ttc after a d&c

[xxserendipity]

wow quiet here tonight just gonna catch up on what i missed earlier hope everyone has had a lovely sunday xx

 

[mommylov]

Hi girls! My company just left now so I thought id check in and see how everyone is doing hope everyone is well and sound like you guys had nice weekends.

Bethany, where did you go??? I hope she is ok

Xoxoxo to all. Ding well here. On my news iPad that dh got me for my birthday. better than phone but not at goods as comp. I miss my emocons lol Still on the two but feeling optimistic. Fx!

to everyone xoxo

 

[xxserendipity]

Hi girls! My company just left now so I thought id check in and see how everyone is doing hope everyone is well and sound like you guys had nice weekends.

Bethany, where did you go??? I hope she is ok

Xoxoxo to all. Ding well here. On my news iPad that dh got me for my birthday. better than phone but not at goods as comp. I miss my emocons lol Still on the two but feeling optimistic. Fx!

to everyone xoxo

hi hunni looks like everyones busy this evenin its quite quiet Bethany's internet is down at the mo but hopefully she's be back soon, im now on the countdown to testing and starting to feel scared coz i know i'll be gutted when i see the bfn and not feelin overly hopefully after the very little bding we managed while i was ovulating xx

 

[mommylov]

I know I'm right there with ya. This tww is for the birds huh?! Lol

 

[xxserendipity]

yep it sucks x

 

[DoggieandPooh]

Can't wait till I am in the tww with you girls. I read some earlier posts starting at 1 to get caught up to where you all are at. I am still waiting for the twpost op so we can start. I had a good weekend, considering. I am going to be rather swamped next week with it being my first week back and getting back into the groove. NOt looking forward to conferences with parents next month, but like one of you said - you just have to do it and it will get better. I hope someone has a bfp this month. I know how much waiting and wanting so bad sucks the life out of you. If only it were more simple. There are sooo many unknown variables out there for us, but that is why we have to stick together to get through it! Glad I am on here getting to know you all

 

[jen435]

Hey ladies! tww is soo dreadful. Im not even sure what dpo i am anymore i feel out though. Idk if i really ovulated this cycle... I feel like its cd 23 (almost 24) and i should be excited to test in 5-6 days but idk now.

Glad everyone had a good weekend! Im really depressed i havent done anything lately but dtd and dog sit along with cook clean plus take care my dog. I only work weds this week too. If a bfp doesnt happen idk if im even gonna try in oct. Im to hurt sad and lonely. I want to enjoy the holiday season and be happy but i keep treating myself as if im fragile i wont drink anything with alcohol caffine eat anything or drink anything that is said to prevent fertility... I wont take meds if im sick or have a headache or even a fever.... I wont lift or clean with anything i think could hurt a fetus. I wont go on rides just in case. I went to beach and was scared.the waves would compromise me getting pregnant. I put myself i a huge bubble didnt even go to waterpark. I regret it all know.because its now almost two yrs and i have no bump no baby. I know u ladies feel same way. Im sorry. I just
cant shake how i.feel. Im very emotional af must be on its way. Someones need a.bfp so i have a little faith. Idk if i feel this way as my. 2nd yr anniversary.is fast approaching and so is the first anniversary of having. our dog. After our baby was due then after that was the second anniversary of moving in our home. Oct is a huge month for us. Id love a bfp this cycle but just dont feel it will happen.

Sorry for rant im hoping it helps me feel better. My (.)(.) are achy im kinda crampy nausea and just very emotional. Its like af is torturing us saying ill come once i make you wonder enough or upset. Bfns are the worse too. Af is hard but a little better as i will go for a cosmo as soon as it starts. I need to relax.

Sorry ladies.

hope ur in better spirits ladies!

 

[mommylov]

Aww Jen. Hugs Hun so sorry you're feeling down. Those could be signs of pg too so keep your chin up. You never know whats in store!

