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[puma1986]

OMG puma !!! Your Hubbie sounds hilarious ! These men really crack me up

Z...how do you sneak and use preseed ? Before sex ?

For me I always take a shower before BD so I just insert it before I leave the bathroom! =D Oooor in the off chance I don't, I just act like I have to go to the bathroom for something first, lol
Technically it's suppose to be in for 15 minutes prior to BD so it works out!

 

[BabyC4Me]

Puma ... I always feel like it would kill the mood if you're like "pause. Let me go handle this real quick " and come back to foreplay lol

How do you women keep the momentum going ???

 

[puma1986]

Puma ... I always feel like it would kill the mood if you're like "pause. Let me go handle this real quick " and come back to foreplay lol

How do you women keep the momentum going ???

Since I work fulltime during the day and do school work when I get home, I always feel gross and shower before watching TV and relaxing with the Hubs. It just works out that way for us!

 

[BabyC4Me]

Yea I guess it all depends on your "cozy time schedule / environment ".

 

[puma1986]

Yea I guess it all depends on your "cozy time schedule / environment ".

Exactly! But if you have room for super sponteneity, I'd recommend heading the the bathroom first on days you plan to initiate! if he initiates first, then I totally see your predicament! It WOULD be a mood killer to pause! Perhaps Happy has some suggestions?

 

[puma1986]

Belle: I don't know how you managed to pull off 6 BD sessions in 5 days. We just finished up 5 BD sessions in 5 days and I AM DONE DANCING. Good Lord. I'm exhausted. I need like a week break now lol

Kudos to you for pulling off 6 mamasita!

 

[BelleNuit]

Puma, it totally looks like you O'd and Green I see you have crosshairs too!

BabyC are you using OPKs this month or completely NTNP? I would guess that you are close to O as well if it hasn't already happened!

Well I had a great weekend and had a lot of fun camping Didn't worry about taking my temp this morning because I knew it would be meaningless. I'm hoping tomorrow it will be back up!

Otherwise, I've been sneezing like crazy for about 3-4 days now. I'm thinking it must be allergies, but I don't usually have allergies! Definitely don't feel like I'm coming down with anything, but it is annoying.

 

[WishnandHopn]

You ladies are very impressive with your consecutive days of BDing....I think we made it to 4 days in a row once but that was my limit! And it was feeling like work, not fun. Good on you all for keeping it going for days!

I've also done some sneaky preseeding. I only use 1-2 ml though...any more and it's so sloppy!

 

[TJ Islander]

guys when i was in uni, and i was young and fit, i used to have sex every day..on average!!! lol

my best days are behind me..sigh

 

[BelleNuit]

Belle: I don't know how you managed to pull off 6 BD sessions in 5 days. We just finished up 5 BD sessions in 5 days and I AM DONE DANCING. Good Lord. I'm exhausted. I need like a week break now lol

Kudos to you for pulling off 6 mamasita!

Ahaha, I was definitely exhausted by the end! It was actually more like 7 BD in 5 days, but one of those times DH couldn't actually finish. We were feeling extra energetic this go round for whatever reason!

But I definitely prefer to BD 1-2 x a week! I'm looking forward to returning to that schedule once we are done TTC!

You did great too! 5 session in 5 days!! woo hoo! You are in good shape to catch that egg this month!!!

 

[GoldenRatio]

Enjoy it now! im so scared to BD, everytime it hurts I get scared that I'm losing the baby.

I had an annoying day today. Sil's sister is pregnant, like same due date as mine so she was telling me about t and I had to act upset because they donno that I'm pregnant. She was saying how she got pregnant in two months without knowing when she ovulated even, okey bitch! Good for u!

Then we went to the mall and I saw one of my friend, she asked infront of everyone if we are still trying and how come it's not happening. I don't even know how she knows about us trying but it annoyed me. I was supposed to meet up with them on Tuesday but I just texted her saying I'm not coming because I know everyone is gonna ask about us trying and how come we can't concieve. Why are ppl so insensitive.

