Miss Sazra, DON'T PANIC! There isn't anything more you can do about having done more BD the past week! Remember sperm really only lives for 3 days, so you having done it yesterday, and not ovulating till tomorrow makes it 2 days; so if you'd BD any earlier it probably wouldn't help at all anyway; the BD NOW is what counts hun, don't panic or you'll just worry yourself out of it!! ((hugs))
As for me, O.M.G. I'm *still* feeling shaky. And not for a good reason!!!
I'm not due to O for another week or so yet, but we ended up doing
anyway, so was really just for the enjoyment of it than anything. Annnnyway, halfway through, in missionary, I felt something fall onto my forehead... Ok, now DH sweats, so drips of sweat aren't uncommon at all, but this was definitely not sweat. It was a lump of something. My brain was SOOOOOOoooooo not in the right space to work out something like that though, so the first thoughts was that it was hair [I have long hair, it gets in the way sometimes!] and instantly following that thought was that it was too heavy and 'plopped' more than hair does so I thought it was an earring.
Now, hubby does wear a single silver ring in one ear, and my mind was envisioning one of my dangly beaded earrings. I KNOW it makes no sense; how could one of my dangly earrings fall from hubby above me, onto my forehead? But my mind wasn't *making* sense cos it threw me off TOTALLY to have something fall on my forehead, I was somewhat preoccupied...! lmao
This was all of a second or two though, and I reach up to feel it. Was fiddling with it between my fingertips and thumb to try and make sense of it while trying not to be distracted cos I was enjoying myself.
It *felt* a lot like one of my earrings; hard but moveable, had slight weight to it but not really, and was a good inch long...
I paused fiddling with it for a moment as my mind was firmly starting to wander to figure this thing out.
it
moved.......!!!
As it fought me and kicked back my mind went into total and utter PANIC. I tossed it and was scrabbling out from under DH within a split second. All of this within 5 seconds of it falling on my head in the first place, so poor DH had noooooooooooo idea what the f*ck was happening as the lights were off and all he knew was that I was suddenly crying and panicing and trying to get away from him. Poor boy thought he'd done something to me and I was in a blind panic and couldn't get away fast enough to tell him what was wrong!
Turned on the light and I was sobbing and trembling and managed to tell him there was something
alive and it landed on my face and it
moooovvveeeeddd.
There weren't any blankets left on the bed by then anyway, so he leapt off and moved pillows around and spotted it there on the bed.... it was a 1/5" weta. He squashed it and flushed it but it left my heart pounding and I was still sobbing for a bit despite never even seeing it.
Have you ever heard of wetas? Look here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Weta
I'm NOT scared of wetas. I don't *like* them; they're creepy, but I'm not scared of them. I never even SAW this one to freak at the look of it, it was the
feel of it that freaked me out. I think it was also my rather prone, bare state; both mentally and physically, that sent me into a blind panic. I've never been so distraught at something so meesly. But omg my fingers can still feel that *squirm* it did....
Sheesh, I'm not sure I wanna BD again! lmao. That
freaked me out!
maybe that's a sign? No positive OPK's yet.
