Trying To Conceive 2012-2013 Babies Club!

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  1. Beautifullei2

    Beautifullei2 Well-Known Member

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    Oh thats awesome!! Yall get to both experience having the 1st :D :dust: your way :D

    Just make sure you :sex: plenty during Ovulation time so you can get your BFP :happydance:


    I have a 4 year old DD & My DH has a 11 year old DD.. We just got married and have been trying for some time for one of our own (more trying now that we are married) Hoping for a boy but ill be happy with either or :cloud9:
     
  2. GemmaC11

    GemmaC11 New Member

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    Yea we are both excited, scared but excited. I shall keep you posted on progress and hopefully it will be first time lucky! :)
     
  3. Daejin

    Daejin Active Member

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    Hi,
    I'm 22 (almost 23) and me and my bf are TTC#1, so far not so good I'm afraid, it's only been 3/4 months and nothing. We have already said that we want kids and get married, but atm I want a baby, I've had depression the past month and all I can think about is having a baby, I know it sounds crazy but this is really all I can think about and all I want, I think the worst part is that me and my brothers fiance have been trying and today she told me that she got a BFP.. so far I've had 2/3 BFN and all i want is a BFP.. this is breaking my heart... My bf means the absolute world to me and we both want kids, he's a year younger than me and I'm at that stage in life where I am started to become broody and desire kids, I'm not 1000% sure he understands how I feel about the subject. Sometimes he's all up for it and then times he seems to back away from the idea, it's confusing and such an emotional rollercoaster.... I hope he understands and I hope for a BFP... i hope so much...

    I just need some help, some support and friends that can help me through this
     
  4. Niki_FL

    Niki_FL New Member

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    Hi there. I'm 39 and DH is 54. I have an 18 yo and he has 3 grown children. Been trying for 2 years (after a lot of careful consideration and discussion) with no luck.

    A few dpo I started cramping. Couple days later, add low back pain and now mild constipation. Constipation is new to me - NEVER experienced before for any reason. Cramping and back pain is new only in that it never happens until day before AF.

    BD on 9th, ov on 10th. I've never had such persistent cramping or back pain. It's constant with few breaks and I have to move around/go for short walks due to being so uncomfortable.

    I want to be optimistic but is not easy after 2 years of let downs when AF shows up. Also, this is new since it's been almost 20 years since #1 and there is a HUGE diff between 20 and 40! I think I'm just looking for encouragement.

    Let's all have babies.
     
  5. bbygurl719

    bbygurl719 mom to 2 n TTC

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    Hey all. I'm officially NTNP now. no longer waiting for may so i now feel like i belong in this tread!!
     
  6. GemmaC11

    GemmaC11 New Member

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    How's everyone doing? :) x
     
  7. almosthere

    almosthere Family of 4!

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    Hi ladies-I am out and onto cycle 8...bring on a 2013 baby!!!
     
  8. Too_Much

    Too_Much Well-Known Member

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    hi everyone

    sorry been away, no posts for a while!

    well i just want to share my latest idea for dealing with all this TTC

    this weekend my husband and i went away to Scotland and we had such a nice time together! after a hrd week of BDing and OPKs etc it was so nice to switch off and just enjoy ourselves..we hardly focused on baby talk etc..so it was nice distraction

    so i think we want to find more ways of switching off like this! all the TTC-ing can really drive you nuts and the disappointment each month is so hard

    hopefully we can 'distract' ourselves like this each month, and make the tTC journey better!!

    :)
     
  9. almosthere

    almosthere Family of 4!

