Trying To Conceive After Tubal Reversal

[rachelh4207]

Rachel, yeah for AF not too often we find that to be good news around here but getting the cycle back normal is a BIG deal

Just wanted to give you girls an update on my HSG, which was today..BOTH TUBES ARE OPEN dr. said they looked perfect..never would have guessed they had been sewn back together! I was really nervous about the procedure and pain, but felt almost NOTHING! (Could have been due to the 2 Oxycodone I took 1hr. prior) so happy RE looked over my previous tests and said..."time for hubby to have an SA..is he here? When's the last time you had sex? Alright, get him in here and let's get a sample" ...ahhhhh, we had NO idea we would accomplish an hsg and SA in the same visit dh did GREAT! We got a good sample and the clinic will call tomorrow with results now it's dh's turn to worry...he's been pacing the floor, wondering if its been HIM, all this time anyway, so glad we're moving forward and we'll see what tomorrow brings

YAHHHH FOR OPEN TUBES!!!!!!! So exciting! I have heard some get pregnant afterwards so praying!!!!!!!!!! when will you hear about hubby?

 

[FaithHopeLove]

Rachel, we hear back tomorrow! I love working with a big fertility clinic...they can do all tests in house! I'll post the results tomorrow! PoOr hubby its really worried. I told him its okay if its not too good......we can work on that! Better than me having to have a 2nd surgery..

 

[Dash]

Oh Faith thats so great about your tubes! Make sure yo update today about the tests

 

[future_numan]

Rachel, yeah for AF not too often we find that to be good news around here but getting the cycle back normal is a BIG deal

Just wanted to give you girls an update on my HSG, which was today..BOTH TUBES ARE OPEN dr. said they looked perfect..never would have guessed they had been sewn back together! I was really nervous about the procedure and pain, but felt almost NOTHING! (Could have been due to the 2 Oxycodone I took 1hr. prior) so happy RE looked over my previous tests and said..."time for hubby to have an SA..is he here? When's the last time you had sex? Alright, get him in here and let's get a sample" ...ahhhhh, we had NO idea we would accomplish an hsg and SA in the same visit dh did GREAT! We got a good sample and the clinic will call tomorrow with results now it's dh's turn to worry...he's been pacing the floor, wondering if its been HIM, all this time anyway, so glad we're moving forward and we'll see what tomorrow brings

 

[FaithHopeLove]

grrrrr...so we *patiently* waited today for dh's sa results..not wanting to pester the clinic, I decided to phone them at 3pm if they hadn't called my then...so, 3pm rolls around..no call, so I phone them and they close at noon on Fridays really frustrating (and kinda funny...poor dh is sweating bullets at the thought that HE may be the cause of no baby after 13 mo. of trying..he was sooo upset that no one told use they close early on Friday) The whole testing was so spur of the moment and at almost closing time yesterday, that they told us they wouldn't have the results until today, BUT no one mentioned the hours. Guess who will be their VERY FIRST caller on Monday morning Anyway, just wanted to update you all

We have lots going on this weekend, so hopefully it will keep dh's mind occupied

 

[Dash]

grrrrr...so we *patiently* waited today for dh's sa results..not wanting to pester the clinic, I decided to phone them at 3pm if they hadn't called my then...so, 3pm rolls around..no call, so I phone them and they close at noon on Fridays really frustrating (and kinda funny...poor dh is sweating bullets at the thought that HE may be the cause of no baby after 13 mo. of trying..he was sooo upset that no one told use they close early on Friday) The whole testing was so spur of the moment and at almost closing time yesterday, that they told us they wouldn't have the results until today, BUT no one mentioned the hours. Guess who will be their VERY FIRST caller on Monday morning Anyway, just wanted to update you all

We have lots going on this weekend, so hopefully it will keep dh's mind occupied

How frustrating! I will have to check back Monday- I got on today just to see if there were any results

My cousin who has been trying for 2 years just found out she was pg last week. She had her betas drawn yesterday and they did not get back to her before the close for the weekend. Poor girl!

