ttc after a d&c

[xxserendipity]

im sure its a boy im havin next time
we ahve so much love to give and im sure we will get that chance soon xxx
that is good omen hon x

i think i'll have another boy my mil said that maybe i cant carry girls and both times ive mc ive had a feeling i was pregnant with girls

 

[TTCSecrets]

I know, i have to over think every reaction i have lately, and think, okay, if i hadnt have miscarried would i still be offended? Just to make sure its not ME with the problem if that makes sense

Yeah i mean i knew for sure when i got pregnant it was a boy, straight away, and everyone said it was a girl, i think its amazing how a mother can actually KNOW, i always thought that would be impossible but its like you can just tell..

Yeah, but shes doing the whole * Oh but hes leaving his wife for me blah blah blah* And im like, seriously? You are actually beleiving that? I said to her i said i think you are wrong, how would you like it if someone else was with your husband and trying to have a baby? Its home wrecking! Its like a huge violation of girl code you do not go near anything that is married or has a partner, its just wrong!

I know it sounds horrible and forgive me for saying it, but i really do hope she falls pregnant and then he doesnt leave his wife because she will be sat there on her own and regret it.. I dont mean regret the baby at all! I mean like, regret how the baby got here, i mean how would u explain to a child when its old enough that it hasnt got a dad because he has another family?

God knows, also makes me feel like its a competition when its not! Our bodies do everything at their own time.. Sorry for having a rant girls but its really annoyed me! xx

 

[TTCSecrets]

im sure its a boy im havin next time
we ahve so much love to give and im sure we will get that chance soon xxx
that is good omen hon x

i think i'll have another boy my mil said that maybe i cant carry girls and both times ive mc ive had a feeling i was pregnant with girls

I know what you mean, my family do not carry boys, my mum lost two boys before me, and then lost a boy after having my sister, my mums mum had two girls, my grandma had two girls, my grandmas mum had three girls and lost a boy.

xx

 

[lilesMom]

im sure its a boy im havin next time
we ahve so much love to give and im sure we will get that chance soon xxx
that is good omen hon x

i think i'll have another boy my mil said that maybe i cant carry girls and both times ive mc ive had a feeling i was pregnant with girls

my bro and sis in law had 1 boy no prob, then next girl had ananchepely so she died not even a day old, they have 50:50 chance with every baby it will happen . next baby was a boy who was fine so we thought maybe she couldnt carry girls either , her next baby was a girl who is perfect, thank god . so dont believe when people tell u that hon, u could easily have a little girl too she is now pregnant again adn is due withn 2 days of my due date with lile, thank god baby is fine, they can tell at 20 week scan if be ok r not .

 

[lilesMom]

rant on natasha , i be peed off too. she sounds very selfish and a bit of a muppet if she is fallin for that age old line

 

[lilesMom]

and i know what u mean about checking ur reactions too, sometimes i think mean thoughts in my head that i know r because im missing lile and cranky

 

[TTCSecrets]

it is selfish , i just thought, how freaking dare you, she was the one who kept telling me having a baby young is wrong and how it was bad because i wasnt married etc! hippocrite!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Right im off to catch x factor ( need to take my mind off ovulation, its 8 bloody days away ) Ill catch up on what i miss afterwards, thanks for listening ladies xxx

 

[lilesMom]

total hypocrite and im not married either, after 10 yrs together i think we know each other better than some people who r married
i kinda think marriage is a piece of paper and a costly day out, if i won the lotto i would i dont knock those who do like marriage though, each to their own

 

[lilesMom]

enjoy chick x

 

[mommylov]

Omg Natasha, she sounds so mean! don't pay any kind to people like that. Stay in your happy and healthy place for your future lo.

Bethany, noooooo!!! Are you sure it's af?? So sorry hun. xoxoxo if it is, I'm glad you're getting normal and you'll catch that egg next month hunny.

Laura, all this waiting is torturous isn't it? Bd last Night just to be safe and now I'm officially on the Tww myself too. Fx!

On my phone not comp so sorry short.

Hiya Jen, danni, Jessica and anyone I missed!!! Xoxo

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[lilesMom]

hi amy, silly phone but thanks for checkin in xxxx
yup its one long wait , im more optimistic now again though,
man im moody maybe i am preggers, i also just got 2 spots , its too early for my af spots just yet , preggers spots? or wishfull thinking haha id be a big spot in order to get my bfp ha ha
best o luck this month amy xxxx

angel i like being a ninja ha ha
i have SIL who has due date within 2 days of mine and i feel so mean cos she is the only pregnant woman i dont like seeing,, i feel really mean but i keep thinkin of the bump i should have , i have family gathering tomoro for a few bdays so il just have to get over it hope ur party wasnt too bad babe xxx

 

[lilesMom]

Still waiting on Is it possible my "spotting" is my AF? It started Wednesday and has showed up daily. (I am currently 4 weeks post D&C)

they say u should have 21 days of no bleeding to count it as af, but u were like me werent u? that u only bled on day of d and e? hard to keep track of all , soz. sorry for weird qs but when u say spotting is it red? or is there any goin in the loo? if its heavy ish for spottin maybe it is af?

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[lilesMom]

oh soz i meant spots on my face ha ha as in zits

yeah its prob just regular spotting so hon soz.
i bled ady of d and e , bright red. didnt bleed at all for over aweek and was in pain alld time, when i did bleed again, it gave me relief and was some red some brown.
then i didnt get af till 5.5 weeks, i had over 21 days no bleeding in middle , i mean red bleeding, id say discount brown cos its old blood not new lining. af usually comes betwee 4 - 6 wees but can take longer, but only for small few people does it take longer. this whole thing has heaps of tmi but its necessary in this business. we gotta get messy ha ha .
it could be ur af trying to come, mine spotted brown 2 dasy before i got 1 day red and that was my first af.. i always get 5+ day of heavy ish so mine was way off the norm. xxxx hope it comes soon but in one way least ur body is repairing and taking its time building nice new thick lining for ur soon to come sticky bean xxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

u still feelin bitchy? hope not,i often come on here feeling bad but leave feelin way better xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

confused is slightly better mood i hope xxxx
i know the wait is akiller babe for first af but it will come and soon enough chick xxx
we all worry when it hasnt come yet but all that u r describing sounds perfectly normal following d and e xxx