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[AllisMommy]

Hello my friends!
Asleep at 8pm tonight, and up 4 hours later at 12 am...wtf?
No AF yet, cramping and lower back pain.

I told myself if no AF by friday, will test again.
The thing about being so tired is I dont have the will to go to the store and fight with my 2 year old when she wants everything in the store. SO. I can wait til friday after work.

Also, I have been taking BBT now, just to see what it is...and it's at 99. Anyone know if this sounds like a fever, or maybe just high because pg?

I have been taking tylenol to reduce fever, but holy crap I feel hot ALL the time. Which is weird...if Ihave fever, should have chills. UGH my body

CD41, here I come.

 

[AllisMommy]

Random post, but found this super interesting. Gotta love google

https://www.babymed.com/pregnancy-news/hcg-levels-and-gender-fetus

Totally want a little boy too....Maybe this is good news for me! lol

 

[HappyCpl]

Random post, but found this super interesting. Gotta love google

https://www.babymed.com/pregnancy-news/hcg-levels-and-gender-fetus

Oh wow, that's very interesting! We are trying for a boy too. I've always wanted 3 kids. My husband and I are nervous about having twins. ESP if we have to go through fertility treatments. I know we could handle twins, but the thought is still scary.

 

[HappyCpl]

Missed work today. I'm cramping so bad and so nausous. Worse than when AF shows. I'm going to call the dr when they open. I have a feeling this is related to my endometriosis.

 

[HollySSmith]

Hello my friends!
Asleep at 8pm tonight, and up 4 hours later at 12 am...wtf?
No AF yet, cramping and lower back pain.

I told myself if no AF by friday, will test again.
The thing about being so tired is I dont have the will to go to the store and fight with my 2 year old when she wants everything in the store. SO. I can wait til friday after work.

Also, I have been taking BBT now, just to see what it is...and it's at 99. Anyone know if this sounds like a fever, or maybe just high because pg?

I have been taking tylenol to reduce fever, but holy crap I feel hot ALL the time. Which is weird...if Ihave fever, should have chills. UGH my body

CD41, here I come.

Whenever I get temps that high (and I'm not sick lol), it's been a , fingers x'd for you!

 

[runnergrl]

well my temp dropped .3 degrees this morning. i hope hope hope that means AF today! that would give me a 14 day LP and we can GET THIS PARTY STARTED!!

 

[HappyCpl]

well my temp dropped .3 degrees this morning. i hope hope hope that means AF today! that would give me a 14 day LP and we can GET THIS PARTY STARTED!!

Oh I hope so. Fingers crossed!

 

[HollySSmith]

So I need a bit of advice. Last weekend we were over at the IL's to see them off for a trip. SIL and her DH were there as well. Well as is custom, I was offered a glass of wine, which I turned down. Of course SIL immediately started on how that will get the rumors going etc. so as she's grilling me, I find ourselves alone and everyone else has disappeared and she starts asking me very directly if I'm pregnant, and she was very aggressive about it. So I *kinda* admitted I was in fact pregnant.
Then the tears started. I guess SIL wanted to start TTC this month but can't as she got back two paps in the last three months for irregular cells. She has to go in for a more extensive exam next week which may lead to a cone biopsy. She's understandably devastated, and now I feel like a total ass . I would have never said I was pregnant when she has so much going on (I would have waited until she got her results).
Anyone have any experience? I'm just looking to reassure her, as I'm sure it will all be fine. My mom had a biopsy before she had me, but getting information from my mother is like pulling teeth. Shes really concerned she will never be able to have children, but I think it's way too early to assume that....

 

[AllisMommy]

Hello my friends!
Asleep at 8pm tonight, and up 4 hours later at 12 am...wtf?
No AF yet, cramping and lower back pain.

I told myself if no AF by friday, will test again.
The thing about being so tired is I dont have the will to go to the store and fight with my 2 year old when she wants everything in the store. SO. I can wait til friday after work.

Also, I have been taking BBT now, just to see what it is...and it's at 99. Anyone know if this sounds like a fever, or maybe just high because pg?

I have been taking tylenol to reduce fever, but holy crap I feel hot ALL the time. Which is weird...if Ihave fever, should have chills. UGH my body

CD41, here I come.

Whenever I get temps that high (and I'm not sick lol), it's been a , fingers x'd for you!

Off to doctor now! I'll cross my fingers!! Would be a relief as this crazy cycle is say weird for me!!!

 

[mimismom]

Hello my friends!
Asleep at 8pm tonight, and up 4 hours later at 12 am...wtf?
No AF yet, cramping and lower back pain.

I told myself if no AF by friday, will test again.
The thing about being so tired is I dont have the will to go to the store and fight with my 2 year old when she wants everything in the store. SO. I can wait til friday after work.

Also, I have been taking BBT now, just to see what it is...and it's at 99. Anyone know if this sounds like a fever, or maybe just high because pg?

I have been taking tylenol to reduce fever, but holy crap I feel hot ALL the time. Which is weird...if Ihave fever, should have chills. UGH my body

CD41, here I come.

