ttc after a d&c

[TTCSecrets]

Hey all just played catch up, even though my mind is boggled from work so i doubt ive actually taken any of it in :/

How are you all?? I know, i know this sounds awful but i did smile a little bit when my cousin text me and said she has spoted today, i thought ooo please be AF , thats horrible isnt it xxx

 

[mommylov]

no amy i dont, silly adds try task master if u cant turn it off, hit ctrl, alt and del together to bring it up and pick task master, it lets u close things u dont want open that r refusing to close xx
im grand , im just impatient, either i am preg or something is gonna be wrong with af cos im still gettin that funny feeling, its not sore at all , i did feel like this when got bfp last time so fx gettin fed up o waiting cos im afraid il build up my hopes too much
i have my gynae scan next week anyway so il know for sure pretty soon xxx
any news ? xxx

Laura so Glad your moms okay! Thank goodness for science. Aww your poor "sister"!!! Amie please enter the world ppl want to meet you!!! Her mom must be offly comfy....

Sounds promising laura! Im sooo excited for you!!!

Amy i think your okay you had lots of bd so im sure you nailed it. Lets just hope that egh dropped!!!

Laura i know that feelingyou have i have it to but keep think maybe af is going to creep up some how... Af is due tom or sat.... I get it in am so guess time will tell. Dh is very very excited. He is like liam please tell god to bring us your sister (he wants a girl) but w wants a boy too. Weare happy either wau.

Amy use mobile version you wont have any ads ccome up at all!

Lovely ladies for all bfps coming soon!!!

Grr these adds are driving me nuts! They use to just be small and stay the top but htis is blocking part of my page and does it on my phone too so I think its something with the site. It sucks that I cant better explain this issue but I did send them note.. Makes me think I cant see things up at the top including some posts So if I miss anything.. Im so sorry

I really hope so too. I dont know why I have gone into this doubltful place for me. I have so much hope and confidence for you girls but when it comes to myself, I just dont right now.

 

[TTCSecrets]

no amy i dont, silly adds try task master if u cant turn it off, hit ctrl, alt and del together to bring it up and pick task master, it lets u close things u dont want open that r refusing to close xx
im grand , im just impatient, either i am preg or something is gonna be wrong with af cos im still gettin that funny feeling, its not sore at all , i did feel like this when got bfp last time so fx gettin fed up o waiting cos im afraid il build up my hopes too much
i have my gynae scan next week anyway so il know for sure pretty soon xxx
any news ? xxx

Laura so Glad your moms okay! Thank goodness for science. Aww your poor "sister"!!! Amie please enter the world ppl want to meet you!!! Her mom must be offly comfy....

Sounds promising laura! Im sooo excited for you!!!

Amy i think your okay you had lots of bd so im sure you nailed it. Lets just hope that egh dropped!!!

Laura i know that feelingyou have i have it to but keep think maybe af is going to creep up some how... Af is due tom or sat.... I get it in am so guess time will tell. Dh is very very excited. He is like liam please tell god to bring us your sister (he wants a girl) but w wants a boy too. Weare happy either wau.

Amy use mobile version you wont have any ads ccome up at all!

Lovely ladies for all bfps coming soon!!!

Grr these adds are driving me nuts! They use to just be small and stay the top but htis is blocking part of my page and does it on my phone too so I think its something with the site. It sucks that I cant better explain this issue but I did send them note.. Makes me think I cant see things up at the top including some posts So if I miss anything.. Im so sorry

I really hope so too. I dont know why I have gone into this doubltful place for me. I have so much hope and confidence for you girls but when it comes to myself, I just dont right now.

Aww no babe!! You are the same as me i keep doubting it and feeling really positive for everyone else!! Keep your chin up, i think its a case of finding a balance between completely believing you are pregnant and completely thinking you arent , you will get your BFP babe!! When u testing again? Im gonna have to make a list and write down everyones current update lol!! xx

 

[TTCSecrets]

And i still cant get on cycles page xxx

 

[jen435]

Amy go to mobile mode on this website youll have no ads

 

[mommylov]

no amy i dont, silly adds try task master if u cant turn it off, hit ctrl, alt and del together to bring it up and pick task master, it lets u close things u dont want open that r refusing to close xx
im grand , im just impatient, either i am preg or something is gonna be wrong with af cos im still gettin that funny feeling, its not sore at all , i did feel like this when got bfp last time so fx gettin fed up o waiting cos im afraid il build up my hopes too much
i have my gynae scan next week anyway so il know for sure pretty soon xxx
any news ? xxx

Laura so Glad your moms okay! Thank goodness for science. Aww your poor "sister"!!! Amie please enter the world ppl want to meet you!!! Her mom must be offly comfy....