 

[mommax3]

faith I just poped on and saw you have great tubes yay!!!!!!!! i will pop back on monday hope there will be more good news maybe your tube cleaning will get u a bfp! fingers crossed

 

[FaithHopeLove]

Girls, your so sweet thanks for thinking of me we're really anxious to hear the results! Dh was just talking about it again tonight...he's on pins and needles just waiting.... I will be sooo shocked if it comes back *bad*...only because it was never a problem in the past and I don't feel like 37 is really *old* for still having healthy sperm. However, the RE said he's seen cases where men have 4 or 5 kids and then find out..after wanting more, that sperm has changed

Dash, that is so exciting about your cousin I hope her betas are GOOD...how very, very insensitive of the dr.s office to just *not* call with the results BEFORE THE WEEKEND! As I recall, this very thing happened to you in the beginning, right? Ugh.. So, how is sweet Bettie doing? We need an updated pic

Mommx3, how is school going? What are you studying? I Can't believe your little Emery is already 6 weeks old...I'm sure she's cuter than ever

Has anyone heard from MamaBrown? I *thought* she was having laparoscopic surgery last Thursday..but I could be wrong...I tend to lose track of what's going on with everyone...I hope she's doing well.

Lissa, how are you feeling? Still really tired? I hope you're getting lots of rest

I hope everyone else is moving forward...getting that much closer to our miracle babies

 

[BrandiCanucks]

How do you get through the anxiousness and impatience of waiting for the reversal? I'm excited for it, but it's so far away at the same time. I'm almost depressed about having to wait because of a lack of finances at the moment. I wish I could just reverse tomorrow and start trying.

 

[resque07]

so 45 days later af shows today. ni have not ovulated since my surgery and even when i was on the clomid nothing happened i am so upset and heartbroken as im thinking these are all signs that its just wasnt meant to be im giving up....

 

[FaithHopeLove]

resque, remind me, when was your surgery? TR can really mess with your cycle for SEVERAL months! Did you have any hormone testing prior to surgery? Don't give up too soon! What are your feelings on herbal medicine? I know there are many women who have been helped (those not O'ing) with natural health alternatives. Stay the course

 

[FaithHopeLove]

How do you get through the anxiousness and impatience of waiting for the reversal? I'm excited for it, but it's so far away at the same time. I'm almost depressed about having to wait because of a lack of finances at the moment. I wish I could just reverse tomorrow and start trying.

Brandi, I'm sure it's really hard to wait, when you want something so bad! We made a firm decision for surgery in Aug. 2010 and I had surgery Nov. 2010. The wait seemed like a really long time to me! The best advice I can give, is KNOW your cycles and get your body as healthy as possible. Consistent exercise of some sort and a good prenatal vitamin! AND, enjoy the time with your little ones you already have...the time passes quickly with those precious little guys

 

[resque07]

my surgery was may 26th 2011. they did no testing before . i have been every month on my 21 day to do blood work dr says everything is great just not ovulating. he tried clomid but nothing ever happened even with the higest dosage.i believe he said the highest my progestrone got with the highest dosage was 7.9. then he told me there was nothing he could do i would have to see a specialist to do iui etc. i asked about the hsg test. and he said he preformed one after the surgery and every thing was clear and opened. i cant see specialist as we dont have the finances to do uiu or ivf. so i am just throwing the towel in if it ever happens than yay if it dont i gotta find a way to be okay with that aqlthough it seems like the end of the world for me....lol!

 

[rachelh4207]

my surgery was may 26th 2011. they did no testing before . i have been every month on my 21 day to do blood work dr says everything is great just not ovulating. he tried clomid but nothing ever happened even with the higest dosage.i believe he said the highest my progestrone got with the highest dosage was 7.9. then he told me there was nothing he could do i would have to see a specialist to do iui etc. i asked about the hsg test. and he said he preformed one after the surgery and every thing was clear and opened. i cant see specialist as we dont have the finances to do uiu or ivf. so i am just throwing the towel in if it ever happens than yay if it dont i gotta find a way to be okay with that aqlthough it seems like the end of the world for me....lol!