DH doesn't want me to tell anybody but I couldn't resist and told my mom, and made her promise to not tell anybody. She cried, she was so happy for me.

 

[BelleNuit]

Well Golden, when you DO feel ready to tell people I bet it will feel super satisfying!!

 

[OhHappyZ]

Golden it is so crazy how people don't realize how insensitive it is to ask that. Like obviously you don't need to remind me that I'm trying. It kind of takes up all my spare brain time. I spend probably a good 88% of my waking days thinking about conceiving, pregnancy, babies and raising children. Ughh.

 

[OhHappyZ]

Z...how do you sneak and use preseed ? Before sex ?

Yep, I only use 1 ml, but I shower and do it. Then we dtd. Super easy. I tried 1.5ml once but he commented about how I was too slippery and it was hard to...um....finish. So we ended up dtd longer (like an hour) and it got better. It was so fun. We try to be fun about it, but it is hard when I'm tired to remember to treat him with love, not just use him for his seed lol

 

[puma1986]

Enjoy it now! im so scared to BD, everytime it hurts I get scared that I'm losing the baby.

I had an annoying day today. Sil's sister is pregnant, like same due date as mine so she was telling me about t and I had to act upset because they donno that I'm pregnant. She was saying how she got pregnant in two months without knowing when she ovulated even, okey bitch! Good for u!

Then we went to the mall and I saw one of my friend, she asked infront of everyone if we are still trying and how come it's not happening. I don't even know how she knows about us trying but it annoyed me. I was supposed to meet up with them on Tuesday but I just texted her saying I'm not coming because I know everyone is gonna ask about us trying and how come we can't concieve. Why are ppl so insensitive.

DH doesn't want me to tell anybody but I couldn't resist and told my mom, and made her promise to not tell anybody. She cried, she was so happy for me.

People really are so insensitive. I'm glad you told your mom. She is going to be the best person to have in your corner right now

 

[puma1986]

I'm so confused. FF pinpointed me ovulating three days ago. But I had positive OPKs the last three days (four days in total) Is there something I'm not understanding here?

I don't think you can have pos opks after ovulation? Or no?

 

[GoldenRatio]

I'm so confused. FF pinpointed me ovulating three days ago. But I had positive OPKs the last three days (four days in total) Is there something I'm not understanding here?

I don't think you can have pos opks after ovulation? Or no?

Yes u can hav pos opk anytime or multiple times n that's why some women miss their ovulation. That's why it's great that u temping but on the other hand that crossline can still move depends on your next temps. You definitely are done ovulating n now just relax, will see how the line goes

 

[BabyC4Me]

Hey girls !

Happy Monday !

Tj - good luck on your interview today.
I also have two interviews for a summer job and my Hubbie has one today as well !

Belle--I didn't use OPKS this month. Just gotta feeling it out. After sex yesterday on cd 12 there was blood when I went to clean up. It shallot happens on cd 13. So maybe early ovulation this month ?

Who really knows. But we will def BD each day this week. And see what happens.

I feel like we will get 2 more BFPs This month

Golden /::: I can't wait to you can announce to the world your pregnancy since ppl are such assholes and clearly don't care about your feelings.

Have you picked names yet ???

 

[BelleNuit]

Puma I'm not sure that we can say with 100% certainty that you ovulated already. It almost looks like it because you do have a huge temp jump. But your first positive OPK shouldn't happen after O. Maybe keep BDing just to be on the safe side! You got dotted lines for cross hairs so I wouldn't be surprised if they moved around on you depending on your next few temps!

Well ladies, 8 dpo here. Literally the only "symptom" I'm having is sneezing. I've been sneezing daily for the last couple days and definitely don't have a cold. Must have developed some allergies, haha.

 

[BabyC4Me]

Belle. It's great if you notice early symptoms. But if you don't , that's just as good !

Try and relax and distract your mind !

Are there any good summer shows starting soon ??