TTC 1st- Anyone else in the same boat?

[tankel]

there is so much talk about twins lately. everywhere I turn, its twins, twins, twins! I hope its a sign. I would love twins. I can't wait for my peanut! come one little one, get conceived (and the STAY put for 9 months!)

 

[88stone]

Aww I thought cause his dad was we would have a greater chance.
I've always had dreams of a little girl and two younger twin boys!
Good luck to all of you guys this month!
Hoping all our babies stick around.. Would be amazing! We haven't been BDimg every day or every second day but I hope we did something right!

 

[88stone]

I asked my OH if he knew the chances of getting pregnant was 20%. He said no he thought it was higher for everyone too. Then I said the percentage for miscarriage and cp. He just looked at me and said not to think about any of that he knows me so well lol I'm trying to look at the positive and have 6 days until AF may or may not show up I'm getting impatient about it!!

 

[88stone]

Omg BeeBee!!!!! You got a positive!?!

 

[swampmaiden]

We tried to conceive for months.. Twice a day during ovulation windows, every other day for entire rest of cycle except AF.. Finally gave up after 6 or 7 months, used condoms for a few months because I wanted to be able to drink without worrying.. Then one month we decided not to use condoms but because we were kinda fighting a bit we only DTD like 3 random times all month... And boom, preggos. And I think the bd that did it was standing up in the shower and washing myself afterward lol go figure... I now am a firm believer in not stressing it and leung Nature decide, because despite the stats, it only takes one time.

 

[tankel]

I know that a lot of people talk about the stress of TTC, but I find it really exciting. and I know that I havn't been trying all that long but I think the science of it all, the ss, the tww, all of it is so exciting to me. I can't wait for all you lovelies to get your s and don't worry, I'll be right behind you.

 

[Bee Bee]

Omg BeeBee!!!!! You got a positive!?!

Yes, I did! O: I am still worried it might not be sticky since I found out I was losing my last pregnancy at the second blood test. (which is what i am getting today) Also, there was a lady I talked to at my fertility doctors office (who I normally don't talk to) and she was a real bitch to me and had me questioning myself. She said my HCG levels were from my HCG shot on ovulation day. But, my doc said not to test for a week because of that, so that would mean that I should of been out of that range at 10days. Then I said that based on my temps that I thought I might of implanted on 9DPo and she scoffed at me and said "You don't know that." And I just wanted to say "Yeah, you're right. You can never REALLY know but no reason to be a bitch to me about it" but I didn't cuz I'm too nice lol.

Anyway! Yeah, I tried not to think about the odds as well, but I think it's important to know them though. Especially if you do have a MC because a lot of ladies blame themselves for it but really, it's just very common and nothing you can do about it. Or even if you try for quite a while and don't conceive. Doesn't mean anything is wrong with you, it's just odds.

 

[88stone]

Well I'm sending you positive vibes Bee!!! Just try to think positive plus you know your body.. Bitchy lady doesn't lol
5 days for me.. I'll test a few days later since my AF doesn't always come on time

 

[Bee Bee]

My blood came back negative So either she was right (which I dont thin she was based on what my doc told me) or I had a chemical.

 

[88stone]

So do you need to go see your doctor then? I'm really sorry you got confusing results. Hopefully you figure it out soon.
I'm sending you positive vibes & hope you get it sorted out! We are here for you if you need to talk or vent

 

[Bee Bee]

So do you need to go see your doctor then? I'm really sorry you got confusing results. Hopefully you figure it out soon.
I'm sending you positive vibes & hope you get it sorted out! We are here for you if you need to talk or vent

Not really, as far as they are concerned Im out this cycle and Im just supposed to call them when AF starts. But she was supposed to start today so Im sure I had a chemical

 

[88stone]

I guess so.. That's odd though isn't it?
Again I'm sorry Bee
Does this throw off your cycle or anything? I'm sorry I don't know much about it. I guess all you can do is wait for now

 

[Bee Bee]

I guess so.. That's odd though isn't it?
Again I'm sorry Bee
Does this throw off your cycle or anything? I'm sorry I don't know much about it. I guess all you can do is wait for now

Not typically. Chemical pregnancies are just a term for a really really early miscarriage. Typically they occur because implantation failed.

that whole 20% chance thing I was telling you about.

 

[88stone]

Lots I didn't know as a part of the 20% chance I'm sorry you had to go through that especially with the crappy lady making you feel bad

 

[tankel]

Yuck Bee. I'm hugely sorry about your loss, especially since it is on the coattails of your ectopic.

 

[Lozzielaula]

So sorry about your news Bee


How are we all today??

xx

 

[88stone]

I'm good. Just haven't been sleeping well. Plus I'm feeling a bit jealous cause there's two new pregnancy announcements from friends I don't like feeling jealous but its frustrating cause they weren't trying...

 

[tankel]

Oh I know how that is. My friend managed to get pregnant accidentally and have her baby and Im still over here ttc.

 

[Bee Bee]

I'm doing alright. Just waiting for AF. Once AF starts I need to call my RE and have them give me another round of femara.

 

[88stone]

Waiting must suck Bee! Hope it comes soon.
Yeah I'm trying to be positive but I think I'm being too Bitchy to be pregnant I think my AF will be showing up soon