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[GoldenRatio]

Golden i know that must have been horrible. i would be crying my eyes out. but u have to just be strong. im sure everything is fine and the tests will confirm. dont worry abut our cycles lol. u have a bean to think about. How many weeks are you now?

thanks for the good luck wishes. the position is called research officer. it will be more of research in technology, science and energy. its more pay of course. different environment. i wont be able to dress like a slob to work anymore. i will have to dress nice and wear heesl and probably make up thats the down side. i wont do field work anymore so no more hiking and looking at rocks but its a step up and who knows i might like it. so i want to do my best in the interview!

I would love to dress pretty for work! when I go to construction sites I have to dress accordingly, not fun. Good luck with ur interview, I'm sure u will get it!

I was so upset all day so DH is taking me to see a movie "Conjuring 2", I really liked the first one so let's see how this one is

 

[BelleNuit]

TJ, seriously good luck at your interview!!!

 

[TJ Islander]

thanks guys!!

i only db yesterday but he pulled out. he claims hes scared of giving me zika,.. anyway whatever. i know he did not get it. i dont think those little rash was anythin bc they went away in a few hrs..smh.. will see how it goes. if he does it again im gonna have to get miserable and decide if we just want to sit this month out or what.

 

[BabyC4Me]

Golden , I heard the conjuring 2 was a piece of doodoo.

Let me know how you liked it.

And Tj, I think he is just taking extra precautions and being worried about passing anything. But don't let it get you upset. Just talk to him about how you feel regarding him pulling out and where you guys can come to an agreement on BD from now on this cycle.

 

[BelleNuit]

Hey TJ, it does sound like he is being cautious! Like BabyC said, a good place to start is to talk to him about how you feel!

I was just thinking today, that after all of the trouble i've had ttc, if i ever do manage to get pregnant, i won't do anything to prevent a second one after!

 

[GoldenRatio]

Golden , I heard the conjuring 2 was a piece of doodoo.

Let me know how you liked it.

And Tj, I think he is just taking extra precautions and being worried about passing anything. But don't let it get you upset. Just talk to him about how you feel regarding him pulling out and where you guys can come to an agreement on BD from now on this cycle.

Yea it was so long and boring, i fell asleep couple times lol

 

[GoldenRatio]

Hey TJ, it does sound like he is being cautious! Like BabyC said, a good place to start is to talk to him about how you feel!

I was just thinking today, that after all of the trouble i've had ttc, if i ever do manage to get pregnant, i won't do anything to prevent a second one after!

Thats what we decided to do too, we will never prevent since it takes million years to concieve.

I was talking to my roommate from university years, she got pregnant right after her wedding. She said they did it once and that was because of the moment and they regret it after because they didnt want a kid just yet. She got pregnant with one time sex

 

[BabyC4Me]

And that's the crazy part ...one time sex when they DIDNT want a baby...and boom.

I think we should all just NOT want kids and be like "we aren't ready " and hopefully that backwards logic works in our favor and we get a surprise child.

Who's with me ?? Lol

 

[GoldenRatio]

And that's the crazy part ...one time sex when they DIDNT want a baby...and boom.

I think we should all just NOT want kids and be like "we aren't ready " and hopefully that backwards logic works in our favor and we get a surprise child.

Who's with me ?? Lol

I tried that but i dont think i can bend my mind hehe I was reading a book about law of attraction and it said if u believe that whatever u eat doesnt make you gain weight, then u wont gain. So basically every time i eat something, i always think how its gonna go to my butt and i needed to reverse that saying i never gain. Yea didnt happen hahahaa so hard to change what you actually believe in.

 

[BabyC4Me]

Golden ! Just kill me dream why don't cha?????!!!

:-D. I have to try something!!!


Today is CD 10 and I am
Going to get me some sex today. My Hubbie has been less interested since y accident. Maybe becuZ he thinks I'm still in pain. But damnit. No. !

I can make it work !

 

[BelleNuit]

Get creative with the pillows babyc!

 

[greenarcher]

BabyC - agreed use pillows!

Belle - when are you planning on testing?

TJ - how was the interview??

Golden - How you feeeling, momma? Sorry the movie sucked

I'm CD14, doin the deed, waiting to O, hoping for a positive OPK so I have a general idea of when O was, since I'm not temping.

 

[BelleNuit]

AF is due the 26th, but I'm not going to test ahead of time. Will just wait and see and accept what comes!

Looks like you're in your fertile phase green! Should get your + opk in a few days I would guess!

 

[greenarcher]

Yup yup! Man just waiting!? I don't know how I'd do it. I think I would break at the very latest, the day my period was due if no spotting had started.

9 more days

 

[BelleNuit]

I just find pregnancy testing so disheartening! At least with AF you get warning signs that it's coming so it's less of a blow. With a HPT you get a negative response all at once and I find that hard to deal with. I can't take another negative HPT!

The next one I take will be after AF is late, and I'll make DH watch the test with me

 

[GoldenRatio]

Green, Im doing good thanks for asking. Just super angry at everything, so exhausting. I was so rude to a contractor that called me and told me how to do my job i was like ohhh no u didnt! At this point i dont even care if they fire me, i will sue their asses because im pregnant lol

Belle, i said i wont test lasy cycle too but then peed on million sticks!

 

[BelleNuit]

I did one cycle where I didn't test and I preferred that. Last cycle I tested and the disappointment was palpable. Not doing that again.

 

[BelleNuit]

Ugh, I've been feeling really under the weather lately.

Yesterday I had to miss a day of work because I was having severe low back pain (hurt to move). I've had back pain most of the week and today I've started sneezing. I'm exhausted and think I'm coming down with a cold.

Poor me!

 

[greenarcher]

Ugh that sucks, Belle I think I'd like to try that as well. I'm going to try to hold off until at least 12ish DPO, so maybe a line will be more than a squinter.

Golden - yikes! Back away from the pregnant lady!

My good friend had her FET this morning, and we will be testing on the same day! She gets betas done and same day results on the day I planned to test (July 1). I'm super excited, it would be awesome to have a bump buddy IRL!

 

[TJ Islander]

hi guys,
my interview is monday 9 30. if i get the job i will be seconded for 6 month bc its a different ministry from the one im in. now im realising maybe i shouldnt get pregnant right now.

maybe i should wait to see if i get it then if i do wait til my secondment is over. that way, i wont have to have any issues with maternity leave (which is 2 mnths)