You're lucky not to have cramps! I find that some months they are like they were pre-baby, and other months they are much more painful than they used to be.
Regardless, my first month TTCing #2 ended with AF, and now we're on to month 2. I'm currently in the 2 week wait, with AF due this weekend... and I'm not feeling particularly positive this month. I've been having these reccuring headaches for a few days, which I never had in either of my previous pregnancies (DS is 16 months, and I lost 1 at 8 weeks), and they're just getting me down. Oh well...