 

[jen435]

No idk my friend invited me to go to dorney park. (amusement park) and wine tasting this weekend and i also coulda went to octoberfest but didnt just incase im pg.

So. Highly doubt im pregnant. I usually have a 28-29 day cycle and ill be cd 24 soon. Which day should i test u think?

Idk if i ovulated cd 15 or 21...

 

[mommylov]

I would test a day or 2 after af is due. That's what I plan on doing. Last time I got a bfp 2-3 days after af was due

 

[jen435]

Thanks! I need you and laura to get ur bfp! Need some hope. Im so.incredibly sad for bethany. I really felt it was her cycle so i think its leaving me second judge myself. What day do you test?

 

[mommylov]

I agree regarding Bethany... So thought this was her cycle I don't think I'm going to test until the end of the month like the last day or something

 

[DoggieandPooh]

Hey ladies! tww is soo dreadful. Im not even sure what dpo i am anymore i feel out though. Idk if i really ovulated this cycle... I feel like its cd 23 (almost 24) and i should be excited to test in 5-6 days but idk now.

Glad everyone had a good weekend! Im really depressed i havent done anything lately but dtd and dog sit along with cook clean plus take care my dog. I only work weds this week too. If a bfp doesnt happen idk if im even gonna try in oct. Im to hurt sad and lonely. I want to enjoy the holiday season and be happy but i keep treating myself as if im fragile i wont drink anything with alcohol caffine eat anything or drink anything that is said to prevent fertility... I wont take meds if im sick or have a headache or even a fever.... I wont lift or clean with anything i think could hurt a fetus. I wont hp on rides just in case. I went to beach and was scared.the waves would compromise me getting pregnant. I put myself i a huge bubble didnt even go to waterpark. I regret it all know.because its now almost two yrs and i have no bump no baby. I know u ladies feel same way. Im sorry. I just
cant shake how i.feel. Im very emotional af must be on its way. Someones need a.bfp so i have a little faith. Idk if i feel this way as my. 2nd yr anniversary.is fast approaching and so is the first anniversary of having. our dog. After our baby was due then after that was the second anniversary of moving in our home. Oct is a huge month for us. Id love a bfp this cycle but just dont feel it will happen.

Sorry for rant im hoping it helps me feel better. My (.)(.) are achy im kinda crampy nausea and just very emotional. Its like af is torturing us saying ill come once i make you wonder enough or upset. Bfns are the worse too. Af is hard but a little better as i will go for a cosmo as soon as it starts. I need to relax.

Sorry ladies.

hope ur in better spirits ladies!

Hey hun.I know how you feel. It's perfectly normal to be extra cautious. I'm here for ya.

 

[DoggieandPooh]

I sware, men just don't get it. I told my husband that I want to be pregnant so bad and how empty I feel inside and that is my main focus right now. He is like I'm here we will do it however many times it takes just . Itll happen when it's ready. Really??? Why doesn't he understand the urgency here.maybe he thinks he is being supportive. I try to explain to him how and why. Especially close to the holidays and don't want to go with an empty belly.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Hi! Hope you all had a good weekend.

xoxo4angel you are still young, I'm not far behind you, i turn 33 on the 26th of this month. That's weird that your doctor points out your age as a factor, over here most first time mothers are in their mid to late 30s. I am in the SF bay area. There are plenty of articles I have read that are very promising, saying that women that have had over 2 miscarriages are still very likely to conceive and carry to full term. In my family you would be considered still your for having a baby. And l like lilesmom says 3rd is a charm!

jen435 I feel you on having to wait for bfp, I am not even to that point yet, just started bding, only have once and I am already cd12. I dont think its gonna happen for me this month. I will be having my fx for you, I hope and pray that this is your month!

doggieandpooh, I am so happy you had a good weekend. Its good to get out sometimes, and breath some fresh air. I hope that you are getting better both physically and emotionally, and I also wish the best for your children. Hopefully they are coping through all of this. I know you have heard this many times, but it will get better, and sooner than you think you will be tcc also!!

