ttc after a d&c

[aaronswoman79]

Jessica, so glad to hear from you
What did they expect, of course you were going to be traumatized after losing your son! And even more traumatized after having to deal with rude, unprofessional hospital staff on the phone afterwards! Oh honey I wish I lived closer- you could come to my house whenever you were feeling stressed or out of control
So sorry you are in so much pain and hurting. I love you so much! Hopefully, things will start going more smoothly for you after that tooth is pulled. Did you get your DH FertileAid?
How much longer do you have to take the antibiotics? Is the Vicodin helping you out with the pain much? Mouth pain can be so intense
Your rainbow will come soon. I can't wait for the day when you hold your baby in your arms

Also, slap the shiznit out of peeps who talk smack about your ethnicity or comment on your kids. Rude chumps. I cannot fathom why anyone would think that an appropriate thing to ask about. My exhusband used to get asked a lot if he was Jewish because he had a huge schnoz. And they always argued with him too. "No you can't be Hispanic because of that nose. That is a Jewish nose."
What, the Romans didn't have noses?
You and your family are beautiful

lol at the slapping the shiznit out of them. Really wish I could. hehe. My grandfather from El Salvador was also called Jewish because of his nose, jacked up I know. He was actually middle eastern mostly, I guess his family were immigrants to El Salvador, a lot of Jewish and Palestinian live there. This is why my mother looks different I guess. My husband has always been told he looks Japanese. I remember he started some job here in Cali, and one day he comes in someone tells him, "Aaron, we have a bet going, half the office says your are Hispanic, and the other half says you are Asian... so which is it?" My husband thought it was funny, but I was thinking why the hell do they even waste their time wondering what ethnicity he is or puts so much emphasis on it? Maybe they weren't being racist, but since I have been asked all my life, what the heck am I, it does annoy me at times.

 

[lilesMom]

amy i feel much better today thanks hon, back to feelin sicky and being glad about it
made it through the day without any drama which was great xxxxxxxxxxx
fx for u this month hon, xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

my U/s had me at 6.5 weeks but i reckon im 7w2d. maybe i Ov late too, the radiographer said it could be after the d and e xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Not had chance to catch up yet but god i feel like i dont know where im at..Ive fell out with temping!!!

You know earlier i said i had a lot of ewcm which i neve rusually have at all.. Well i decided to take an opk for the first time this cycle and it came up blatantly positive straight away?!?!?! What if im too late and this is the end of my surge?! And even if i BD tonight what if its pointless? What if ive missed my ovulation?? Ive spoken to dh and weve had a good chat and sorted things out, i only fell out with him because his mother hasnt bothered to even text me to see how the move has gone ... sounds daft but she always texts when she wants something but now weve moved out it was just like nothing no contact at all, so weve made up but im just wondering if i bd tonight is it still too late to catch my egg?? this is the first time i can honestly say i have had an abundance of ewcm without having to scoop it out from *in there*?? is it too late??? PLEASE help ladies im so mad that ive only temped and believed what ff said xxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

sleepy sleepy , my new constant state

 

[lilesMom]

go for it natasha, not too late at all hon, u r only O today xxxxxxx
best of luck xxxx

 

[lilesMom]

BD like mad natasha , ha ha

 

[TTCSecrets]

Right..think ive caught up..

Jess hope youre okay glad to have you back!
Laura , jen how are u both and the bumps?
Bethany hope youre okay, angel you too!

Horesey Amy hope youre okay too.. We will all be getting our rainbows soon im sure of it.. I even had a weird dream last night, bearing in mind ive never met u guys, i dreamt that we were all eating a christmas dinner but it was blazng hot outside and we decided to have a barbecue instead because the snow had stopped , and we all stood there and all of a sudden, these rainbows started protruding from ourbellies and a little fairy came off the end of them and told us we were all pregnant and we decided to wrap the fairies up in wrapping paper and give them to our other halves hahaha!!!! must have drank too much caffeine yesterday lol! xxxxx

 

[mommylov]

amy i feel much better today thanks hon, back to feelin sicky and being glad about it
made it through the day without any drama which was great xxxxxxxxxxx
fx for u this month hon, xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

my U/s had me at 6.5 weeks but i reckon im 7w2d. maybe i Ov late too, the radiographer said it could be after the d and e xxxxxxxxxxxxx

awww I think so too. They say thats normal and that the further along in your pregnancy, the better idea they have of where you are at exactly. So glad you are sick but hope that you feel better soon! 2nd trimester will be here before you know it!

Natasha, JUMP ON DH!!! hahh they say when you get a pos OPK then you should bd like crazy! So have at him!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Hes had to pop out to help a friend move his car, if we dont BD til like 12 that will be okay wont it? I suppose if its meant to happen it will, just feel a bit crap, thought i was 5dpo, now i figure out i havent even O yet, and now i feel its too late again! GRRR i hate this bloody ttc sometimes, ive sat and cried tonight just because i got CM and a positive opk, and chris came upstairs and said, i know your mad with me but do u want a cuddle, and i just cried, ive been horrible to him, and then i turned round and said something along the lines of...
" No im not okay, work was horrible today, my fan has broke, im hungry, i have horrible pain in my belly, my towel has hair dye on it, im tired, i need to do washing, i hate the colour you painted the bathroom and to top it all off i have to have sex with you when im mad with you because my body is laying eggs," and then burst out crying again, anyone would think id had a serious disaster happen, and he just sat there and bless him the only things he could think to say were " Well ill buy you a new fan and ill paint the bathroom whatever colour u like"..Bless him (((((( xxxxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[xoxo4angel]

Natasha...you poor thing! You'll be fine to BD today and tomorrow. And I'd poas again tomorrow too to see if maybe you caught the start of the surge. You have a lot on your mind right now and your OH certainly knows that.