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    dont want to read and run but have to go haha. i just wanted to say it sounds like we are in similar situations will chat more- =)
     
  10. Daejin

    Daejin Active Member

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    haha no worries i just read your post now lol youre in the same situation are you? :)
     
  11. rain drop

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    i can completely relate. i was having anxiety attacks last month because i was so stressed out about not getting pregnany, to a point that i wanted to take a break from trying. it's so depressing and stressfull... but i decided to keep going. i want that baby so badly! hoping for a BFP soon
     
  12. Too_Much

    Too_Much Well-Known Member

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    Hi there
    so sorry to hear how difficult its been..but trust me youre in teh right place..we all are in similiar siuations so really helps to talk to people who DO understand!
    one thing i found is that wehn i was getting all obesessed, only thinking and brooding i found it much harder. recently ive been finding things to distract myself- abd by getting busy with that, not getting so wrapped up and then dying of disappointment..ijust helps through the journey if u see what i mean
    my BFF got preg with her 2nd one in 1 month!! so i also felt so sad, although happy for her of course
    but if u believ in God, then yoy know HE has a good plan for us..and trust that the timings HE has are perfect ;) we may not understand it but HE does
    we just have to keep doing the best we can.. i keep trying new things each month - body talk, accupucnture, reflexology, OPKs and now started BBT!

    onto cycle #5, here goes
    lots of love and baby luck to everyone
    well get there!

    ;)
     
  13. almosthere

    almosthere Family of 4!

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    Hi ladies, I know I have been MIA for a bit-just checking in-do I have any tww buddies? I just got my pos opk very early this am!
     
  14. almosthere

    almosthere Family of 4!

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    Hi!! So first of all, I am 22, turning 23 in June! Second, I felt the same way going into my 3rd and 4th month of ttc.....I have been ttc since mid Sept. although that is the same month I went of bcps after being on them for about 5 years non stop (aside from some mistakes in taking them lol)! I am very hopeful this month though, and trying to stay strong!! Where are you in your cycle now? I am almost 1dpo-I decided to start opks for this round and if nothing happens, off to the FS to try and get a second round of tests done-hopefully for cd21 progesterone issues!
     
  15. almosthere

    almosthere Family of 4!

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    raindrop-sorry you are having so much anxiety-for me, at least, it has gotten better-I realized I have to try not to stress and ball my eyes out as much as possible, although I still have the I am not pregnant this month cry with my bfn next to me...but that is ok, and i am sure, only natural!! I know it is hard to prevent attacks, sometimes uncontrollable (I have them too-but mine are not related to ttc and more random like when I go into shock and freak out!!!) Anywho, hope it also gets better for you, and remember, you will get pregnant-lets stick together and be strong ladies!!!! Here's to a January 2013 DUE DATE, woohoo!!
     
  16. motherofboys

    motherofboys Mum of 4 boys. Baby 5 due April

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    Hi there,
    I'm 25, will be 26 in July.
    I'm TTC number4.
    I already have 3 boys who are 6, 4 and 2.
    Its taken longer each time TTC so far (1st baby was 1st month, 2nd baby 7th month, 3rd baby took 12 months) and I'm hoping its not going to repeat itself taking even longer again. Technically I have been TTC 21 months because we stopped using BC back in July 2010, but due to breastfeeding (we are still breastfeeding) I didnt actually get my periods until August 2011 so am only counting from then really.
     
  17. almosthere

    almosthere Family of 4!

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    sounds like we basically started around the same time-i did in sept-hope you fall soon!!
     
  18. bbygurl719

    bbygurl719 mom to 2 n TTC

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    Hi im 22 will b 23 in july. im on my first month ttc for #2. My daugher will b 5 months on thrus. and fri is when my af is due. it took me 7 months of ttc my daughter and than the monh i got pregnant i had given up and said if it happens it happens.
     
  19. almosthere

    almosthere Family of 4!

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    welcome to the thread! we are SOOO close in age-what day in july? i will be 23 on june 23rd lol. Hoping to be pregnant before I turn 23!!! I am sooo feeling it this month, just hope DH will be able to BD tonight-we have the past 3 days in a row, so I am hoping for one to two more nights of BD to cover all basis. This is my 8th month of ttc, so hoping it happens for mee!! and all others on this thread!
     
  20. bbygurl719

    bbygurl719 mom to 2 n TTC

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    ill b 23 july 19th. and ive post in here couple times but no one really reponded so ive just been reading.. hope its my month bu very much doubt it its only my 1st month
     

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