TTC #1 and over 30

Dont really know if im replying to these messages in the right way im a newbie!! But just wanted to say that your right smimms, I have also been looking at a lot of forums and have found the same thing. Good luck to everyone who is testing soon
 
Wow this thread's been busy and I've only been away for one day!!!

gypsygirl - I find doctors in general seem always too busy and too tired to really figure out what is wrong with us. Since about 5 years ago, I took my health into my own hands and before I see a doctor about anything (except for emergencies of course), I do as much research as I can and I go in there with a printed sheet of questions so I am equipped to do a diagnosis WITH them. If you just rely on them, they pick something random and throw some meds at it. It's sad really :( I learned this when I was having a lot of GI issues and went to see a GI specialist. She labelled me as IBS which like 9 out of 10 women get pinned with and gave me some meds to try which I did and they helped. But when I ran out of the samples she gave me and did research on how to get more, it turned out it was some controversial medicine that many articles said no one should take for more than two weeks!!! And she gave me 4 weeks worth. I was done with trusting doctors after that. In the end, they're human…over-educated, overtired and overconfident but in the end, they're people just like you and me :winkwink: So I suggest you go in there and talk about all you've learned from here and other reading and make it clear to them that you are worried it's not PCOS and you want a second, more thorough look. Of course, be nice but stern as poor attitude won't get you anywhere.

smimms
- my cycles range from 27-31 days. What are BFP fertility charts???

Welcome goldmember! :hi: This is a great resource for sure! I hope you not only find some answers and comfort here but your :bfp: too!!!! GL

grkprn - did you test with a IC or a FR test? I hope you get that :bfp: in a few days!! Still early :hugs:

FINGERS CROSSED for bakingbabe and Alisa!!!! Hope those are implantation dips indeed :hugs:

Awww Breezy - I hate that you had to see that :bfn: I hope that :witch: stays away though! FX to you over the next few days :hugs:

I'm alright. Kicking of SMEP today with some good old :sex: - excited to try this new plan!! So FX :thumbup:

:dust: to ALL!!!!
Thanks veganlily I'm already finding comfort in the words of others, so reassuring talking to women who of the same or simliar age to me and in the same position. I am hoping that I will soon get my positive result and sending luck to everyone else too.
 
Sorry i meant to say thanks Mrs Chezek whoops, really dont know what im doing yet youll have to help me out with abberviations and posting guys!!
 
Hello Ladies!! Anyone know anything about exercise during the 2WW? I've kept working out like normal, I'm no hardcore athlete or anything. 20-30mins treadmill and crunches. Think it's safe?

Hi Alisa! I'm an ACSM certified exercise physiologist and keeping up with your normal workouts is perfectly fine -- as a matter of fact, I find that it keeps my mind off the 2WW for me!! :)

Here is a link from ACSM regarding exercise and pregnancy - although, it doesn't cover the 2WW period.


Hopefully this helps! I'll see if I can dig up any additional information on my end!

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Muchas Gracias Muchacha!! I feel that exercise is a crucial part of being healthy (body & mind), and being healthy means healthy eggs, and healthy eggs means healthy babies!!! Have my fingers crossed for all of us!!! I can't wait to test!!!

I'm sure grkprn knows best but all I was told is that I can keep going as I am now but if I am unsuccessful after several months, I can try decreasing the intensity (no jumping, running, bouncing of any kind) around implantation only. Just to be sure! Exercise is very important indeed! I totally agree :thumbup:

I think that no jumping, running, etc. around the time of implantation makes complete sense! :thumbup: Also, I used an IC to test...but I have some FRERs that I can use if :witch: doesn't show soon!

Hm...this is definitely food for thought!

Whew! I went through my archived e-mails from work (man....I save alot of stuff!!) and I found a link that includes absolute contraindications and warning signs when exercising while pregnant and in the postpartum period. From 2002, but still gives good information.

https://www.acog.org/Resources_And_...se_During_Pregnancy_and_the_Postpartum_Period

And here is a FAQ sheet from ACOG for exercising during pregnancy:

https://www.acog.org/~/media/For Patients/faq119.pdf?dmc=1&ts=20120506T1906577132

On a side note, not looking forward to the weekend being over tomorrow!:nope:
 
Sorry i meant to say thanks Mrs Chezek whoops, really dont know what im doing yet youll have to help me out with abberviations and posting guys!!

:haha: No worries at all! I figured it was me since it was my post in your response :winkwink: It takes a bit of getting used to but you'll get the hang of it all in no time! And of course, we're happy to help. There is a good page I used for the first week that explains all the abbreviations! Check it out:

https://www.babyandbump.com/forum-help-testing-area/730-babyandbump-lingo-abbreviations.html

Enjoy :thumbup:
 
smimms - gotcha. I haven't had one of those yet…will be interesting to see indeed!