Sounds like me last night I was slp at 8:30 woke up at 12am.
Too bad I think my 2 year old hid my thermometer so I couldnt check
My temp. It was at 98.34 amd 98.04 past two days. Bummer! But im only oN CD17.
How long are your cycles normally? If your temp stays elevated its a.good sign

 

[AllisMommy]

So I need a bit of advice. Last weekend we were over at the IL's to see them off for a trip. SIL and her DH were there as well. Well as is custom, I was offered a glass of wine, which I turned down. Of course SIL immediately started on how that will get the rumors going etc. so as she's grilling me, I find ourselves alone and everyone else has disappeared and she starts asking me very directly if I'm pregnant, and she was very aggressive about it. So I *kinda* admitted I was in fact pregnant.
Then the tears started. I guess SIL wanted to start TTC this month but can't as she got back two paps in the last three months for irregular cells. She has to go in for a more extensive exam next week which may lead to a cone biopsy. She's understandably devastated, and now I feel like a total ass . I would have never said I was pregnant when she has so much going on (I would have waited until she got her results).
Anyone have any experience? I'm just looking to reassure her, as I'm sure it will all be fine. My mom had a biopsy before she had me, but getting information from my mother is like pulling teeth. Shes really concerned she will never be able to have children, but I think it's way too early to assume that....

I can understand her feelings but you also did nothing wrong friend. She asked you, it's not like you knew her situation and started blabbing about how happy you are etc. if she knows you well.. She should know you didn't mean to hurt her feelings . This is a happy time for you though so don't let others get you down. I have hard feelings against my sil. She totally announced her engagement at my engagement party, and her pregnancy at my baby shower!! Pissed me off, dif situation though. She did it knowingly.

 

[HappyCpl]

I agree with AllisMommy. You did nothing wrong. I don't knot how close you are with your SIL, but all you can do is be there for her and continue loving and caring for her. You aren't rubbing it in her face or being unkind. It's a difficult situation to be in for sure.

 

[sla545]

I agree. She asked you and you told her. If she hadnt brought it up, you would not have mentioned it. Honestly, if I were her, I would have rather found out now than hear the news later. If she gets bad news and has to wait even longer or cant ttc at all, it might have been harder to hear later. I hope everything turns out ok for her!

 

[runnergrl]

Holly-you did nothing wrong.. and she might not have a thing to worry about. She hsnt even tried yet, right? try not to feel bad, hun.. I know its hard with all the hormones and things How you feeling??

 

[HollySSmith]

Holly-you did nothing wrong.. and she might not have a thing to worry about. She hsnt even tried yet, right? try not to feel bad, hun.. I know its hard with all the hormones and things How you feeling??

I wouldn't have said anything but she kept hounding me. I feel terrible because it will delay her trying for awhile, it sounds like she won't be able to try until the end of the summer, and that's the earliest. MIL had fertility issues and I'm hoping she doesn't as well. Sad situation really.
I'm fairly close with SIL, we definitely hang out when we're together and she tells me most anything. I just hope that things work out for her.

I feel ok, the ms isn't too bad yet (I know it's coming though ), my bb are really sore today but otherwise ok. It is crazy how fast things change once your pregnant!

 

[Hann12]

I can help with this one HollySSmith! Firstly no you did nothing wrong - if she was asking you of course you are likely to say. Now as for the cells, I have had 2 lots of abnormal cells, they were 2 years apart - Years 2000 and 2002, the first time I had CIN 1 - which is abnormal cells but they are quite a way from being cancerous, I had laser surgery to remove them. They left some that they didn't believe were abnormal, then 2 years later I had another smear (I had been travelling so I should have had one in 2001 but was out of the country so it was missed) and I had CIN 3 - which is one stage away from cancer. They removed the cells again with a laser. It wasn't a full cone biopsy however in theory the whole of my cervix has been lasered now. I did fall pregnant very easily with my daughter. During the pregnancy I had extra scans on my cervix to make sure that it was the correct length to hold the baby. If it shortens then they would have put a stitch in to hold it together but it didn't. Please tell her that likelihood is that a) she won't have to have a cone biopsy as they try to use other methods first b) if she does they will be able to monitor her closely if she does fall pregnant so hopefully there is no danger to the baby. A cone biopsy doesn't stop implantation though. I had the same fears as her too so I totally understand it.
I hope that helps

 

[AllisMommy]

Missed work today. I'm cramping so bad and so nausous. Worse than when AF shows. I'm going to call the dr when they open. I have a feeling this is related to my endometriosis.

How are you feeling? did you get to the doc?

 

[HappyCpl]

Missed work today. I'm cramping so bad and so nausous. Worse than when AF shows. I'm going to call the dr when they open. I have a feeling this is related to my endometriosis.

How are you feeling? did you get to the doc?

I feel a lot of pressure and cramping still. I'm at the dr now playing the waiting game.

 

[AllisMommy]

Hope you get some answers. I am still waiting for my answers too!!! My doc office is taking their sweet time calling me back!

 

[Hann12]

Missed work today. I'm cramping so bad and so nausous. Worse than when AF shows. I'm going to call the dr when they open. I have a feeling this is related to my endometriosis.

How are you feeling? did you get to the doc?

I feel a lot of pressure and cramping still. I'm at the dr now playing the waiting game.

I hope you are okay