Sounds promising laura! Im sooo excited for you!!!

Amy i think your okay you had lots of bd so im sure you nailed it. Lets just hope that egh dropped!!!

Laura i know that feelingyou have i have it to but keep think maybe af is going to creep up some how... Af is due tom or sat.... I get it in am so guess time will tell. Dh is very very excited. He is like liam please tell god to bring us your sister (he wants a girl) but w wants a boy too. Weare happy either wau.

Amy use mobile version you wont have any ads ccome up at all!

Lovely ladies for all bfps coming soon!!!

Grr these adds are driving me nuts! They use to just be small and stay the top but htis is blocking part of my page and does it on my phone too so I think its something with the site. It sucks that I cant better explain this issue but I did send them note.. Makes me think I cant see things up at the top including some posts So if I miss anything.. Im so sorry

I really hope so too. I dont know why I have gone into this doubltful place for me. I have so much hope and confidence for you girls but when it comes to myself, I just dont right now.

Aww no babe!! You are the same as me i keep doubting it and feeling really positive for everyone else!! Keep your chin up, i think its a case of finding a balance between completely believing you are pregnant and completely thinking you arent , you will get your BFP babe!! When u testing again? Im gonna have to make a list and write down everyones current update lol!! xx

You guys are such sweethearts

I think Im going to test around the end of next week

 

[jen435]

Ok i got to vent ive been depressed and maybe someone knows what i can do to make things right

My sis abandoned her dd three times and my parents cared for her.... Before the third time my sis left my bro drove her car into a house almost.killing all three of them her dd was in car. Well my parents took care her last two monthes and my sis comes to house got in huge fight w my parents cops made my parents hand over my sis dd. Now my parents are angry at me bc they think i encouraged my sis to do that... Also my mom went in for surgery today and i told my sis that when i spoke w her three days before my sis went to get dd and my moms mad i told my sis about surgery. What is the big secret???? Im so depressed i want my parents to talk to me not shut me out like they do..

 

[TTCSecrets]

You will get your BFP Dont you worry!! Ill be rooting for you to test at the end of next week! Im going to do a very early one next friday just to see, and besides i miss POAS XD lol! You will get oyur BFP im sure of it !

And Jen oh dear i dont know what to say babe (( Hope it gets okay for you! xxx

 

[mommylov]

Hey all just played catch up, even though my mind is boggled from work so i doubt ive actually taken any of it in :/

How are you all?? I know, i know this sounds awful but i did smile a little bit when my cousin text me and said she has spoted today, i thought ooo please be AF , thats horrible isnt it xxx

I know, even I am having a hard time with this and I dont even know her! lol But try not to let it get to you or wish ill on her... Everything has a way of working itself out... its called Karma. Atleast thats what helps me when I think of things that happen to others that I just dont find fair

 

[mommylov]

Ok i got to vent ive been depressed and maybe someone knows what i can do to make things right

My sis abandoned her dd three times and my parents cared for her.... Before the third time my sis left my bro drove her car into a house almost.killing all three of them her dd was in car. Well my parents took care her last two monthes and my sis comes to house got in huge fight w my parents cops made my parents hand over my sis dd. Now my parents are angry at me bc they think i encouraged my sis to do that... Also my mom went in for surgery today and i told my sis that when i spoke w her three days before my sis went to get dd and my moms mad i told my sis about surgery. What is the big secret???? Im so depressed i want my parents to talk to me not shut me out like they do..

Oh man! Im so so so sorry Jen. Thats a toughy given I dont know the dinamics of your family and all but I would think you continuing to talk to them and tell them how you feel is the best that can be done. Sometimes people dont seem to understand where you are coming from or why you do what you do but I only hope that in time they will reflect and see that you are a good person. Its wierd but when something major hits them either emotionally or physically, they tend to start to refelct and I would think they would start to put things into perspective and think "Hmmm, Jen isnt this person we thought she was.. she actually cares and has always been there". Prayers and hugs going out to you babe.. we are here if you ever need a cyber hug or to vent. I really hope it gets better!