I am so sorry I do want to share with you something though- I have a friend who tried for a baby for 5 years. Went to the specialist and had every test, tried everything. And the doctor finally told them after 5 years that there was no hope in his opinion- to look into adoption....Well my friend (who wanted to be a mother more than anything in the world) Prayed, and prayed, and prayed....and prayed and prayed....I mean prayed without ceasing...for God to heal her body....And she quit obsessing over temps, quit going to the doctor, quit timing intercourse, and just prayed......and she got pregnant that month! The same month the doctor said it was hopeless....She then got pregnant a 2nd time while still nursing her first....With God nothing is impossible. I am praying for you- (if that's okay with you) Just enjoy time with your husband and take a break from watching the dates, timing stuff- Just don't give up hope yet

 

[rachelh4207]

Girls, your so sweet thanks for thinking of me we're really anxious to hear the results! Dh was just talking about it again tonight...he's on pins and needles just waiting.... I will be sooo shocked if it comes back *bad*...only because it was never a problem in the past and I don't feel like 37 is really *old* for still having healthy sperm. However, the RE said he's seen cases where men have 4 or 5 kids and then find out..after wanting more, that sperm has changed

Can't wait to hear from you
37 is FAR from old and i believe that just as easily as sperm can change for the worst, you can still get pregnant easily with a low count. Even if the test does not come back perfect- NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE WITH GOD. Praying for you!!!!!

 

[FaithHopeLove]

Rachel, I agree completely! ANYTHING is possible with God

resque, have you tried googling *inducing ovulation naturally* or something similar? I know I have ready many stories about women who weren't ovulating but were able to do so with natural herbs. BabynBump has threads on this topic too! Try searching on here! as far as the hsg goes, I would probably hold off on that until you KNOW you're ovulating

Afm, called the clinic for the SA results...never new there was so much to sperm dr. said everything looked normal..except the sample was *viscous* ..meaning it should have been the consistency of milk after 30 min. but his had more the consistency of honey. This can make it hard for the sperm to swim through and too thick to get past the cervix. Dr. said dh needs to stay well hydrated and take antioxidants. It's crazy..here I've been so focused on finding good supplements for ME when DH really needed a solid focus, too Soooo, I just ordered a bottle of FertilAid for Men and a bottle of CountBoost (although count was 75 mil...and I understand 8 mil gets the job done)..both supplements should give him an overall *kick in the pants* ....so, I'm excited that we can move forward with some possible causes as to WHY it hasn't happened yet

 

[resque07]

Thank you everyone fore the kind words and support you girls always know what to say. I have two children and with my first son I tired getting pregnant for 2 and half years my periods were never regular my whole life. I remeber when I was pregnant with my first son I didn't even know because I hadn't had a period in months. Bit I was 16 weeks. Pregnant with him an d I remeber all the praying I had done for 2 years or more. After I had him my periods became very regular. I have never taken birth control in my life and after having my first son my ex and I never prevented another pregnancy but it wasn't until 22 months later I was pregnant again and when I found out I tested because that was the first month I had missed my preriod since having my first son I was only 6 weeks along then. So im trying to tell myself that I have always had this problem since it has taken me so long to get pregnant both times. Thank you for all the prayers and I will keep praying as well.

 

[rachelh4207]

FaithHopeLove YAHHHHH on the good news!!!!! I know your husband is relieved

 

[chica0126]

hi ladies...it has been a while...so i thought i would update a little...i was originally scheduled for my tubal reversal on may 22, but they bumped it up so now i am scheduled for my tubal reversal on MAY 8!!!! So that is GREAT...and i am now down to my last 4 installments and the surgery will be completely paid for...so i am very excited...i cannot wait...i am counting down the days literally...i also already informed my job that i will be having surgery and they said that it was fine that i just needed to tell them when it is and how long i will be gone.. So things are going pretty good...I am getting excited...I am also excited about this trip for my TR because we are leaving a few days earlier since my hubby's family live close to where i am having the surgery so we thought that we would go see family as well...so kinda like a mini vacation and my surgery all in one...but as time approaches i will keep you ladies informed...take care girls

Baby dust!!!!!

 

[BrandiCanucks]

So apart from saving up, I've taken the next step towards a reversal...the referral and appointment. I found a fertility clinic about an hour away from me who boasts this:

Our results have been consistent over the years with success rate of 100% for tubal patency and 90% for pregnancy rate. The most important factors are the female age, the method of initial sterilization, semen parameters and the presence of other female factors.

Should I believe these rates or are they exaggerated?