTIONAL! ANYWAYS, glad I am not the only frustrated one over here!

Hope everyone has a lovely rest-of-their weekend!! & BABY DUST TO ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
xoxo from Texas

 

[krr]

Hi ladies,
just wanted to join in. I need an outlet, I am not telling many people about my fertility concerns and the stress is getting to me. My DH is trying the best he can, but men don't understand how a woman feels when the issue lies within her. This month, FEB, is officially one year trying to conceive, the last quarter of 2012 was riddled with stress for me. I am hoping and praying that this will be our year. I have never had one single and I am beyond frustrated.
Sigh. . .

I agree with you. It's all bottled up inside bc you don't want to stress your hubs out w/ all this crazy info. I havent even told my mom & we are super close!!! She has me on accident (NOT FAIR) in HS so she totally will not understand where I'm coming from... I feel all alone (until I found this site yesterday) & I cry all throughout the day! I wish I could occupy my mind with something else, but I just wanted to let you know I'm right there w ya.

Praying for you & yours!

 

[AlyCon]

Watching 19 kids and Counting. Why do I torture myself??

 

[Jett55]

My fiance thinks if we stop having sex that God's guna like magically fix all our problems becuz you shouldn't have sex til ur married umm... 1. We already broke that so screw it & 2. Don't tell me u want kids then turn around & tell me we shouldn't have sex uggg! My fiance makes no sense most of the time... :/ btw not tryin to bash any religion but its just how I feel I don't believe things are goin to get better just because you stop "sinning"... Very frustrated right now & thought it'd help to vent

 

[tamithomas]

Just got a new dog today, Bouvier Des Flandres mix. When will it be a new human baby? I love welcoming pets into my home but I long for the day when it will be a mini human entering our house.

 

[trying2beamom]

tamithomas Just got a new dog today, Bouvier Des Flandres mix. When will it be a new human baby? I love welcoming pets into my home but I long for the day when it will be a mini human entering our house.

i want one of those sooooo bad. that is my dream dog, ive wanted one since i was 4. they are great with kids my grandma had one when i was a baby and i beat that poor girl up and she never even growl or nip at me.