ttc#1 new looking for buddy!

[MH5280]

Luckybug- seriously your pregnancy has gone so fast!! I'm so excited for you! .... Do we ever get to know her name!?!

 

[Luckybug]

I'm going to be completely honest, we still don't know what we're going to name her. The only one that my husband and I both don't hate is Valora, but it's so uncommon. She'll never be able to find a keychain with her name on it.

 

[MH5280]

Hahaha!!! It's really pretty tho!! Plus now days, it's common to not have a keychain with your name!!

 

[Jules8]

That name is so pretty! Don't worry about that stuff, I have a common name and still can't find my name anywhere. Lol

 

[MamaBunny2]

I will never find my name on anything - Jyllian

All I find is Jillian and that won't cut it!

 

[MH5280]

Yup! My name only has 1 L so I'm out too! 'Michele'

 

[MH5280]

So I called an infertility specialist today!! I just wanted to make sure they could help with our problem, she suggested a consultation with the dr. she checked our insurance and we have coverage!.... Sooo now I just need to tell my husband and see when he wants to get scheduled in! Fingers crossed! 😊

 

[Luckybug]

YAY! The ball is rolling.

 

[Jules8]

Woohoo! That is so exciting Michele!!!

 

[ModernMaven]

Hi! Can I join too? Im 30 and DH is 33. We're TTC #1 for about 11 months..we started a little before that, but we really didn't know what to look for. I've been OPK'ing and BBT'ing. So frustrated that I got my AF three days ago, I thought for sure this would be the one. I've been going to acupuncture for the past 4 weeks and taking fertilaid as well as my DH. Also cut out caffeine 3 weeks ago...how long is it supposed to take after making all these changes? Grrr...so frustrated (and caffeine deprived)

 

[MamaBunny2]

That's great news Michele!!! Hopefully DH is cooperative and excited!

Modern have you tried Pre-Seed? I've seen great reviews on it and although I wouldn't claim it to be a "miracle lube", it is quite nice to use and after 7 months TTC I happened to get my the month I was religiously using it (like every time we DTD). I was also trying to follow SMEP (Sperm Meets Egg Plan) but OH wouldn't cooperate Just some other ideas I wanted to throw out there maybe you'd want to look into and try. Good luck!

 

[MH5280]

So talked to the hubs... He made me mad cuz he just didn't seem to care and I told him that and he said "idk how you want me to react, it has to be done and you are handling it"... So today I called and just booked a consultation! OMG you guys I am soooo nervous! Like it's REAL.... We are moving towards what we want... I hope it's easy... I think I'm nervous about that... I'm totes losing sleep over this now... Ugh!! So July 28th! I'll keep ya'll informed of our appt! Keep us in your thoughts! Think happy thoughts for us please!!!

 

[MamaBunny2]

Eeeeeeeeeek!!! So excited for you! So in like less than three weeks you will begin figuring out a new plan of action and that much closer! I like countdowns It's a little longer than the ever so lengthy 2WW but your appointment will be here in no time!

 

[MH5280]

Jules- how are you doing??

 

[Jules8]

Michele- That is super exciting that you are moving in the right direction. I'm sorry hubs is frustrating you over it. My hubby was the same way, its like they just have to be told what to do when it comes to this stuff. Planning things out and making appts is just too much for them.lol I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers that all goes smoothly for you guys!!!!

I'm doing fine. Still haven't told my husband's parents..every time we have things set up they back out. So frustrating! I'm about to just text them the sonogram. Lol I go next week for my last ultrasound at the fertility clinic then its off to the midwife. It all still seems so surreal. I feel like time is moving fast and slow at the same time. Lol

 

[Luckybug]

I'm so happy for you Jules!

Now, if my baby would just get out. She's really content in there. I had my 38 week appointment today and the doc said not to be surprised if I were back next week, which is to be expected but still disappointing.

 

[Jules8]

Luckybug- Wow! How did time go so fast?! Make sure you post some pics once she is here.

 

[MH5280]

Yes please!!! We need pics of you amazing snug bug!!!!

Jules- I would totes just send a text! Haha! My husbands father and step mother don't ever communicate with us so his step sister had a baby and we found out from MY mom seeing it on Facebook! So we joke that we aren't even gonna tell them at all! But I'm kind of serious!

 

[Jules8]

I really would, but my husband is an only child so this is their first grandchild. They are very involved, in fact his dad bought me a new car this week. I feel like we owe it to tell them in person to make it special. Damn my guilty conscience! Lol

 

[Jules8]

Everything went as planned! So relieved that mostly everyone knows. I hope everyone has a good week!