TTC 1st child 35+ (Please spoiler any PG news/announcements).

Just checked out The Civil Wars. I've never heard theirusic before but they have been apart of "Live From Eddie's Attic". Just listened to a couple of clips. I love their voices, especially the girls. Thank you for introducing me to some cool, new music.
 
FM,
I'm sorry you are in pain. I know you are almost a week post ovation, but its not necessarily too early to have pg symptoms. I hope that your RE calls you back soon & you can get into the office today. I am really praying for you that this is your month!!!
 
Hi all! Just catching up on all the posts from over the weekend. I'm going to have to start writing down what page I'm on when I read these so I know how far back to go!!

I have added a signature and a photo of me and DH - this one is from our engagement photos. The horse is rolling his eyes at our antics - very patient guy to put up with us!

I am reading all these posts and feeling very happy for all of you that will soon move to the graduates thread! Yay!!!! Padbrat, I'm wearing and thinking pink for you!!

I can totally relate to the evil ex - DH's ex has very effectively alienated his daughter from him, to the point where she won't answer the phone when he calls, or come over anymore. It is really wearing on him, I keep telling him that she is smart, and she'll realize just how flaky, decieving and manipulative her mother has been and she'll be back.... Life is not a sitcom and problems can't be resolved in 30 mins.... Still hard though.

AFM, we are going on a trip soon, so I plan to make appointments to discuss options for when we get back. (omg - two weeks away from this thread - there will probably be 1000 pages by then!! lol). In preparation, I got a 7pack of ovulation tests, and I think I ov earlier than my smartphone app thought I should, but one question - does food influence the results? Like we had asparagus that day, and (tmi) it makes your pee smell funny... Just wondering.... and also, I've been itching like crazy the last couple of days. I think it is because it's gotten warmer, and I'm also sweating. And I was camping this past weekend, and found a few ticks, so I feel like there's something crawling on me! Hate that! I've also for the last couple weeks had restless legs when I go to bed... quite annoying because my twitching disturbs the cat, and I get that look! lol I've had restless legs before, but not as constant or annoying as this. Weird! Really don't think it means anything, but thought I'd throw those symptoms out there if any of you have input!
 
Hey, ladies! :hi:

I've been kind of lurking today...having a hard time keeping up with everyone, but happy to see people popping in here and there with updates. Love all the pics! Maybe one day I'll be brave enough to post one of me and DH...

So, how many preggies do we have with us now?...hmmm..skye....lynn...padbrat(Deb)...lava (that's right, lava - I said it!)...CD13 and the clomid should def be out of your system...darker line each day...I don't think I can stop myself, nope I can't! :dance: :wohoo: :happydance: :yipee: :headspin: Pulling for that confirmation of your :bfp:!!
:dust:

OMM (Chris): If there's any possibility you may be preg, check with your doc before taking the grapefruit seed extract - I want you to be well AND safe!! :hugs:

AFM, today marks CD16 and I'm still getting "high fertility" symbol on the https://i43.photobucket.com/albums/e367/gatsby6306/thverymad.gif CBFM, no sign of a peak, and I only have 3 opk sticks left which means dropping another $36 on a box of sticks for what? I can't imagine that I didn't ov already. I typically ov CD11-CD12 so something weird (no ov??) is definitely up and I'm getting annoyed:growlmad:. AF is due CD26, so I guess DH and I will just keep BDing every other day until then (God help me) to be on the safe side? Or do I now consider myself at the beginning of the interminable 2WW? I don't know. DH and I are going on vacation in a couple of weeks to a cabin on the lake, and technically I should POAS smack in the middle of vacation, which I'm afraid will ruin everything if I get a BFN. :nope: Also, does this mean no romantic afternoons of wine and cheese on the lake? I don't want to ruin this vacation, DH has so been looking forward to it, but I'm so confused and annoyed at that #$%& CBFM!!! ERRGGGHHWHHAAAAAAAA!! :brat: (I think I have officially bounced myself out of the "Whatevs Wagon"...)
 