Lily - isn't it sad how IBS is such a loosely used diagnosis? After that episode with the GI doc, DH and I spent days researching stuff and decided to try making changes in my diet. After a year of that, my body regulated itself and I hardly have any issues now! It's amazing how we really ARE what we eat!

grkprn - I think this is the first time in my life I'm super excited for a weekend to be over! We kick off SMEP tonight and I get to try OPKs for the first time this week. So I've been tapping my fingers for this day to come :winkwink: Tomorrow is a big day for you right? Hope you wake up to a :bfp: tomorrow!
:dust:

Here's to a great week for ALL OF US! FX :hugs:
 
I'm 32 and have been trying for 18 months already. Ts really not as easy as ppl say it is
 
I'm so happy that I stumbled upon this post!!! I've been wondering about the exercise thing too! I'm no hard core athlete but I like to keep up with cardio and light weights about 3 to 4 times a week.

I miscarried once and that was back in July 2011 and I wondered if my running had anything to do with that too.

Reading this post puts me at ease now. Thanks!!!
 
Welcome gold member! I understand what you are going through. It took me 8 months to conceive and that sadly ended in a mc. It's been 8 months now since the mc and every month that goes by tears my heart more and more. I also feel that everyone around me gets pg within 3 months of trying. It's hard to hear. I hope you get the support you are looking for here.:hugs:

Grkprn, your chart looks VERY promising!:thumbup:


Hi there! I here ya!!!! Seems like everyone around me gets preggers so fast. We've been trying again after our miscarraige last july 2011, still no luck. Sometimes I feel like I'm the odd ball. I know my time will come but I just wish I knew when.
 
I'm 32 and have been trying for 18 months already. Ts really not as easy as ppl say it is

I'm 31 and have been trying for over 2 years, it's not easy at all! You have some great support here. GL Phienix. :dust:
 
Hey! Great thread! I just turned 33, and this is cycle #14 for #1! Had all the fertility testing done, and the funny thing is DH and I are both "normal" and doc even said my egg reserves were very good for my age...LOL...so praying this month is it, if not next month we move onto Clomid and IUI. Wishing everyone luck!!

Hi hi!! I'm in a similar situation. My husband and I got all the testing stuff done and found that both of us are perfectly normal! I don't understand why it's taking us so long. We went thru 3 rounds of clomid then found out I had a cyst that was pretty big. The doc put me on birth control to decrease the size of it. After all that was done and over with, we finally got to continue with fertility. This time I got started in gonal injections. I just finished the first round and now am in the waiting period before the blood pregnancy test. It's this Thursday and I hope I get goods news cause it would make the day extra special since it is also our 4 yr wedding anniversary.
 
Hey! Great thread! I just turned 33, and this is cycle #14 for #1! Had all the fertility testing done, and the funny thing is DH and I are both "normal" and doc even said my egg reserves were very good for my age...LOL...so praying this month is it, if not next month we move onto Clomid and IUI. Wishing everyone luck!!

Hi hi!! I'm in a similar situation. My husband and I got all the testing stuff done and found that both of us are perfectly normal! I don't understand why it's taking us so long. We went thru 3 rounds of clomid then found out I had a cyst that was pretty big. The doc put me on birth control to decrease the size of it. After all that was done and over with, we finally got to continue with fertility. This time I got started in gonal injections. I just finished the first round and now am in the waiting period before the blood pregnancy test. It's this Thursday and I hope I get goods news cause it would make the day extra special since it is also our 4 yr wedding anniversary.

Oh I hope you get good news! My testing date is our 10 yr anniversary, which would be so so amazing. I hope we both get wonderful news this May! fx'ed for us both!!!
 
Think I am out this cycle, temp has started to drop. Now to wait another long 4 weeks to ovulate again :(
 
Think i'm out too. Its a few days early but had light spotting yesterday and then AF like symptoms today (cramping and moody).

*sigh*
 
Sorry zee and rm-it's not over til it's over though, right? Fx'ed fit you both...but if you're out, sending you luck for speedy ovulations and BFP's next cycle...xo...
 
Welcome Pheonix! :hi:
TTC is super hard…but I guess many get pregnant without trying so it's a bit of a game of luck (bad for some good for others!!!). I'm 34, DH is 41and we started in January of this year so we're all in the same boat!! I hope you get your sticky bean soon! :hugs:

Happy (early) anniversary to bakingbabe and Pheonix! Hope you get that perfect gift indeed :thumbup:

rmsh1 - you're not out until the ugly :witch: shows so who knows! Your temps are still above your coverlid so try to stay positive :hugs: When are you due to test?

Zeez - I hope she stays away! I'll keep my FX for you. You're still 4 days out! :hugs:

Still keeping my FX for Breezy and grkprn!!!
:dust:
 
Hey! Great thread! I just turned 33, and this is cycle #14 for #1! Had all the fertility testing done, and the funny thing is DH and I are both "normal" and doc even said my egg reserves were very good for my age...LOL...so praying this month is it, if not next month we move onto Clomid and IUI. Wishing everyone luck!!

Hi hi!! I'm in a similar situation. My husband and I got all the testing stuff done and found that both of us are perfectly normal! I don't understand why it's taking us so long. We went thru 3 rounds of clomid then found out I had a cyst that was pretty big. The doc put me on birth control to decrease the size of it. After all that was done and over with, we finally got to continue with fertility. This time I got started in gonal injections. I just finished the first round and now am in the waiting period before the blood pregnancy test. It's this Thursday and I hope I get goods news cause it would make the day extra special since it is also our 4 yr wedding anniversary.

GL....I hope you get great news!
 

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