Omi
A Mummy At Last!
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Im sooo jealous of you being in Greece (apart from all the negative press of credit crunch etc etc.) Ive never been but id lurve to go, looks beautiful.... and good food, and wine, and culture and sun... sigh!
My dh has a demanding dayjob and his own business and so i can totally relate to the probs of sometimes getting the bd on the right time. But i think we're both on the same page now and want this more than anything so at least i now know that if it aint happening he's as crestfallen as i am and i don't make an issue of it as hey, if the shoe was on the other foot, you know....
I can also relate to the mc issue. had 2 and 2 d&c's. Ive done well, but i wont lie that at times Ive been quite bitter about the lot Ive been handed - but, it is what it is and its not the end of the world. if you look hard enough plenty of so called lucky pg/ family people have their own issues which i wouldn't wanna trade.
There's this very nice girl at work. She's 24 and was due to finnish her social care work degree at college this spring. She fell accidentally pg in Sept with her bf and did admit it was quite a shock. She has now had to put her professional life on hold.
I like to put things in perspective for my own ends so what im gonna say next is no criticism of others honest! But i thought, she's so young, and now she's gonna be tied to this guy for the rest of her life.
Ive been there done that. Everything. I would have loved to have kids earlier had a met the right man.But i didn't. But im glad that i don't have anything undone, i have picked the man for me - we picked each other - and i feel blessed for the things i have even though i don't have what others take for granted.
I guess i sometimes like to count my blessings..
Allt the best, hun!!
Omi xxxxx
My dh has a demanding dayjob and his own business and so i can totally relate to the probs of sometimes getting the bd on the right time. But i think we're both on the same page now and want this more than anything so at least i now know that if it aint happening he's as crestfallen as i am and i don't make an issue of it as hey, if the shoe was on the other foot, you know....
I can also relate to the mc issue. had 2 and 2 d&c's. Ive done well, but i wont lie that at times Ive been quite bitter about the lot Ive been handed - but, it is what it is and its not the end of the world. if you look hard enough plenty of so called lucky pg/ family people have their own issues which i wouldn't wanna trade.
There's this very nice girl at work. She's 24 and was due to finnish her social care work degree at college this spring. She fell accidentally pg in Sept with her bf and did admit it was quite a shock. She has now had to put her professional life on hold.
I like to put things in perspective for my own ends so what im gonna say next is no criticism of others honest! But i thought, she's so young, and now she's gonna be tied to this guy for the rest of her life.
Ive been there done that. Everything. I would have loved to have kids earlier had a met the right man.But i didn't. But im glad that i don't have anything undone, i have picked the man for me - we picked each other - and i feel blessed for the things i have even though i don't have what others take for granted.
I guess i sometimes like to count my blessings..
Allt the best, hun!!
Omi xxxxx