Trying To Conceive #1 Only Vent Thread

[tamithomas]

Dear "How I got pregnant on my first month of TTC" no you don't know how you got pregnant or what worked. You were just two very fertile people who succeeded normally. You're in no position to give advice to LTTC'ers!

 

[Limm]

Still in F$%^ING limbo.
Tuesday needs to hurry up.

 

[spanishgirl]

I know how you feel. I am my parents only married daughter, 1 of 2, and they are both foaming at the mouth for grandkids. It hurts that I can't make them grandparents, the good thing is they know I am trying and have become a great support system. But my husbands family has no clue, I don't really know them well, and they are a large family so we get insensitive comments all the time. TTC is so emotionally brutal.

 

[AlyCon]

Anxious, frustrated, nervous, confused, scared and somewhat excited!! Contemplating testing before my appt.. I've been symptom spotting like crazy, I just hope its not all in my head.

 

[AlyCon]

Dear "How I got pregnant on my first month of TTC" no you don't know how you got pregnant or what worked. You were just two very fertile people who succeeded normally. You're in no position to give advice to LTTC'ers!

OMG!!! The nerve of some people!!

 

[babyfever03]

Hi everyone! So Idk if I'm over exaggerating or not but, I have a friend that is expecting and the pregnancy was unplanned. In the beginning she was feeling bad that she conceived while I was trying (not that I want her to feel bad) but, now I swear it's like she rubs it in my face! She only wants to talk about her pregnancy now and anytime I'm around her she plays it up. She waddles and acts like it's so hard to do anything and she rubs her belly constantly. She barely has a belly! Not even due until July. Idk if it's me being jealous but she is really getting on my nerves!! I do have three other friends that are expecting but I'm not bothered by them. ???? Well thanks for letting me vent! Good luck to everyone.

Nah you're not over reacting at all. This is why I avoided a friend of mine a little while back. Her pregnancy was completely unplanned and she knew we were trying. Suddenly it's like it totally slipped her mind and did everything you said. Add insult to injury, her baby was born 2 weeks after my M/C. When her boyfriend called we told him about the M/C and all he had was "well that sucks, hey want to come to see the baby!" like as if we broke a nail.

Wow people can really be A-holes! They make you wanna punch them in the face. I also forgot to mention that my friend thinks that people are supposed to cater to her. Sorry sweetie I didn't get you that way so I don't owe you anything. The man that got her pregnant doesn't even wanna be bothered with her because she acts like she is handicapped! Anyway thanks for sharing . I'm sorry to hear about your m/c. Good luck this cycle!

 

[tamithomas]

Dear "How I got pregnant on my first month of TTC" no you don't know how you got pregnant or what worked. You were just two very fertile people who succeeded normally. You're in no position to give advice to LTTC'ers!

OMG!!! The nerve of some people!!

It's a video I found on youtube while searching for infertility related stuff, in the recommendation box there was one labeled "Tips on how I got pregnant on first month TTC". Watched it, by the end I wanted to punch my computer screen She was saying how it was the position and non sense like that. Add cherry to the icing, many girls were asking her information about fertility like as if she was a fertility specialist. lol

 

[AlyCon]

Tamithomas Omg you're so right that's complete nonsense!

In other news, I've decided to test either tomorrow or Monday. And I was wondering if i got my BFP would you ladies mind if I shared my results with you? I'm not really a part of any specific thread. I post here the most and I've noticed this thread has its regulars so it seems like so much more than just a vent thread to me. Everyone's been so supportive of each other here so I would definitely want to share with you all (good news or bad). But if you don't want me to I'll totally respect that! just let me know. Good luck to everyone!

 

[tamithomas]

Tamithomas Omg you're so right that's complete nonsense!

