ANiceCuppaTea
Proud Mother of 3, TTC #4
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Thank you babyanise! And best baby wishes to you and your OH! ![Hugs :hugs: :hugs:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/hug1.gif)
The way I look at it is this; as a population on Earth, the human race is living longer. This is due to better nutrition, more understanding of disease and prevention and probably a lot of plain dumb luck! So why shouldn't we be able to have children until later in life? As long as the menopause hasn't stopped our chances, we don't have any kind of a physical problem stopping us from conceiving and as long as we are also aware of the risks we will run (genetic malfunctions, decreased fertility and the fact we need a nap, sometimes.)
There is no hard and fast rule book anywhere that says, no, you can't. Older Mothers are just a bit harder work, so, the medical profession would rather we didn't exist. But fie, I say, Fie! Deal with it!
(Even the Bible has Sarah giving birth at 90 or so, and yes, that was a miracle, but then, all children are, in my opinion.)
I'm a much better Mother now than I ever would have been had I started popping them out when I was much younger. So, I'm glad I waited a bit before TTC.
But... that's just me, ok? Your mileage obviously will vary.![winkwink :winkwink: :winkwink:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/bigwink.gif)
![Hugs :hugs: :hugs:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/hug1.gif)
The way I look at it is this; as a population on Earth, the human race is living longer. This is due to better nutrition, more understanding of disease and prevention and probably a lot of plain dumb luck! So why shouldn't we be able to have children until later in life? As long as the menopause hasn't stopped our chances, we don't have any kind of a physical problem stopping us from conceiving and as long as we are also aware of the risks we will run (genetic malfunctions, decreased fertility and the fact we need a nap, sometimes.)
There is no hard and fast rule book anywhere that says, no, you can't. Older Mothers are just a bit harder work, so, the medical profession would rather we didn't exist. But fie, I say, Fie! Deal with it!
(Even the Bible has Sarah giving birth at 90 or so, and yes, that was a miracle, but then, all children are, in my opinion.)
I'm a much better Mother now than I ever would have been had I started popping them out when I was much younger. So, I'm glad I waited a bit before TTC.
But... that's just me, ok? Your mileage obviously will vary.
![winkwink :winkwink: :winkwink:](/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/bigwink.gif)