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BelleNuit said:
Glad you're feeling less stressed TJ! I'm definitely hoping you do well at that interview on Monday!

I had a really huge dip in bbt today. If my temp stays low the next few days, FF wants to move my O date to earlier in the month. So not sure if I should be worried that maybe AF is coming sooner than expected, or that a possibly didn't O at all, or excited that maybe this is the mythical implantation dip.

SO I'm just going to stay neutral about it! I will be camping tonight, so will be drinking and sleeping in a tent, so my temp tomorrow will be pretty useless. May not even take a temp depending on how the night goes!
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Good luck belle! have fun camping. camping sounds fun
 
You guys. I'm in a weird funk today.
Three baby announcements this week in total.
Me and Hubbie try to get it on this morning and he wasn't able to stay "into it " so we stopped. Later on i asked him did he still find me attractive and of course he said of course and that I was his princess and blah blah. But Watever. I want sex. And I want to be pregnant. I thought I could handle the NTNP method but I honestly am really salty about how long this whole process is taking.

I went to his sisters graduation lunch today and within 5 mins my mother in law asked me "what's wrong !? You okay. You sure?" And I was certain I was able to hide my emotions. But apparently not.

Idk. I'm just not feeling my Hubbie right now...not feeling like doing anything ...just wanna look at baby shit and crawl up into a ball with a onesie that smells like baby powder.


HELP!
 
Yeah sometimes you think you hide things, and sometimes youreferred way wrong. Maybe you and dh should have a night just enjoying oral to remind each other that sex is for fun, not just baby making
 
Green. We have been doing that without problems. I think it's becuZ time was our second time since the accident and we haven't been doing it as often.

I'm sure it will spice back up. But I just needed to vent about it to y'all lol

Since no one else gets the whole process.
 
Oh that's really good to hear. Totally feel you with venting. It's nice to have somewhere with ladies in the same position to listen <3

Feel better!
 
Babyc we went thru couple months of miserable time, I was so emotional about everything and I wanted DH to give me sex when I was ovulating. He couldn't do it. For men it's difficult when they know that you want them for the sperms.

Basically I said f*ck it, I'm not gonna run after DH for sex and start to feel insecure about myself. Two months we missed ovulation because we only had sex after he begged me for it and then everything went back to normal once he noticed I wasn't desperate.

Btw I feel like I wanna kill everybody, I argued with a lady at grocery store and I get mad at DH for everything he says, even when he breaths I get mad. I hope this hormonal anger will go away soon because I'm starting to get annoyed!
 
BabyC4Me said:
You guys. I'm in a weird funk today.
Three baby announcements this week in total.
Me and Hubbie try to get it on this morning and he wasn't able to stay "into it " so we stopped. Later on i asked him did he still find me attractive and of course he said of course and that I was his princess and blah blah. But Watever. I want sex. And I want to be pregnant. I thought I could handle the NTNP method but I honestly am really salty about how long this whole process is taking.

I went to his sisters graduation lunch today and within 5 mins my mother in law asked me "what's wrong !? You okay. You sure?" And I was certain I was able to hide my emotions. But apparently not.

Idk. I'm just not feeling my Hubbie right now...not feeling like doing anything ...just wanna look at baby shit and crawl up into a ball with a onesie that smells like baby powder.


HELP!
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It totally doesn't help when DH isn't performing as expected. I've questioned the same thing before. I hate it. Of course he loves you and thinks you're gorgeous! You're the woman he chose to spend his forever with =) I get it completely. It is really, really difficult. These are the days you really need to treat yourself. The stress of ttc only hurts our chances. It's a serious catch 22. You should have your DH give you a foot or back rub. Get yourself something delicious to drink and take a hot bubble bath!
 
they def lose the vibe when they realise you just want the sperm! for me, after a wjile i had no real interest in sex. i just wanted sex when i was ovulating and thats it..ahd he realised and it was a major turn off for him.

sigh..never think you are alone going thru these things!
 
Thanks girls ! I'm glad I'm not the only one going thru this or has experienced this in the past.

DH knows how much I want a baby. And he wants one just as bad. But since we as women are the keepers of the bean , there is a lot of pressure man.

But he def doesn't know when I ovulate. I stopped telling him my cycle status a hike ago. That's def a mood kill.

Tj , I know how you feel about wanting to kill everyone and everything annoys you

Tis the season. Especially since we are on the same cycle say.

I have been super moody this weekend. I hate the way I feel.

And puma I just might treat myself to a manicure or some delish dessert.

Why not ?

Lol
 
Of course. After I wrote that last message , DH took full advantage of me ...and I loved it !!!!

We are back on schedule ladies :-)

CHEERS !
 
Baby, I had this whole message in my head about how it was probably a mood, but your last message shows that it probably was!!
 
Z......OH it was def a mood ! I'm out of it now. Funny how powerful sex can be lol
 
I'm surprised my DH hasn't gotten annoyed yet. LOL We BD'd the day after my period, took a one day break, BD'd two days in a row, took a one day break and we have BD'd the last 4 days. My OPK is still showing peak so I suggestively hinted toward BD again today and his jaw dropped and said "you're going to rub me raw!!!" I said "that's what preseed is for babe!" LMAO

Oh the things they put up with for baby making.

I promised him I'd give him a break in two days.

He offered me an unbelieving "UHHHHH HUHHHH" response.

LOL!
 
Puma!! That made me laugh out loud hahaha I'm using pressed but DH doesn't know &#128520;
 
Whaaaaaaat?!?! Holy crap green. You're right!

I'm glad I'm synced back up with my cycle buddy <3
 
OMG puma !!! Your Hubbie sounds hilarious ! These men really crack me up

Z...how do you sneak and use preseed ? Before sex ?
 
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