Hello
I was 40 yesterday so technically I can now join your group! I've read back over the last 20 pages or so of posts so feel like I already know some of you.
My first pregnancy with my ex-husband ended in miscarriage at 8w3d in November 1995. My second pregnancy went well and after the birth of my son in December 1996 I had a regular coil fitted, followed 7 years later with a Mirena.
My OH and I have been together since 2003. He doesn't have children of his own and many years ago reconciled himself to the fact that he never would. (His former partner had two children and had been sterilised before they got together.)
We agreed that I should spend time concentrating on my career which is what I have been doing for the last 6 years. Once I passed my final exam in October we decided to take a relaxed approach to trying - if it happened it happened.
I've not had 'proper' periods for years (due to the coil) and my 'cycle' is all over the place. My LMP was 14 October, and I got the coil removed on 18 October. AF never came because I fell pregnant straight away (we only BD-d) twice that month! Unfortunately I contracted swine flu just before Christmas and started to miscarry on Boxing Day.
OH and I have agreed we would like to try again. I'm still bleeding and as I have no idea of what my cycle is we are going to NTNP for a month or two and see what happens. We're off on a big holiday in a fortnight so hopefully we can find our groove!!
I'm taking heart that in all three pregnancies I've fallen within a cycle or two of trying. This last pregnancy had been going really well with really strong pregnancy symptoms, just like my second did, until I got swine flu. I feel confident that I will be able to carry another child but worry that age is not on my side. My mother had a hysterectomy at 37 so I have no idea when she would have had the menopause.
I'm taking Vitamin C and Zinc, along with Folic Acid. I'd already cut down on caffeine during my pregnancy and will probably keep it that way. I'm a couple of stone overweight so that's something I can work on - after my holiday!
Looking forward to seeing some more
s on here soon.
Pip x