xxserendipity just read through your posts. Wow you must have your hands full with 3 kids!! I have 2 and it can be trying at times. Beautiful wedding picture. I was astonished on how young you are! You still are a baby face, very pretty! Oh and the name Alexis-Rose (Lexi-Rose), just beautiful. I am hoping to have a boy next, but I don't think it will happen. I am starting to think I can only have girls. Because the first boy I was going to have I lost. His name is Jeremiah Alexander.

mommylov way to go on the tww!! I hope you get that bfp this month! Ill keep my fx for you. I am almost to the tww also. But we only bd once so far and I am cd 12. My husband is so exhausted lately, and I dont want to bother him, also scared that he has been so stressed out maybe his swimmers are getting damaged or something. i even worry when he wears briefs, only boxers I tell him. I am so paranoid.

TTCsecrets how are you hon? Like you I knew that I was having a little boy too, he was so very much loved. I saw him in 5 ultrasounds moving kicking swallowing amniotic fluid, he use to get annoyed with the ultrasounds. The doctors would tell me, "its looks like you are gonna have a little football player, here." He would have been my first boy. And I am falling apart without him. Oh and about the cousin, that was WRONG what she told you. I have family members like that, and I am staying clear from the for now, for my protection. So sorry you have to put up with her rude comments.

Bethany, I heard you got your af. I havent seen any posts for a while, so i will keep my fx for you, maybe it was spotting, or not af? Either way, i wish the best for you and if it doesnt happen this month. I will pray for it to happen for you next month! Take care!

For anyone I missed xoxo's!! I hope these next 2 months are ours and that we have a bunch of bfps!!!!!!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Hey Aarons, im fine chick yourself? Just up getting ready for work

Really have not got the emotional or physical strength today, i didnt sleep well and all the baby thinking just wont let my brain turn off, any updates with you? I have got about 7 days til fertile phase i think and time is dragging!!
Yeah my cousin is a bit of a competitive person, she was also ealous that i was going to give my grandma her first great grandchild, as weare very close, it shouldnt be a competition there are babies involved!

Oh well guess i just have to ignore her, easier said than done though whe nshe is texting me things like * Ooo i just had a positive opk and we have been having unprotected sex for a few days do you think ill catch first? And im like I dont care lol! I want my baby !

Hope you had a glad weekend, hope all of you did!

Best get ready for work will check in at 5 when i finish!

FXED FOR LOADS OF BFPS BEFORE CHRISTMAS!!!
xxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

I sware, men just don't get it. I told my husband that I want to be pregnant so bad and how empty I feel inside and that is my main focus right now. He is like I'm here we will do it however many times it takes just . Itll happen when it's ready. Really??? Why doesn't he understand the urgency here.maybe he thinks he is being supportive. I try to explain to him how and why. Especially close to the holidays and don't want to go with an empty belly.

I know what you mean, thats all my DH tells me *itll happen when its ready* etc and im like no it needs to happen now! I think they want to be supportive but dont really know how xxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Ahh i must have mis read something, i took Bethany getting her AF as a good thing i think i just assumed it was her first after DandC , Oops Sorry Bethany! Are you sure it wasnt spotting??IB? In any case i hope it happens this cycle if not next cycle! I am hoping for us all to have baby bellys for christmas!! xx

 

[xxserendipity]

awww thanks Jess everyone says i look younger than i am lol im actually 32 in 2 weeks x

 

[lilesMom]

Hi girls! My company just left now so I thought id check in and see how everyone is doing hope everyone is well and sound like you guys had nice weekends.

Bethany, where did you go??? I hope she is ok

Xoxoxo to all. Ding well here. On my news iPad that dh got me for my birthday. better than phone but not at goods as comp. I miss my emocons lol Still on the two but feeling optimistic. Fx!

to everyone xoxo

woohoo for new ipad
u can still have emoticons on quick reply, if u know what ur meant to type, ive learnt some of um but very few tha might be very obvs to everyone else but i only thought of it the other day