 

[jen435]

Also i do feel my parents should keep amber its. A more stable life style for her. Amber is bounced around like a rag doll but i also understand tiffany wanting to be a mom to amber. Argh im always in middle of these things and my mom hides stuff. All i did was hear from my sister (tiffany) 3 days before she went for amber. My sister asked me to talk to my mom... I did call my mom two days after tiff already took amber (i didnt know)..... I told my mom did u talk see tiff... My mom said no... I said mom dont lie she told me she called you.... My mom said im taking care of myself i was not a bad parent to u kids... I said mom please talk to tiff and make things right she called me and told me she asked for amber back and that she is living w a fam w 7 kids.... My mom said so tiffany found a new family where is she living?.... Me i said idk but i dont want you getting hurt please talk to her bc she said she was gonna call cops and i dont want that to happen. My mom told me stay outta it.... I was just callin to warn her not knowing it already happened...

What do i do??? Any ideas??

 

[jen435]

Thanks amy im just at a loss... My dad had some cancerous stuff in his ear and side of head. They did a biopsy three monthes ago and my dad never told us what the findings are. So i worry for him too. I think my parents think "im better then them bc i have nice things normalness and a good paying career" but i dont think that way at all... And i just want to know they are ok or if they need help... But they dont talk to me.... Thank you for letting me vent. It destresses me very much.

 

[mommylov]

Oye, its the worse when you try and help and it backfires somehow. Maybe when your sis calls the next time with something like this you can tell her that you dont want to hurt anyone by being too involved. You can call your mom but just keep it simple and that way they hopefully cant get too mad at you. Im really sorry hun, I cant imagine how you feel

 

[jen435]

Yea thats what dh said... Its like even if i nvr spoke to tiff i woulda been blamed though. My bro or sis only call me when they are in a jam. I dont even have their #s.

 

[jen435]

How is work?

 

[mommylov]

Aww Im sorry hun... I really hope it all works out for you.

Work is ok.. same ol same ol lol. I took tomorrow off because I have to burn some vacation before the end of the year since I can only carry over so much so today is my Friday

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[xxserendipity]

sorry girls just need a quick rant about money!!!! why do all the big bills fall around the same time grrr its my birthday next monday and i dont think we'll be able to afford to hubby to get me anything or go out and celebrate we had planned a family meal but wont be able to afford that either and my middle child has just informed me he got into the school football team yay for him but he now wants new football boots coz his old are to small im starting to have a panic attack about it all i feel like im constantly robbing peter to pay paul and to top it off hubby just swapped his shifts the week of my birthday coz its his sister 21st and they are having a party for her he should be working nights which is the week he gets paid most for and he's swapped to mornins which is the week he gets paid least for even though we'd said we couldnt go already (he's not close with that side of his family) now not only are we short money he would have earnt but we have to find the money to get to and from the party coz its miles away and drinks and stuff while there grrrr and breath!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! sorry girls just with everything else thats goin on at the mo its the last thing i need tbh x

 

[mommylov]

Hi ladies!

Jen, sounds like you'll get blamed just for having your life in order. One of those darned if you do and darned if you don't, so sorry. And your Dad keeping biopsy results from you guys... All of this in addition to the stress of ttc...you must be a very strong woman to keep it all balanced.

Laura, glad your mother is well. And I hope your "sister" has that baby soon! The innocence of a baby can make anyone smile...not to mention you'll be around real live baby dust!

Amy I have the stupid ad too! It's covering where I can change my mood! Grrr!

Horsey, hope the Dr can help you out!

I'm anxious for all of you!

YES!!! I cant change my mood either!!! I hate this stupid add. I sent the webmasters for this site a little email about my feelings on the whole matter.. basically said "GRRRR FIX IT!" in a nutshell

Danni, Im sorry babe. I know how you feel... when it rains, it pours doesnt it? Im sorry you wont be able to go and do the things you had planned for your birthday. Is there any way you guys can get out of this party? Maybe tell them you are sick or something and then just spend time with your family I hope you get to do something special doll