ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

im off to bed with my book chicklets, x talk soon x

Glad youre feeling better hun.. gnight!!!

 

[jen435]

Laura thank you for sharing your experiences gave me alot of insight to see the situation at hand. I love you ladies thank you for listening and for advice. Much appreciated!
Amy yes laura is right our bfps are coming just know it! Got to stay positive yet not let gaurd down....hard to do.... No symptoms here anymore because stomach ones (flutterin. Kinda like)

 

[jen435]

Angel yay for cd 1!!! Ugh damn cell turned off and deleted my entire post!!!

 

[xoxo4angel]

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[mommylov]

Laura thank you for sharing your experiences gave me alot of insight to see the situation at hand. I love you ladies thank you for listening and for advice. Much appreciated!
Amy yes laura is right our bfps are coming just know it! Got to stay positive yet not let gaurd down....hard to do.... No symptoms here anymore because stomach ones (flutterin. Kinda like)

we're here for you hun and really hope that everything gets better. You dont need to be stressed out esp right now!

 

[mommylov]

Angel... its been more than 30 mins and they still havent fixed it.. I think we need to take them behind the ally lol

 

[xxserendipity]

angel is this ur first af since ur d&c if so how long have u waited for it? i dont feel like af is on its way at all anymore but not feeling pregnant either im starting to pray that af isnt planning on making me wait for ages more i just want my body to be doin what its supposed to fgs i really thought when i got positive opks that ment my body was back on track but im starting to think not

Danni, This is my 1st AF since D&C. Last Wed I started spotting and just yesterday the real deal! It has taken 4w5d to get here. I did not have the usual AF symptoms, so I really had no clue what was going on. I know what it's like to just want your body to get back on track. If your OPKs were +ve, then you certainly ovulated and should be able to test 14-16 DPO. Fx for you... Our bodies are still trying to regulate, so you might not get pg symptoms straight away.

its been 6 weeks today since my d&c still no af i ovulated 13 days ago i done a first response on tuesday and it was negative i just hope that if im not pregnant i dont have to wait much longer for af dont think i could handle it tbh

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[mommylov]

angel is this ur first af since ur d&c if so how long have u waited for it? i dont feel like af is on its way at all anymore but not feeling pregnant either im starting to pray that af isnt planning on making me wait for ages more i just want my body to be doin what its supposed to fgs i really thought when i got positive opks that ment my body was back on track but im starting to think not

Danni, This is my 1st AF since D&C. Last Wed I started spotting and just yesterday the real deal! It has taken 4w5d to get here. I did not have the usual AF symptoms, so I really had no clue what was going on. I know what it's like to just want your body to get back on track. If your OPKs were +ve, then you certainly ovulated and should be able to test 14-16 DPO. Fx for you... Our bodies are still trying to regulate, so you might not get pg symptoms straight away.

its been 6 weeks today since my d&c still no af i ovulated 13 days ago i done a first response on tuesday and it was negative i just hope that if im not pregnant i dont have to wait much longer for af dont think i could handle it tbh

Anything can happen after a D&C which sucks. You go from being normal and running like clockwork to not knowing whether youre coming or going... Hang tight. Hopefully in the next few days youll have an answer either way. If you do test and are coming up - on both hpt and opk then I hate to say it but I would think about calling your dr. FX for you that its a !

 

[xxserendipity]

i think im gonna Amy im gonna demand a blood test next week if im still gettin bfn on sunday just to check everything is as it should be im actually starting to wish id let myself mc naturally now instead of opting for d&c after my last mc which happened naturally my body much have gone straight back to normal coz i was pregnant again 4 weeks later i think thats made it worse coz i expected it to be the same this time iykwim xx

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[xxserendipity]

Danni, can you ring the doc and ask for blood work to see where you are in your cycle and do your Beta at the same time? I'm not sure what protocol is there for this type of thing. I am the "squeaky wheel" so they just run test to keep me at bay! You ovulated, no signs of AF...I really have fingers and toes crossed for you! I'd be poas daily!! You have great patience.

not really hun i have no patience at all i tested again today with my other first response still negative i didnt say coz i was embarrassed coz i said i was gonna wait till sunday now so as not to disappoint myself anymore but i couldnt help it, off to town tomorrow so gonna grab some cheapys so i can test again tomorrow and sat and then a clear blue for sunday then if still all negative im off to the drs monday to demand something tests x

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[jen435]

Making a early early thanksgiving dinner. Dh has no idea! Im very excited to surprise him! I even used his moms recipes

I called my mom and left voicemail. I knew they would ignore my calls so just told her hope her surgery went well and that i was thinking of her. Also fb messaged her the same just incase vm gets unheard. I shouldnt feel guility i dont think i did anything wrong..

Happy friday amy !!! enjoy the day off! You deserve it"

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[aaronswoman79]

Hi everybody! Just wanted to keep you are updated on whats going on. I finally got preliminary autopsy results on my baby boy. They say he died from a hyper-coiled umbilical cord. Basically he kept moving and twisting the cord to the point that it deprived him of all nutrients, and basically probably detached. I have been researching this and find almost nothing, just little things here and there. We were told it is so so rare, that many doctors have never heard of this happening. So of course I am asking myself why over and over again. But there is nothing I can do now. One thing I will make sure to do, especially because there was a huge blood clot in my uterus, is to get tested for any rare blood clotting disorders that they haven't checked me for. They say I don't have any, but I hear there are a few more they can do tests for. Me and husband finally bd last night, and now we are about to start 2ww.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Making a early early thanksgiving dinner. Dh has no idea! Im very excited to surprise him! I even used his moms recipes

I called my mom and left voicemail. I knew they would ignore my calls so just told her hope her surgery went well and that i was thinking of her. Also fb messaged her the same just incase vm gets unheard. I shouldnt feel guility i dont think i did anything wrong..

Happy friday amy !!! enjoy the day off! You deserve it"

Jen you are beautiful and have a beautiful heart. I wish there were people in my family more like you! I suffer from a guilty conscience for things I haven't done wrong, and my parents always had a way with me, because I always felt guilty for many things that were out of my control. I felt guilty when my dad died, and still do, even though my brothers never took care of him, never helped out as he was dying. Me and my mom took care of him for about 14 years. When I was 13 he got very ill, and stayed ill until I turned 27 and he passed away. I even feel guilty because I feel I could have done more to make my brothers come and visit him and take him out etc. Anyways, I feel your pain, and you have a very good heart, just wanted to tell you that!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Sounds delicious Jen! You didn't do anything wrong, what a good daughter you are...Your mom has to know that.

I second that!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Danni, can you ring the doc and ask for blood work to see where you are in your cycle and do your Beta at the same time? I'm not sure what protocol is there for this type of thing. I am the "squeaky wheel" so they just run test to keep me at bay! You ovulated, no signs of AF...I really have fingers and toes crossed for you! I'd be poas daily!! You have great patience.

not really hun i have no patience at all i tested again today with my other first response still negative i didnt say coz i was embarrassed coz i said i was gonna wait till sunday now so as not to disappoint myself anymore but i couldnt help it, off to town tomorrow so gonna grab some cheapys so i can test again tomorrow and sat and then a clear blue for sunday then if still all negative im off to the drs monday to demand something tests x

aww hun, I feel for you. I imagine I am going to go through the same thing toward the end of tww. I hope you get your bfp and if not I hope the doctors can help give you some answers!