TTC 40 plus!! Lets share the ups and downs!

[Desperado167]

CONGRATULATIONS GLOWSTAR AND LLBEAN
God i really hope to be joining you guys soon am 4 days late and really trying to contain it here may have to go and get a test this morning but i can only get boots ones dont know if they are any good so may have to wait !!!

Keeping everything crossed for u ,

 

[inkdchick]

thank you hun i really dont know if im gonna make it much further on as i have a really wierd feeling low down now and just hoping its not af on here way late !, but on the plus side cervix is still high up and softish mostly hard but we'll see just got 5 days to go til i can test x

 

[Miss_C]

thank you hun i really dont know if im gonna make it much further on as i have a really wierd feeling low down now and just hoping its not af on here way late !, but on the plus side cervix is still high up and softish mostly hard but we'll see just got 5 days to go til i can test x

hun I am confused if you are already 4 days late why do you have to wait 5 more days until you can test?

 

[inkdchick]

coz i normally if late get my af around now so the gp has told me to wait til im 10 days late and then to test and im doubtful now if i will reach 10 days late coz last night i had a greenish coloured snot cm so i dont know if thats the start of af and have had slight cramping today and still have it now just at top of legs but im still doubtful i may go to early preg unit at hospital and get bloods done this afternoon when hubby gets home i just need to know whats going on now x

 

[Glowstar]

Reb, how ignorant of your consultant!! He obviously isn't the one for you, hope you get a new one asap. Xx

 

[inkdchick]

did you go through this or did u just get a good clear test result hun

 

[Spoomie]

Sorry to dampen the spirits here! My consultant at the Lister never replied to my e-mail of questions - I e-mailed again today and got an out-of-office reply saying he's on holiday till August. So I asked for a new consultant. Not looking good for us. Steve hated him anyway so maybe it's a good thing but I'm thinking we're going to miss our slot...
Hoping you newly preggers folk are chipper, cheerful and VERY STICKY this morning!!!! xxxx
Sam - how're you doing, I hope you're okay and thinking of you loads x

Hi Reb

Poor you, you don't need this when the whole 'To IVF or not to IVF' is so finely balanced anyway. How ignorant of him to ignore your email, especially when time is so close. However, you are so right that perhaps a new consultant is a good thing; I'm sure having a good relationship with them is really important and with OH being so uncertain, it would be much better if he felt that he gelled with the consultant in whose hands you are placing so much . I don't really understand IVF - is your slot purely a time slot that you have been allocated by the clinic or do you mean miss your slot as in, miss the correct time in your cycle to begin treatment? Regardless, surely a slight delay is preferable to a cr*p consultant? Thinking of you sweetie xx

 

[Reb S]

Poor you, you don't need this when the whole 'To IVF or not to IVF' is so finely balanced anyway. How ignorant of him to ignore your email, especially when time is so close. However, you are so right that perhaps a new consultant is a good thing; I'm sure having a good relationship with them is really important and with OH being so uncertain, it would be much better if he felt that he gelled with the consultant in whose hands you are placing so much . I don't really understand IVF - is your slot purely a time slot that you have been allocated by the clinic or do you mean miss your slot as in, miss the correct time in your cycle to begin treatment? Regardless, surely a slight delay is preferable to a cr*p consultant? Thinking of you sweetie xx

Thanks girls - Spoomie, we need to fit it in around my touring. I spend a lot of time abroad with my job and it just happens that the next four cycles will be screwed up by tours. Seeing as those I work with were so unsympathetic when I miscarried, there's no way I can tell anyone or take time off to do IVF, so it needs to be summer hols. There may be a time in November, but time seems to be of the essence...anyway we'll wait and see who replies to my latest e-mail, I've asked for a lady who specialises in low AMH.
Hoping everyone is okay and good luck to Ink.
Have the new ies tested again yet?! xxx

 

[LLbean]

I did, it is darker today

 

[Glowstar]

Wow Reb...this is going to take some delicate planning

I tested again yesterday with a 25miu 12dpo 6.00pm first set of Beta's getting taken this morning

https://i1110.photobucket.com/albums/h457/glowstar71/Photo_3325DA49-8DB8-4117-A59D-5E0898BD88E6.jpg

 

[Reb S]

Hurrah! x

 

[Glowstar]

Not getting my hopes up, such bad stabbing pains and cramps today and had the tiniest minutest amount of brown/yellow cm when wiped this morning after bm so might all be over before it even starts!

 

[Spoomie]

Praying for only good things Glowstar and crossing everything xxx

 

[Desperado167]

Not getting my hopes up, such bad stabbing pains and cramps today and had the tiniest minutest amount of brown/yellow cm when wiped this morning after bm so might all be over before it even starts!

Glowie ,praying everything works out for you,

 

[LLbean]

Glowie, you know that is normal...I've been spotting too and especially after BM.... you are fine

 

[truly_blessed]

keep those BFPs coming, great to come on here to such good news .... as for me just got my DS results back as 1:6100. To say I'm very pleased is a bit of an under statement.

 

[Glowstar]

That's a brilliant result!!!! you are ticking along nicely Truly...so pleased for you

 

[Miss_C]

Truly that is one awesome number! Just shows that even us geri's can pop out good strong healthy eggs. Are you on any regimes ie vitex, soy, maca, herbs acu etc?

I am hoping to come home today to my delivery of Maca. Cycle is definitely looking anov, no signs of O AT ALL, looks like the U/S was right. Anyone know if clomid can dramatically delay things?

 

[truly_blessed]

thank miss c. not taking anything apart from the pregnacare prenatals but I had been taking those for about 18 months. I just carried on taking them after the MMC. DF had just started zinc and selenium.

not sure about the effects of clomid.

 

[pip7890]

Glowie - that's a great line for 12DPO. My IC weren't that clear and strong at 12DPO.

Truly - great results. Bet you can't wait for you anomaly scan. The difference between what you can see on the dating scan and that anomaly scan was amazing



Pip x