In other news, I've decided to test either tomorrow or Monday. And I was wondering if i got my BFP would you ladies mind if I shared my results with you? I'm not really a part of any specific thread. I post here the most and I've noticed this thread has its regulars so it seems like so much more than just a vent thread to me. Everyone's been so supportive of each other here so I would definitely want to share with you all (good news or bad). But if you don't want me to I'll totally respect that! just let me know. Good luck to everyone!

Crossing my fingers for you hun I always love hearing LTTC results, those don't bug me the slightest

 

[AlyCon]

Crossing my fingers for you hun I always love hearing LTTC results, those don't bug me the slightest

Thanks!! I'm so nervous!! :/

 

[Sam10]

So frustrated! Got what I thought was spotting Friday night (actually was like a dot of blood and what looked like a small blood clot) and figured my period was on it's way. lolnope! Still almost a week late. All tests are BFN. Keep holding out hope that it was implantation bleeding and my cycle was just off (dates wrong). I do not have much hope left in me though. So tired of getting negative results. I do not have any symptoms suggesting pregnancy or my period. Just kind of in limbo. I have been so stressed because of stuff with my job and home life. I hate to think that all of that stress is causing this because I want it to be due to pregnancy so badly. This entire TTC ordeal is making me so overwhelmed and depressed.

 

[Limm]

Another HPT done today. Another BFN.
I'm hoping it doesn't turn out it's all because of something as stupid as my body missing a period.
23 days late now.

 

[AlyCon]

Got a BFN on a CB digital today. I will get some FRERs Tuesday and test again. And of course my blood test Monday.. FX for you Limm!!

 

[Limm]

FX for you too AlyCon! My blood test is on Tuesday so we shall have to let each other know how we get on.

Husband reckons its a big coincidence that the minute we start trying I am then late for my AF, so we shall see.

Also doesn't help that a girl we both know, who didn't plan on having any more, is expecting twins. Boy and girl. Takes the piss a bit.

 

[tamithomas]

Sending you my prayers and crossing my fingers for you ladies!!!

 

[JJB]

GL gals!! Lots of to you all!! I have 5 more days until AF is supposed to arrive. Hope she doesn't of course! I've been having some symptoms this time around but I never know whether to trust that or not...mostly I notice it when I exercise. I get really dizzy and tired. I notice that I get out of breath really easily even though the workout that I'm doing is only moderate and I should be able to handle it. And then a couple of times I felt really nauseous afterward. Yesterday and today I have some localized cramping around my pelvic area which is strange because I normally don't get cramps until the night before AF...so I'm hoping that these are all good signs...but who knows? It could mean nothing lol.

 

[tamithomas]

Not really TTC related but grrrrr, I'm due for AF on Thursday-Friday and my Mom and Step Father are due to arrive in town for the weekend Friday evening. This should be a blast since Saturday we're spending the day walking around and shopping (I know for a fact no if's and's or but's that I'm not BFP as we haven't TTC for 2 months now, unless by some miracle I was artificially inseminated by Aliens LOL jk)

 

[JJB]

Not really TTC related but grrrrr, I'm due for AF on Thursday-Friday and my Mom and Step Father are due to arrive in town for the weekend Friday evening. This should be a blast since Saturday we're spending the day walking around and shopping (I know for a fact no if's and's or but's that I'm not BFP as we haven't TTC for 2 months now, unless by some miracle I was artificially inseminated by Aliens LOL jk)

Ack! I hate when that happens! Nothing worse than walking around all day when on your AF. Pain meds help to a certain degree...but, at least for me, not completely. Hopefully AF isn't too bad and you have a great time!

 

[Limm]

It's not really a vent but it's starting to sink in how serious I consider tomorrow being. If my blood test comes back negative it means a longer process with potential tests and stuff, yet if it comes back positive then it will be amazing but scary too because it will be real and really happening after thinking all my life that something that good could never happen for me.
Not sure if I'm going to get much sleep.

 

[AlyCon]

Good luck Limm!! My blood test isn't until next Monday (sorry I should have been more clear). Baby dust for everybody!!