TTC 2+ years first proper doctors appt scared!!!!

[robo123]

Hi ladies
Well I have been TTC since June/July 2010 I had a MC in April 2010 and a chemical pregnancy Sept 2012
So I went to the doctors after about 10 months because I was having terrible pains in my stomach and not conceiving they did scans internal and ultrasound they said everything was normal.
So today is my appointment with my GP and I'm so nervous maybe finally we will find out why we are not pregnant yet. My cycles seem good I'm regular 99% of the time no bad af pains.
Well I will update and thank you for taking the time to read. Xx

 

[Plex]

Sorry for ur previous losses hun
Good luck for today though! Theres no need to be worried they're there to answer your concerns and queries so ask away!! I wrote a list so I could remember to ask all the relevant questions and also so I could add their answers to it lol Will be waiting to hear how u got on xx

 

[Spockette]

Sorry about your previous losses

Please don't be worried about your Docs appointment. In fact, look at it very positively. Now, you can demand the answers to the questions you have had whizzing around in your head for the last two years. Make sure they do not dismiss you. Ensure that they either:

1) refer you to specialist
Or
2) they get the ball rolling with some blood tests at least...

 

[robo123]

Thank you, I think I am scared of what they will tell me. And I know it could be a long journey. I will write a list now of the things I want to ask. thanks for the idea. I will update later. Xxx

 

[robo123]

Ok so doctor said she needs to investigate and will get the ball rolling, it's not that I can't get pregnant I just can't sustain a pregnancy. So hopefully I will hear about an appt soon. I feel much better now that things will be looked in to xxx

 

[PrayingFor4]

I'm so sorry for your losses I hope you get the answers you need.

 

[robo123]

Thank you for all your support ladies I will keep everyone posted xxx

 

[Plex]

Sounds like a positive appointment due to them starting investigations and being referred I wish u the best of luck hun xx

 

[robo123]

Thank you ladies for all your support I appreciate all your comments xxx

 

[affy]

i am in a similar situation as well. TTCing for 2 years. Thought Feb would be my month, i was even one day late which was unusual for me and then the witch got me. i have my first doctor's appointment next week. i'm quite nervous but at least i won't have to wait and wonder every month. Good luck to you and keep us updated. Baby dust to you. x

 

[opera_lady24]

Hey I'm in your boat...TTC for 1.7 years. I have PCOS and I just recently made my first appointment with a fertility specialist. I honestly wish I had gone that route so much sooner. There's no need to be afraid, even if they do find something, that's just one step closer to you becoming pregnant b/c they can treat it. I've learned that there is treatment for just about anything fertility related.

Are you seeing a general practitioner, ob/gyn, or FS? I HIGHLY recommend at least going with an ob/gyn b/c they know so much more about it than general doctors. I say this knowing that my general doctor is awesome and intuitive, but even she has limits to her knowledge b/c she doesn't specialize in certain fields.

Wishing you lots of and GL!!!! Keep your chin up and try not to stress too much about it all.

 

[robo123]

It's not nice ttc for all this time but at least we are all seeking help and we will get our BFP one day! It will be so much more special xxx