TTC #2 any one wanna be buddies!!

[Mrs W 11]

Thank you girls. I'm ok, the physical side is over now. I had bad, painful cramps and contractions last night but once my body expelled the clots and sac the pain disappeared. Still bleeding but not heavy. Just feel emotionally broken now.

I want to ttc straight away tho so ill be back soon! Xx

 

[scissors]

Take time to mourn the loss of your baby mrsw. I know how easy it is to obsess about being pregnant again. I felt the exact same and didnt wait ttc , i only felt better when i was pregnant again so hopefully it wont take you long to get your bfp again!

 

[butterfly1808]

Mrsw11- I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I pray for you and a speedy recovery, and the girls are right take time to moran that is not an easy thing to go through especially if you have been trying for a while, not saying for those that it didnt take alot of time is less worse but ttc for a long time thats all you want is a little one and then this happens, my heart aches for all you ladies that had to go through this.

Angel baby- temping vaginally is best accrute, I use ff

Nimbec- congrats!!!! Hope you get your bfp soon baby dust

Afm- I did reply a couple days ago so I thought just came on to notice it must of not worked lol. So ya this month my temping I forgot to do going to try tomorrow and see whst happens. Cd 11 right now so I might be fine to truely start temping tomorrow.

 

[butterfly1808]

Nimbec I was going to say that your must be releived all the planning is over with. My wedding is in 7 1/2 months and I have all the big things done, but im making all my center peices and favors and well pretty much everything lol but wow hectic and august is coming to fast.

 

[scissors]

Butterfly will you stil go ahead with the wedding if you become pregnant? We had a cut off point that if i hadnt got pregnant we would wait till after the wedding, although im sure stopping ttc is easier said than done!

 

[Angelbaby_01]

Hi!

How are you all doing? What are you doing for the weekend?

I made cookies today and will be watching movies tonight. Miss my hubby and so wish af would come so I can move on.

 

[scissors]

How long has it been since you d&c angelbaby? I think i got my first af about 3 & 1/2 weeks after mc but everyone is different. I found out yesterday my sister is pregnant with her first! Shes about 2 weeks behind me so im praying everything goes ok for both of us.

Hows everyone else doing?

 

[Angelbaby_01]

Congratulations with your sister's pregnancy!

It's been 5 weeks and 3 days. I know it can take a while for af to arrive d&c, I just hoped I would be lucky enough to get it sooner. I mostly spotted throughout December and had my last spot on the 1st of Jan.

 

[scissors]

Hopefully af shows soon. Could you be pregnant again? I dont want to get your hopes up but its always a possability. Id say af will show in the next week or so. If not maybe ask your doctor how long should it take before it becomes a concern xx

 

[Angelbaby_01]

I tested negative on the 4th and did not dtd until now.

 

[butterfly1808]

Sissors- no not really a cut off point yet, if we do fall pregnant than we are just going to have a small wedding like we really wanted. But we are for sure going to have a cut off at some point just don't know when yet. It is hard to stop trying just thinking about it makes me sad.

Angel baby- I feel your pain about your hubby being gone it sucks! We are all here for you!! I hope your af does arrive soon, but on the other hand I cross my fingers your pregnant!!

Afm- yup didn't get into charting this month, but I am cd 15 so either today or tomorrow I O'd which bd is covered!

 

[Angelbaby_01]

O, butterfly. I hope you get your bfp now soon and that stop ttc never ever would have to be an option.

Thank you butterfly. I actually hope that I am pregnant as well and that I only tested too early. I am too scared to test again though..............

 

[scissors]

Butterfly hopefully you wont have to make a cut off point and you still have options with the specialist once you have the other tests done.

Angelbaby i know testing again will hurt if its negative and stressing can mess up your cycles too. Im hoping for a bfp for you but if not then hopefully af shows so you can continue your journey ttc xx

 

[Angelbaby_01]

Hallo ladies,

How are you doing?

Well, after complaining all day I have a bittersweet moment. arrived and now I can officially start charting again

 

[scissors]

Angelbaby at least your body is getting back to normal. Good luck charting

Hows everyone else doing? Mrsw hope you're keeping ok.

Iv a question unrelated to ttc... How do you cut your lo's toenails? My son is so squirmy its impossible now to cut them. I used to be able to do them when he was asleep but now he wakes as soon as i touch his feet! I can still do his fingernails while he's asleep but not toenails. Iv tried doing them in highchair when he's eating with the tv on but he doesnt stay stil long enough for me to cut them. the same goes for biting them, i tried it as a last resort but he keeps pulling his feet away! Dont know how il do them now.... Has anyone any tips?

 

[Mrs W 11]

Thanks scissors. I'm ok bleeding has stopped now so just waiting at start bding and get ready to ov, we are ttc again asap so fingers crossed ill be lucky.

How are you feeling?

Hmm Freya's 18 months now and she stays still when I cut her nails but she did go through a stage where it was impossible! I had to get dh to help so he'd entertain her while I cut them but it was still hard. X

 

[scissors]

Glad to hear you're doing ok mrsw, are you charting to see when you o? Hopefully you get your bfp very soon. I think i had 2 af's then got my bfp after my mc. If hubby is home early enough today il get him to distract lee and see if that works. Im still sick but getting a bit more energy so feeling slightly better.

 

[Mrs W 11]

No I'm not charting this time. My plan is to start bding from this weekend. Hopefully my hcg will be low enough soon that hpt and opk are negative and then I can start opks to check when I ov. I'm also checking cm and cp though so I think I'll know when I ov hopefully. Fingers crossed anyway!

Glad you're getting some energy now. When's your scan? Xx

 

[scissors]

My scans not till 31st january so still 2 weeks to wait. Yea checking cm and cp will give you a good guess as to your o day. Are hpt still showing positive now? And how does that affect opk's? I had heard of people getting positive opk when pregnant but never really thought it was true as i presumed they detect different things, obviously im wrong about it

 

[butterfly1808]

Angel baby- I am glad as well that af came and now you can start to chart and all that hope you get your BFP soon as we'll!! Fx

Sissors- sorry I'm not help on the nail cutting I can't remember what I did. Hopefully you get better soon.

Mrsw11- I hope you receive your BFP as well, gl fx for you

Afm-Thanks ladies I love your support!! I really hope I don't have to come to a cut off point as well. I haven't been charting but I haven't been checking cm either but I noticed ewcm like up until cd 15 and cd 16 nothing that was a day I actually checked which is weird cause I usually get ewcm until cd 16 I guess we will see this month.

Fx that this is our month ladies, we are strong women and can over come a lot, I know at times things may be hard, but we have to keep our heads held high and remember there is always good that's that come with the bad, our little babies will soon come!!