Just checked out The Civil Wars. I've never heard theirusic before but they have been apart of "Live From Eddie's Attic". Just listened to a couple of clips. I love their voices, especially the girls. Thank you for introducing me to some cool, new music.

I am obssessed with them. Theyre voices just mesh so well together. You've got to see them if you have the chance and if they still play there. I will be so jealous!! I stumbled across them online last year & have loved them ever since!
 
Lava, I'm so excited for you I can't stand it! I really hope this is it. Everything sounds so positive! I'm FX'd for you!

FM, I hope you feel better. It sounds like you are expriencing a lot of discomfort. Thank God its almost the weekend.

Onmymind, I hope you feel better too. I hate being sick. Get some rest this weekend.

Ginger, I'm so glad you are back and okay. You are a saint for being there for your nephew. You will be such a great mom!

Labrat and Nikki, I'm glad you two understand about the ex and having a stepchild. My mom's mom died when she was 14 and she had to help raise her 3 younger sisters. One of them is mildy ******** too. My grandfather remarried and forbade him from seeing his daughters. It really hits home for me being a stepmom. Before I came into DH's life, his only visitation with his son was going over to his exes house and playing video games with him for a few hours. I told him that is crap and he'll never bond with his son. I convinced him to stand up to her and through a lot of trouble and lawyer threats, we have him ever other weekend for 4 days in a row and half the summer. I even called the mediator to make the appointment where we could all sit down and work out a custody arrangement so DH and I could have him more. When we moved into our new house (had it before we were married), I made sure there was a room especially for my stepson. I went out and bought a bunch of stuff he likes and decorated his room for him. I'm also the one that does most of the picking up and dropping off for him since DH works and goes to school. I also feed him, help him with homework, and occupy him when DH is in night classes (which last semester was 4 days a week). My family has welcomed him with open arms. They buy him gifts for Christmas and his birthday. Its just so bittersweet that I do so much with him and nurture him but my hands are tied because I don't have full say since I'm only a stepmom. Having a stepchild so much of the time in my life makes it so hard that I can't have my own. I'm sorry if I sound like I'm feeling sorry for myself.
 
Holy cow, I stay off of here for a few days and I miss EVERYTHING!!

We had a great visit with my parents. Put them on the plane home yesterday, but our next round of houseguests arrives on Saturday. It's a busy month for us - I'm glad I'm not having to run to the dr for an u/s and bloodwork every few days right now....

Lava, :wohoo: :wohoo: :wohoo: Dying to hear that beta result! Ginger and Labrat, good to see you again. FM, I am so sorry you're feeling so miserable! I hope that ends sooner rather than later. San Francisco is one of my favorite cities in the world (for visiting - I couldn't stand to spend the kind of money it takes to live there!) and I really hope you get to go. Lynn, looking forward to that scan! Skye and Pad, I am lactose intolerant so being gassy is an every day occurrence for me!! :rofl: There is actually a yoga pose that helps - it's called the "wind-releasing pose"!! :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: (No, I am not making that up!!!) It's very, er, umm, musical, but it definitely helps. :rofl:

I hope you all have a lovely day. :flower: May those of you in the tww have lots of patience and sticky :dust:, and may the rest of us have lots of patience and peace of mind. :flower: It's good to be back. :kiss:
 
Hi Ladies -

Just popping in to say hello & do a quick catch up - lots to read up on! I'm 6dop today & just feel like I've hit the wall. I'm SOOOOOO tired today and sleepy...I could easily do a face plant on my keyboard :sleep:- I wouldn't even care about having keyboard face for the remainder of the day - Uggggghhhhh! Come on 12dpo!....seems so far away. :coffee:

Baby4MJ - are you charting? - maybe your temps can give you a better idea of what's going on?
 
Now can I whoop and dance around Lava???

