TTC #1 and over 30

[bakingbabe]

pbl - so so sorry to hear of your loss I'm not sure if this helps, but my friend is 34 and in second tri after miscarriage, and my mum had a miscarriage at 38 and went on to have my younger sister!

Good luck to those waiting to O or are in their fertile phase!

Baking - hope you are not too stressed! How was the talk with the dr?

How's everyone else in the TWW? Lily, Luna, Bubbles, Loukachu?

Yesterday i was 7dpo, and I had a temp dip of 0.4F with a pink spot when I wiped! Told myself I wouldn't crazy symptom spot this cycle but those are hard to ignore! (unfortunately today I got the same temp, that's prob not good to have the same dip for 2 days is it?)

Hey goldfish, the dr appt wasn't really all that helpful. She basically upped our bd to every other day from day 10 to day 22 now. She gave me paperwork for an HSG and told me it was my choice to do it now or in a few months. We decided to wait on clomid til at least Oct, give it one more cycle with the extra timing and see if we can be successful with that. She said my progestrone was an 11 (she called it amazing - not sure I totally agree but ok) and said I o'ed later than I thought. She said I could test on Monday at the earliest so that's where we left it. So not as helpful as I would have liked but she wasn't too keen on doing a whole lot more before we have been trying for a year.

And I asked the doc about my temps and she said bbt aren't really that accurate after determining o. Take that advice or leave it but I thought it might make you less stress about the temps.

 

[luna_19]

Lou

I think I'll be joining you really soon

 

[bakingbabe]

Lou, I'm so sorry she got you.

Luna, I'm sorry to see the temp dip.

 

[pbl_ge]

pbl - so so sorry to hear of your loss I'm not sure if this helps, but my friend is 34 and in second tri after miscarriage, and my mum had a miscarriage at 38 and went on to have my younger sister!

This does help, thanks. I'm sure I know people who have had miscarriages I don't know about, but the friends who have told me about theirs had all already had a kid. I don't know, of course, but it seems like it's harder when you have to wonder if your body and/or eggs are really up to this whole thing. They say this doesn't much impact my chances of having a successful pregnancy, and it's really good to hear these stories. It's hard to believe that right about now.

Sorry to Lou and Luna for AF and the dip.

to all!

 

[MrsChezek]

pbl - so so sorry to hear of your loss I'm not sure if this helps, but my friend is 34 and in second tri after miscarriage, and my mum had a miscarriage at 38 and went on to have my younger sister!

This does help, thanks. I'm sure I know people who have had miscarriages I don't know about, but the friends who have told me about theirs had all already had a kid. I don't know, of course, but it seems like it's harder when you have to wonder if your body and/or eggs are really up to this whole thing. They say this doesn't much impact my chances of having a successful pregnancy, and it's really good to hear these stories. It's hard to believe that right about now.

Sorry to Lou and Luna for AF and the dip.

to all!

I'm truly sorry for your loss pbl But I am with Goldfish in that my SIL had 2 miscarriages before giving birth to her first at 35 and went onto having a second! Both boys are healthy and gorgeous so don't lose hope. Best to you and your fam.

 

[luna_19]

Well I'm out I just knew ff had my o day wrong...onto cycle 10

 

[bakingbabe]

Well I'm out I just knew ff had my o day wrong...onto cycle 10

Oh no, I'm so so sorry, Luna.

 

[Newbie32]

Sorry Luna

Good to see your temps are still up baking, fx for you x

Lily, how's things with you?

Bubbles your chart does look unusual! Times like these we could really use a window into our bodies!

Hi everyone else, hope the weekend is going well for everyone.

I'm in the tww again now, this my oral temps have a different o date to my v temps!! Will be interesting to see which was right!!

 

[Loukachu]

Sorry to hear that Lou, I hope her stay isn't too traumatic and best of luck for this cycle for you. Do you have a plan of attack?

Just going to keep going with SMEP we missed a few days because of holiday and now I have more of a handle on when I ovulate will be easier.

Also am now more adept at temping etc and know my pre AF signs so in tune with my body.

Here goes...

 

[Loukachu]

Lou

I think I'll be joining you really soon

Sorry AF got you too Hun... I guess we are cycle buddies now both on CD1 except I have a looong cycle...

 

[luna_19]

cycle day 1 buddies it is

there are so many of us finishing up our cycles right now, someone needs to get a bfp!

 

[Newbie32]

Yes I agree Luna, hopefully baking is busy baking one for the thread!!!

 

[gypsygirl1018]

Cd 1 here as well finally.

 

[Goldfish]

Luna, Lou, Gypsy - booooo to AF! Good luck to you girls this cycle

Baking - you still testing tomorrow? good luck

Newbie - interesting to see 2 ways of taking temps coming out so differently in the same cycle! Will you go by the "V" one so you can test earlier?

I'm now 9dpo - temp has dropped a little more so getting really worried that AF is coming early (or that FF got my O day wrong since it was a few days later than usual)

 

[Newbie32]

Can't stalk you goldfish cos no chart in your signature!!!

Yeah in fact given this month they are so different it has raised some concerns! Last month I got same o date....very interesting!

Going off cm and v temp it's def cd13, cos then cm changed. But pos opk and o pains werent until cd13, which makes cd15 more logical!!

Silly girl for two temps? probably!!!

 

[ZeeZ]

Pbl - i'm so sorry about your loss. So far 2 of my closest friends have had children and both miscarried the first time they conceived but now they have 3 girls between them and they are also in their 30s.

Lou, luna, gypsy - sorry AF got you all.

Newbie- i'm so interested to see the results of the 2 temps.

 

[Goldfish]

Newbie - here ya go, stalk away! (Hope I did it right as I've never tried to add a link on BnB before!)

 

[Newbie32]

Pbl - i'm so sorry about your loss. So far 2 of my closest friends have had children and both miscarried the first time they conceived but now they have 3 girls between them and they are also in their 30s.

Lou, luna, gypsy - sorry AF got you all.

Newbie- i'm so interested to see the results of the 2 temps.

I'm glad my science experiment is becoming useful!!

 

[Newbie32]

Newbie - here ya go, stalk away! (Hope I did it right as I've never tried to add a link on BnB before!)

<a href="https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3c13c8" style="font-size:smaller;" >
<img src="https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3c13c8/thumb.png" />
<br /> My Ovulation Chart</a>

Hmmm..not quite!! Try again, you need the bb code for thumbnail of your chart
Edit: yay you got it!!!

 

[Newbie32]

Goldfish have you Always had a short lp?