ttc after a d&c

[lilesMom]

its not awful i unserstand hon, it happens us all, i would make up with him, BD and hten u can be cross again xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
we all BD when we dont really feel like it for bfp xxxxxxxxxx
use his body girl , ha ha xxxxxxxxx (joke )

 

[lilesMom]

maybe when u do , u wil be so focused on baby making u forget u r cross xxxxxxxxx

 

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[mommylov]

Hi Jessica!!!! We missed you! So sorry to hear you have been having such a rough time... are you feeling any better? What the girls said is right, how do they expect you to feel after going through what you went through!?!? We arent robots, we are HUMANS with feelings! I really really really hope that you get better hun and we are here for you if you ever need us. So many times I just wish we all lived closer, I would bring over some yummy goodies and movies and round up the girls and smother you with girl time! Sending lots of calming and positive vibes your way doll.

Natasha, Im sorry to hear about your rough time as well with dh... and Laura is right, USE THAT BODY GIRL! lol jk but it isnt an awful though. It sucks that we have such a small window to fall pg but isnt "hate/mad" sex sometimes a good thing? We have done it once or twice and not gonna lie... it was fantastic! Show him what hes missing girl! Walk around the house in pjs or something that dh likes

Laura, how are you feeiling today hun??

Bethany, hows moving going???

I agree re all the racists people.. Hi welcome to 2012! Im all for people expressing themselves and having thier own beliefs and I understand everyone is different.. but expressing to the point to wear it makes others uncomfortable or it becomes dangerous. I really dont understand racism at all.. maybe because Im brown idk but I dont hate anyone! Just most of the people I work with but they are a good mix! lol jk

So dh didnt wake up this morning like he said he would (I totally saw that coming, he is NOT a morning person) but we bd last night and will as soon as he gets home today so I think once a day should be good. With the preseed, + opk and us bd-ing like this, if I dont catch that eggy this month Im just going to cry!

Angel, Jen, Horsey, Dannnnnniiiiiiiiiiii, and anyone I missed, :wave:

Daily dust to all!!!!!!!

 

[mommylov]

Jessica. I'm glad it wasn't a heart attack...it certainly is a sign you need a break and to be stress free. I hope the break from TTC will bring you peace and clarity and allow you to really start to heal inside and out. Stress is a beast that weighs heavily on our physical being, so I'm sending positive thoughts your way! (Has the dentist tried making you a mouth guard? If not they do sell them over the counter...)

Natasha. Too funny refusing to BD b/c you are upset with your bf! Do you have an OPK you can pee on just to see if it's +ve? Ultimately you have to keep your eye on the prize and ask yourself if you are willing to compromise to get one.

G'morning ladies! Amy, are you still colleaguezilla-free? Bethany, are you using OPKs this round?

Hi doll!!! I am! She doesnt come back to the office until tuesday! How are you doing? Has af let up or gone away yet?

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[mommylov]

Hey ladies I'm at work with very little time to catch up but I have a question that's burning inside me lol !!! My fertility friend is showing that I o'd on Saturday . However I have cramping in my lower left hip/ovary , actually hurts when I walk lol but today I have had s huge abundance of ewcm ??? Does that mean ovulation is roughly now or is this normal after o? Just want to know whether I did o on Saturday or whether my ff was wrong ? It's just I never have a whole lot of ewcm and tmi but it's literally really abundant down there not just inside , normally I have to get it on my fingers from around my cervix but this is literally on my outer bits down there ? Will catch up later but at work tryin to slyly use my phone lol please help girls hope u all okay xxxxxx

Natasha, I JUST said the same thing yesterday.. how funny! I was walking around yesterday and my lower left side hurt so bad got home and was just relaxing and it was killing me. Finally had to take tylenol as I didnt want to take anything else that would hurt my chances.. later than night I did my opk test and it was + so Im sure it was O pain. I think the same might be for you too! Did it ever go away? They say it can take a few hours

 

[mommylov]

Amy, Glad you caught O with that OPK!! TWW is on! I don't know how your OPK works, but if you can, you should poas again tonight to see if you are still surging. I know my CBFM automatically shows +ve the day after, but the one's with the lines begin to get lighter.

Since I messed up and didnt bd enough last month, I got the digital FR one so that it was "Amy proof". It says to throw away the reader and all sticks once you get the + because the reader automatically perm shuts off. Is that the one you used?

 

[mommylov]

To be on the safe side, we are going to bd everyday for the next 2-3 days

 

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[mommylov]

AF is gone! I'm still just as confused with CD1 I really don't want to waste the money on cycle monitoring if it's too soon, but I don't want to miss an opportunity either. I am going with my gut and am saying I'm on CD6.

So you arent going to go to the specialist this month? Are you going to use opk and try at home to monitor?

 

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[mommylov]

Mine doesn't have the smiley faces, but was told the digital one's all repeat the positive or shut off the day after the surge. That's why I like to use the cheapies to watch the lines...I thought Jen continued using something too because she got a 2nd surge several days later, but I don't know what kind she has. Good call on BDing the next 2-3 nights. There will be plenty of swimmers to catch that eggy!

Yes, I think youre right! I remember her saying something about 2 surges. Im thinking that since I did have an increase in cm and that pain yesterday that is now gone, that I am/did O but I dont want to take any chances this time. I attached a pic of the one that I used. We decided to bd every night for the next 3 nights and then after that everyother... that should do it I would think.

 

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[mommylov]

Ohhh gotchya.... oh that would be wonderful if he was home!!! Either way, I really am hoping that you get that BFP this month!!!

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

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[mommylov]

I was on cd 19 yesterday when I got my +.. before my mc I was able to go off my cycles page and it looks like I used to have an average everything... cycle, follicular, luteal... and now its all different. Although I may have had O late when I got pg because at my first us they said that the baby measured a week smaller than it shouldve.

 

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