TTC #1 Hopeful and Obsessed! lol

[OhHappyZ]

Oh no belle!! That's the worst!! Rest and stay hydrated lovey.

 

[greenarcher]

Ah okay. That's a tough situation to be in. I'm sorta job searching and have the same concerns.

Sorry for the American ignorance, whats secondment?

 

[BelleNuit]

Oh no TJ! It sounds like things just aren't lining up right now, I'm sorry hun!

 

[OhHappyZ]

Yes, what is a secondment?

That sucks though. Life can be cruel. But pregnancy is 9 months long, once you are past the 6 months won't you be clear?

 

[TJ Islander]

Ah okay. That's a tough situation to be in. I'm sorta job searching and have the same concerns.

Sorry for the American ignorance, whats secondment?

secondment means i will still have my original job during the first 6 months of my new job. once you are in the government service and u take another job in the service you dont really resign. all they do is shift you over. so its like taking leave from the first job to do the new job. the 6 mnths is to see if you are performing well or if you like it. if not you can move back to the old job.

 

[TJ Islander]

Yes, what is a secondment?

That sucks though. Life can be cruel. But pregnancy is 9 months long, once you are past the 6 months won't you be clear?

yes i should be. that means i may have to delay baby for 6 mnths!!! its sucks being a woman sometimes and trying to have a career. its not fair.

i prayed asking God to let his will be done. whatever is best for me because having a baby is most important for me

 

[BabyC4Me]

I mean the secondment is actually a plus. If you hate the job you can always shift back to the old position. I wish that was installed in the US. I would have made less stupid job changes
lol

 

[GoldenRatio]

TJ, i absolutely hate my job and i had to stay because of immigration/ttc, i know how you feel. It sucks to be women and seems like nobody cares about pregnancy. I lost so many positions when they heard i was newly married. But at the end i had to stick to it for the sake of my family. Im sure you will pick whats right for you and ur baby will arrive just on time

Btw doc's office called and my blood test is positive! We are really happy, definitely worth all the tears, wait and diet and pills and tests....everything i been thru, i forgot all about it when she said its positive. My immigration status will be solved in couple months but i cant quit due to pregnancy. Apparently i can take maternity leave as early as 6months! so i can leave my job in 5-6months and never come back after the mat leave is complete

 

[BabyC4Me]

Golden that's great news !!!!!!

Positive blood test !!!!! And I'm happy that all your worries finally disappeared when you got that result and you were confirmed that the baby is happy and healthy !

Soooooo worth the wait !!!!!

What an amazing feeling. I can't imagine ! Pass the dust !


.....so? What do you do next ? We need to live every pregnant day thru you !

 

[TJ Islander]

whooohooooo!! Go baby momma!!!

i wont be next lol

i predict 3 BFP this month lol

 

[GoldenRatio]

Well they refereed me to a gyno, one that my doctor mentioned was old and rude apparently (rate my doc says so) so i picked a good reviewed one and told them to refer me to her. Will wait for her to call me.

Im predicting at least 2 bfps too! cant wait to see you ladies test. Gonna get my poas addiction taken care of here right?

 

[BabyC4Me]

Don't look at me for tests.

NTNP means none of that testing mess.

Just living life. But worrying about babies lol

 

[GoldenRatio]

Don't look at me for tests.

NTNP means none of that testing mess.

Just living life. But worrying about babies lol

Yea okey u are on break this month but I will expect tests by next month!
How u feeling? How is ur hip/stomach?

 

[BabyC4Me]

I'm not really on breakkkkkkk per say lol

I'm still BDing and hoping for the best. We just got back into the swing of things today. So I will keep that energy going for the rest of next week (which just so happens to be my fertile week ...but who's tracking ? Not ME !)

My hips and tummy are def feeling a lot better. Just waiting for some swelling to go down. But in terms of wounds and bruising I'm 80% better. Thanks for asking !!!

 

[puma1986]

TJ, i absolutely hate my job and i had to stay because of immigration/ttc, i know how you feel. It sucks to be women and seems like nobody cares about pregnancy. I lost so many positions when they heard i was newly married. But at the end i had to stick to it for the sake of my family. Im sure you will pick whats right for you and ur baby will arrive just on time

Btw doc's office called and my blood test is positive! We are really happy, definitely worth all the tears, wait and diet and pills and tests....everything i been thru, i forgot all about it when she said its positive. My immigration status will be solved in couple months but i cant quit due to pregnancy. Apparently i can take maternity leave as early as 6months! so i can leave my job in 5-6months and never come back after the mat leave is complete

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HOORAY! SO STOKED TO HEAR THIS!!!!!!!

 

[TJ Islander]

Good luck Baby C, cycle twin! lol

i might be sitting this month out to see how my interview goes. its actually kind of refreshing, im not gonna lie. its like my brain just told my emotions to adjust. no pressure or stress to BD. im not stressing on ovia. im so cool calm and collected lol..

i bet that i get BFP when i least expect it lol oh boy!

i had a good evening. the 3 departments at my work place has sports competition on fridays. we played cricket today and my team won. i made 1 run! lol...any of you know the game??

 

[GoldenRatio]

Puma thanks, I just saw ur reply and I was like omg who is pregnant hehe thought mine is old news

 

[BelleNuit]

I think if we don't conceive this month we will be taking a break from it for awhile. maybe do the ntnp thing. or maybe take a true break.

 

[BabyC4Me]

Golden u thought that too ! I was like omg Puma knows another secret !

 

[BelleNuit]

Glad you're feeling less stressed TJ! I'm definitely hoping you do well at that interview on Monday!

I had a really huge dip in bbt today. If my temp stays low the next few days, FF wants to move my O date to earlier in the month. So not sure if I should be worried that maybe AF is coming sooner than expected, or that a possibly didn't O at all, or excited that maybe this is the mythical implantation dip.

SO I'm just going to stay neutral about it! I will be camping tonight, so will be drinking and sleeping in a tent, so my temp tomorrow will be pretty useless. May not even take a temp depending on how the night goes!