 

[lilesMom]

Right..think ive caught up..

We will all be getting our rainbows soon im sure of it.. I even had a weird dream last night, bearing in mind ive never met u guys, i dreamt that we were all eating a christmas dinner but it was blazng hot outside and we decided to have a barbecue instead because the snow had stopped , and we all stood there and all of a sudden, these rainbows started protruding from ourbellies and a little fairy came off the end of them and told us we were all pregnant and we decided to wrap the fairies up in wrapping paper and give them to our other halves hahaha!!!! must have drank too much caffeine yesterday lol! xxxxx

hilarious i like ur dreams and i like xmas dinner and bbq

 

[aaronswoman79]

Not had chance to catch up yet but god i feel like i dont know where im at..Ive fell out with temping!!!

You know earlier i said i had a lot of ewcm which i neve rusually have at all.. Well i decided to take an opk for the first time this cycle and it came up blatantly positive straight away?!?!?! What if im too late and this is the end of my surge?! And even if i BD tonight what if its pointless? What if ive missed my ovulation?? Ive spoken to dh and weve had a good chat and sorted things out, i only fell out with him because his mother hasnt bothered to even text me to see how the move has gone ... sounds daft but she always texts when she wants something but now weve moved out it was just like nothing no contact at all, so weve made up but im just wondering if i bd tonight is it still too late to catch my egg?? this is the first time i can honestly say i have had an abundance of ewcm without having to scoop it out from *in there*?? is it too late??? PLEASE help ladies im so mad that ive only temped and believed what ff said xxxxx

Natasha, I am exactly where you are, just found out I am ovulating today! And I haven't bd with hubby in over a week! I have to wait to bd tonight when he gets off of second job. We will only be able to bd 12 hours after I got the positive. I got it at 12 this afternoon, and we will be able to bd at 12 midnight. I have the same darn fear. Like, what if I got the lh surge way before it detected it. Gosh, we ovulate at the same time don't we? Last month we were oving the same day. Lets hope we have enough time! I also have a lot of cm more than usual. Unusual because I am taking pain killers and I heard that affects the cm, how ironic huh!

 

[lilesMom]

aw ur OH sounds lovely natasha xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

I know, i definitely drank too much caffeine, i think ill BD when he gets back, i might also stop being mad with him.. MIGHT lol i have no reason to be mad with him, but ive started noticing its a normal mid cycle thing for me to have mood swings, last cycle i remember him pinging my bra strap and i told him i felt lke punching him in the face

I think i will BD tonight, buy some more opks tomorrow, used only one i had today, good job really lol, and just see how mytemping goes, if it turns out to be useless ill give up with it lol! Although i have got addicted to temping, its replaced POAS this cycle lol xxx

 

[lilesMom]

amy i feel much better today thanks hon, back to feelin sicky and being glad about it
made it through the day without any drama which was great xxxxxxxxxxx
fx for u this month hon, xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

my U/s had me at 6.5 weeks but i reckon im 7w2d. maybe i Ov late too, the radiographer said it could be after the d and e xxxxxxxxxxxxx

awww I think so too. They say thats normal and that the further along in your pregnancy, the better idea they have of where you are at exactly. So glad you are sick but hope that you feel better soon! 2nd trimester will be here before you know it!

Natasha, JUMP ON DH!!! hahh they say when you get a pos OPK then you should bd like crazy! So have at him!

thanks sweetie xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[aaronswoman79]

I know, i definitely drank too much caffeine, i think ill BD when he gets back, i might also stop being mad with him.. MIGHT lol i have no reason to be mad with him, but ive started noticing its a normal mid cycle thing for me to have mood swings, last cycle i remember him pinging my bra strap and i told him i felt lke punching him in the face

I think i will BD tonight, buy some more opks tomorrow, used only one i had today, good job really lol, and just see how mytemping goes, if it turns out to be useless ill give up with it lol! Although i have got addicted to temping, its replaced POAS this cycle lol xxx

Around how long ago did you get the + opk, and around how much later will you probably bd with him? I have to wait 12 hours from when I got + to when we bd. I almost want to tell him to screw his work and come and *&!@* me, sorry for the language. lol.

 

[xoxo4angel]

Hi girls! Do you know how accurate those Clear Blue digital ovulation test are, the one with the happy face? I started using it yesterday, and today is only my second day, so I was surprised to see a happy face . Which means I should be ovulating right now, or almost?? Even though I said I wouldn't try this month, I have already stopped my ibuprofen and vicodin just in case. I am worried that maybe the ibuprofen thinned my lining since I took it from day 11 to 14. Am I being too paranoid? Aren't there women took a lot of medicines before they even realize they are pregnant? Is it going to help since I stopped taking all medicines except the antiobiotics? The miscarriage has made me extra paranoid. Oh and I am also aware that I may be having a surge but maybe the egg release could be delayed because of the medicines. So for anybody who has used the clear blue ov detector with the happy face, can you keep testing after at least 4 hours to see if a surge is still detected? Looks like I am oving exactly half way through my cycle. It sucks that this going on with my tooth issue at the moment.

Accuracy, I'm not sure of, but I'm pretty sure you ONLY get the smiley IF the LH surge is detected! I'm not sure how often you can test with the CB smiley. As for being paranoid, PLENTY of women do and take much worse than you've been prescribed. Many of them go on to have happy healthy babies. I was told Ibuprofen only stays in your system for 24 hours, so stopping it was a good decision. The antibiotics, not sure which ones they have you on, you should check to see what "class" it is under for pregnant women. I would think since things are still at the cellular level, you'll be fine! Fx Jessica!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Laura...enjoy your sleep! There will be no time for it once your lo gets here!

 

[lilesMom]

thanks angel, i love my sleep ha ha