Baby you crack me up with the stinky avatar!! LMAO

hello again Ginger!! Nice to see you again!

Hope that pain goes quick for you FM!

Lovely art Butterfly!

I am a lil panic right now ladies as I started spotting last night... nothing major, just a little (TMI) brown blood and no cramps..... couldn't call my cons today as have been in back to back meetings... for those God fearing ladies here... he couldn't take 6 from me could he????
 
EDA: Padbrat (Deb): I am praying in EARNEST for you right now. I can't pretend to understand God's will in our lives. But I know that if there's any chance that you will carry this little baby to term, I will pray that for you and intercede on your behalf. :hugs:

Butterfly, love your work. I'm really responding to the Aubergine Tide and the Dockside pieces. Love them! ((Thinking how get one for my office, LOL)).

bblve, omm-whatevs! :) I hope you start to feel better OMM.

MJ: OK, I LOVE the Whatevs Welcome Wagon, LOVES it! How funny! But it is entirely possible that you haven't OV yet. But if you didn't want to drop the $$$ on another set of OPK, I guess you try the old fashioned way and get in at least three :sex: weekly, and you should be hitting your OV time with that. I wouldn't bring HPT to my vacation though if a BFN would ruin the trip. I would probably limit myself to one glass of wine but I would enjoy the time with DH. I was pretty free with the likka this cycle. :blush:

Thank you Lava, for cause me to spit out my water with the OJays "Love Train" remix.

Skye, hope you're feeling better--not quite so swollen today. Have fun in Florence! I have never been to Italy, and would like to go. Yeah, I might have tested a little late in hindsight. More on that lata.

Hi LynnB!

Hi Never: Awesome pics of the DH and you. DH and I go to Vegas once a year (pretty easy when you live in California). You all make me feel bad--I'm trying to figure out best way to post a pic won't cause me a bunch of drama at home, LOL. ITA with you that BFPs are in the waters this month, so I'm hoping that a bunch of us will see them. :)

Lava: It's looking VERY GOOD for you. I totally understand about not wanting to get your hopes up. It sometimes feels like at soon as you think you'll accept that it might be a BFP for sure, the itch will come or something horrible, so you prepare for the worst. But all the signs are pointing to a real BFP, not the trigger, so I'm holding out the best hope for you! I'm glad you're moving forward with the blood test.

Welcome back Gingerbread!

FM: Acid reflux SUCKS, so I'm sorry you're suffering from it. It does make sense that you see a doctor at this point, because your symptoms have been pretty severe this cycle and you want to ensure that everything is all right. You'll be in my part of town for your holiday, and I want to ensure you be here in the right frame of mind! LOL

Labrat: There will indeed be lots of pages upon your return from the trip. LOL. I don't think food affects the OPK results, as it's looking for the LH, which I don't think is found in any food I'm familiar with. I understand that Clomid (if testing very closing to taking it) and PCOS can affect the OPK though. Good luck on testing and hope you get in good :sex: during your trip.

Hugs to you MissyT! :hugs:The infinite capacity to love a child that is borne from your heart rather than under it is an awesome and bittersweet feeling. Being "a" mom but never being "mom" is really one of the most selfless acts we can do, and it is often a thankless job, but really, it makes us better women, doesn't it?

Hi HA: I wouldn't live in the City either, LOL, and I live nearby. Enjoy your time off with house-guests and not running to the doctors every few minutes.


AFM: Well, nothing. I know that I "could" test, and maybe I "should" test, but for some reason, :nope:. Maybe I just feel like there's some other reason the Itch isn't here yet. Skye, I do think that maybe I did OV earlier than I thought though, as if I OV late (after CD20) that would have meant that my PMS symptoms started in earnest 2dpo, which would be pretty unusual (although not impossible).

