Ttc #2, 12dpo bfn

[jessibear86]

As the title says I am ttc #2. I'm 12dpo and got a negative every day for the last few days on wondfos. I didn't buy the test early version so i'm hoping these ones just aren't good for testing early. Anyways, I am pretty sure I O'd on the 20th. Around 8-9 days I had mild cramping, and 10dpo had a LOT of cramping. I've been gassy and nauseous on and off. I know it's not over until AF shows up but I'm already feeling a little discouraged. This is my second month of trying. With my first pregnancy I didn't test until I was already a day late since I had very little expectation of pregnancy since my husband had came back home from being stationed in Bahrain only the day before my O.

Anyways, it's possible that I still could be pregnant right? Also.. i feel like I could be. like i'm cramping so often and my period isn't due for another 5 days. Should I just stop getting myself down with negatives and test later? It's so hard!!

 

[anabellaw]

No advise as in a similar situation 10dpo today and negative. Fingers crossed we are just too early xx

 

[Tristansmom]

Same here - 11DPO today, didn't test but had a BFN on Wednesday. Waiting to test again till Sunday. Here's hoping!

 

[jessibear86]

Just a quick update: I continued to get negatives on 12 and 13dpo. I stopped testing because I was getting really sad and now my period is two days late, i am currently 16 dpo. I'm cramping a lot and it feels like AF is coming but I'm hoping it doesn't! If AF is a no-show tomorrow morning I am taking another test. good luck ladies!!

 

[Tristansmom]

Good luck to you too! I actually got my BFP So excited!!

 

[jessibear86]

Congratulations that's amazing !!! Keep your fingers crossed for me!

 

[Tristansmom]

I had the faintest line imaginable at 12 dpo, and even this morning at 14 dpo the line was still pretty faint... I'm not home so can't post a pic of the second test but don't lose hope yet!

 

[penelopejones]

jessibear - My daughter is about the same age as your son! Trying for #2 also. I had some cramping and sore bbs but haven't tested yet. Let us know how it goes!

 

[jessibear86]

Well, i'm 3 days late today so decided it would be a good time to POAS... i used a digital clear blue and it gave me a BFN. I'm cramping on and off and maybe it's in my head but i swear i can smell everything. I'm going to wait a few more days before testing again. I just wish either AF would get here or I would have my bfp already! So frustrating!

Good luck Penelope!

 

[Tristansmom]

I saw a thing on a thread somewhere about how depending on your not-pregnant levels of HCG it's possible to not get a good positive until after 16 or 17 dpo! Good luck

 

[jessibear86]

4 days late now, 18 dpo and a negative wondfo yet again this morning. I wish I could know if I was or just get AF already! I'm planning to get a DR. Appointment to get my blood tested fingers crossed i still have a chance this cycle!

just wanted to add, I test the day after my period was due with my first baby. I didn't even realize my period was late and it showed up right away. hoping every time is just different.

 

[jessibear86]

i have a blood test scheduled for tomorrow. still no AF and another neg test. fingers crossed!!

 

[BommaMomma]

Stalking! I'm possibly 1 day late over here, having cramps also. Sounds like we are having similar symptoms. Interested to see what your blood test reveals! FX!

 

[jessibear86]

So I just wanted to update, as of 21 DPO I got a FAINT !!! I poas with fmu with a early response and it showed negative. I went out for the day, and when i got back home i had the urge to dig it out of the trash and see it. I did so and it had a second line! faint but very obvious. I took another right away since the time limit for accuracy had obviously passed and had another faint positive. at 22DPO I took another but with a different brand and another faint. All this time I was testing negative on my wondfos.... last night i finally got a faint positive on a wondfo and a clear obvious positive this morning.

The dr. doubted i was pregnant, tell me the at home tests are extremely accurate and i might just not be regular yet after having my son 16 months ago. I am very excited to hear what she has to say when she calls with the results of my blood test today!!!

 

[Tristansmom]

Congrats!!! Can't wait to hear what the doc says!