TTC #2 Less Than 12 Months After #1

[RainbowBaby13]

I did! Bfn!

Here's what i posted on the other thread to lazy to re type it lol


"Tested yesterday late afternoon and then this morning with fmu. Ugly bfn of course lol but wasn't too shocked being that it's still early. I don't feel out at all but I used up all my tests that I bought from Walmart yesterday lol. Now just waiting on my IC's and the frer tests I bought today. No more tests for me until the 25th. Will keep you all posted."

 

[lamago]

So for the no go Janna! Im 13 DPO and got BFN this am. Now just waiting for AF. sigh

 

[Jannah K]

Cd21. .clinic guard didn't pick anything since cd12...I have 2-3 times daily
I m temping but it isn't reliable as I wake up tio many times at night ...temping didn't confirm o yet either...
Not sure how long to keep testing opk...

 

[Jannah K]

Got my positive opk at noon on FRER..cheapie still showing negative....
I did bd this morning not realizing I might get my lh surge...not sure if we can do more due to OH back...but good news is I got the lh surge cd22 I finished like 30 strips and they never showed any progression...FRER showed progression rt away!

 

[lucy_smith]

How's everyone getting on? ?

Glad you got a pos opk jannah!
Any bfps yet rainbow?
Lamago?

Just waiting for a pos opk which should happen within the next 5 days or so.... Fingers crossed!

 

[lucy_smith]

........... Took my opk today and the line is fainter than it's ever been? Is it normal for it to get fainter just before you expect to get a positive?

 

[Jannah K]

Yes it's normal
Do opk same everyday...make sure no water 2hrs before. .
As you get closer to when you think you o, start doing 2 times
Best times are noon-2pm and 8pm-10PM.
Good luck!
Anyone done charting before?
I had 0.1 deg F increase this am...does it mean anything in terms of confirming o?

 

[Jannah K]

I had lh surge yday at noon..I tested today at 1pm..I still have surge..temperature was 0.1deg F rise this AM...loads of cm but it's not ewcm..it's egg white but breakable...since I bd yday..do you think I need to bd again today-it will be tough to get OH on board today...
Been having cramps/twingea on left since last night....I think my body is just trying to o...
Other than that nothing much on my end...I dunno if my af will be 14 days later or if my lp got short ...let's see

 

[Jannah K]

Lemeley hru? ?

 

[lucy_smith]

Took an opk at 12 and it was the darkest I've seen! Almost as dark as the test line.... Then took one at 8 and it's pale again...... Do you think that was the positive?

 

[Jannah K]

Yay congrats! !!yes

 

[lucy_smith]

We bd last night..... So don't know if I will be able to persuade oh again tonight he doesn't have a high sex drive :/
Am I basicaly just to try and bd as much as possible over the next 2-3 days?
And how do I know exactly when I ovulate? When can I count 1dpo?

 

[Jannah K]

Hi Lucy
The only way to ensure o is by temping...r u temping?
Did u bd before lh surge? My oh doesn't have high sex drive either..it really stresses me out during ttc time as timing is everything and I can't work around his mood and clingy ds...lol
You have basically 6 days of fertile window...3 before LH surge and 3 after LH surge...remember it takes one sperm only..so don't stress if you can do one tomorrow
I was able to do 2 times before LH surge and 1 time after surge. ..tbh ppl get preggo even from 1 bd session...
You usually o 12-36hrs after surge...I oed after 36hrs as I had cramping, wet cm, and than temp rise...
Good luck we are both close to countdowns lol
I m 1dpo today

 

[RainbowBaby13]

Hey ladies so I'm having the worst luck with these tests. Keep thinking I'm seeing lines even some with color but every time they get tweaked one person would say she would see something, then I took another one and some one else said indent so what the heck?? So I'm getting conflicting answers and its so frustrating and disappointing. And on top of that I started having pink spotting a couple days ago , then again today right after testing.. and then of course a not pregnant on a digi not sure if I'm still spotting because I haven't used the bathroom after that yet so sigh... gonna hold off until the 28th now. Tired of seeing bfns

 

[Jannah K]

Aww luv
I m sorry
When is af due?
Maybe u r having implantation???
U r in it till af hang in there! !

 

[RainbowBaby13]

Thanks girly Af should be here on the 28th. Maybe? but I also had brown ewcm spotting on the 16th. so I'm really confused? Maybe I ovulated super late but then it wouldn't make since for me to have symptoms because we dtd no where near the 16th. Idk lol just trying to make sense of it all

 

[Jannah K]

I m in love with temping...
So when I had ewcm, cramping, feeling achy...I was ovulating...n temping confirmed it....plus I oed super late cd23...I also learned that I ovulate 36hrs hr after LH surge...
Maybe next cycle try temping?

 

[RainbowBaby13]

yay!!!!

And I don't think temping will work for me because ill probably forget lol.

 

[Jannah K]

I usually leave thermometer under pillow and when ds wake up for milk AM..I check temp and than reach out to him lol

 

[Jannah K]

Hi hru all
I m 5dpo and nothing unusual lol
Lemeley. .you doing okay? Haven't seen a msg from you for a while...