But I do feel better physically today. Everything is mild-the pulling twinges (which now I wonder is a muscle, because when I think about it, or if I think about certain things emotionally, it reacts), the boob pain, the bloat. I dunno ladies--I've put down in another thread that I will test 6/7. That would put me as much as 20dpo, which seems would factor any Clomid variables, you think? Although I've heard of women with 50 day Clomid cycles, so I don't know what to think.
 
Now can I whoop and dance around Lava???

Baby you crack me up with the stinky avatar!! LMAO

hello again Ginger!! Nice to see you again!

Hope that pain goes quick for you FM!

Lovely art Butterfly!

I am a lil panic right now ladies as I started spotting last night... nothing major, just a little (TMI) brown blood and no cramps..... couldn't call my cons today as have been in back to back meetings... for those God fearing ladies here... he couldn't take 6 from me could he????

Pad - sounds like old blood, the non cramping is probably a good thing. None the less, throwing out some prayers for you & your lil'bean. :hugs:
 
Missyt, I am so glad that you are doing so much for your stepson, even though it is painful to not have your own. It is a very hard thing for my DH to not have a better relationship with his kids, good for you for making it happen for yours! He must really appreciate that!

We've gone to court many times, and even in group therapy (us and the ex and her husband) for almost a year, and that helped - I think it did show SD that her dad isn't as evil as her mom and grandma said he was, so she has that to remember. I hope! The judge even sent her to jail for interfering with visitation! which of course was twisted around to SD to be "your dad sent your mom to jail!" even though it was her own behavior that did it. I am constantly surprised at how much damage she's done to her own daughter just to ruin her relationship with her father. Some people!
 
I am a lil panic right now ladies as I started spotting last night... nothing major, just a little (TMI) brown blood and no cramps..... couldn't call my cons today as have been in back to back meetings... for those God fearing ladies here... he couldn't take 6 from me could he????

The one thing I know for a fact is that I can't explain or understand what God does or why He does it, but I am praying for you and your LO always.... :hugs::hugs:
 
Couldn't get in today to test so I'm waiting for tomorrow morning. I go in at 8 am but won't get the results until.after lunch, but knowing their schedule it will ne closer to 5 pm. I will update as soon as I know. In the meantime, not only do I have a grad party to attend tonight but a good friend who lives in Birmingham just called to ask to stay with us tonight b/c she has a job interview in the morning. I really am not in the mood for houseguests tonight, but she's my good friend.

I will catch up with everyone soon but I wanted to tell Deb that I am saying prayers for her and her sticky pink bean!!!
 
Padbrat, I'm praying for you! I know its easy to say, try not to panic but please hang in there. Many prayers coming your way.

Labrat, wow! DH's ex sounds like a peice of work! There are a lot of people out there that aren't a part of their child's life by choice. Its completely selfish for her to deny DH from seeing his child when he is making all efforts. People that do that don't realize the damage they are doing to their children, not to mention affecting how her daughter will view men if she keeps thinking her dad is the bad guy. Enough is enough and she should realize it isn't about her, its about her child and what is best for the child. Your DH sounds like a decent guy so she is only messing with her daughter's life by causing all that drama. I could go on with many stories about DH's ex. One good one is that she met her current husband right after her and DH split up. DH was in the military. She tried to convince him to sign over his paternal rights so her current husband could adopt him. He told her no way! I just don't get it.
 
Padrat- praying for your little sticky bean!

Nikki Leigh- Fx for you!

labrat- Welcome back to us!

baby4mj- I hope you get a positive opk soon, but make sure you get some bd'ing in the main time.

lava- OMG! we have to wait until tomorrow???? I will be stalking you!

AFM- I called the RE and the nurse said that the GERD (acid reflux) could be because my ovaries are swollen and pushing up on my other organs, she suggested that I get someting over the counter, don't eat too late at night, stay away from certain foods and continue to rest (like I don't work) and drink gatorade. Ugh, I'm just ready for this feeling to go away.
 
Hi Ladies -

Just popping in to say hello & do a quick catch up - lots to read up on! I'm 6dop today & just feel like I've hit the wall. I'm SOOOOOO tired today and sleepy...I could easily do a face plant on my keyboard :sleep:- I wouldn't even care about having keyboard face for the remainder of the day - Uggggghhhhh! Come on 12dpo!....seems so far away. :coffee:

"Keyboard face" :haha:...that made me giggle right out loud!
Baby4MJ - are you charting? - maybe your temps can give you a better idea of what's going on?

When I first started TTC (about a million years ago it feels like) I did try to chart my temps, but honestly it made me bonkers...I had no idea what I was doing or what I was looking for, so I got the CBFM which made life so much easier for me...until now! I really truly think I ov'd...anovulation has never been a problem for me, not even after the m/cs or the D&C...I just think I screwed up POAS somewhere along the way, or maybe didn't POAS enough...my testing window begins at 5am and I'm usually barely conscious so it's amazing I hit the stick at all. I guess there's not much I can do now but stop my complaining and wait. :coffee:
 
I am a lil panic right now ladies as I started spotting last night... nothing major, just a little (TMI) brown blood and no cramps..... couldn't call my cons today as have been in back to back meetings... for those God fearing ladies here... he couldn't take 6 from me could he????

NO He won't...we won't allow it. PMAPMAPMA and [-o<[-o<[-o<[-o< flooding your way!!!
 
MJ: OK, I LOVE the Whatevs Welcome Wagon, LOVES it! How funny! But it is entirely possible that you haven't OV yet. But if you didn't want to drop the $$$ on another set of OPK, I guess you try the old fashioned way and get in at least three :sex: weekly, and you should be hitting your OV time with that. I wouldn't bring HPT to my vacation though if a BFN would ruin the trip. I would probably limit myself to one glass of wine but I would enjoy the time with DH. I was pretty free with the likka this cycle. :blush:

I officially don't trust any calendars or the CBFM an iota anymore so DH and I have been :sex: ourselves half to death since CD8. I told him last night that I'd let him off the hook on CD26 if he wanted me to, which is when the :witch: is scheduled to land (at the beginning of our vacation...seriously, who planned this??:dohh:). DH said he's in it for the long haul, so whatever I want (or can survive). I may have to get my poor DH a willie-splint after this cycle.

AFM: Well, nothing. I know that I "could" test, and maybe I "should" test, but for some reason, :nope:. Maybe I just feel like there's some other reason the Itch isn't here yet. Skye, I do think that maybe I did OV earlier than I thought though, as if I OV late (after CD20) that would have meant that my PMS symptoms started in earnest 2dpo, which would be pretty unusual (although not impossible).

But I do feel better physically today. Everything is mild-the pulling twinges (which now I wonder is a muscle, because when I think about it, or if I think about certain things emotionally, it reacts), the boob pain, the bloat. I dunno ladies--I've put down in another thread that I will test 6/7. That would put me as much as 20dpo, which seems would factor any Clomid variables, you think? Although I've heard of women with 50 day Clomid cycles, so I don't know what to think.

ACK! 50 days?!? I hope that's not the case for you. When I did my Clomid cycle, it delayed me probably by a couple of weeks (I typically have a 25-day cycle). But 50...good grief...I think you should be good to test 6/7.
 
^^^preggo brain? I can't remember where you are in your cycle but are you certain that you are not pregnant?

I just think it's in the waters lately...lots of BFP's going around and I really want us all to have our very own BFP's too :flower:

Hope you're feeling better soon though :hugs:

A xxx

LOL, even i dont know where i am at in my cycle lol, this time i really jumped on the whatever wagon. I am usually 25 days, so i am guessing af is due ohhhh sometime around the 8th maybe lol. I think its more the head cold i have lol, although i have to say i keep getting these sharp little twinges on my right side, feels like where my ovary is at, but who knows, all i know is my body loves to play tricks on me lol. Thanks for the hugs oh and i got the Grapeseed Extract, going to try that now!!
 

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