ttc after a d&c

[horseypants]

thanks angel, and amy, im so sorry to come in here and whine! i keep writing things about your situation and backspacing! at first, i thought you should get progesterone, then i thought it was a chemical. it's so terrible having to go through this i know. i really think there's a good chance everything will be golden now. thank goodness you are changing docs.

angel, im sorry about your friend. thanks for telling me that. you've been dealing with her well enough. gr. ugh! so depressed these days i suck at typing. i do lurve your runons AND ughhhhh. I hope we will get what we want like that morrissey song. please please please let me get what i want....

 

[mommylov]

For sure and don't be sorry. You girls are my saving grace and I hope we can be the same for you.

Angel, So sorry about your friend. That kind of thing makes me so angry too but we have to try and not have ill wishes and stay calm and positive. You girls are preparing to o and test soon so keep those ovens free of negativity (including other people) and prepare for your lo. Sad that some don't get how lucky they are but we have to try and not let that makes us bitter including myself. Xoxox

 

[mommylov]

Did I. Tell you, the ultrasound tech that worked on me in the er was pregnant so trust me I know the felling of hating someone for being pregnant washing over you. We just have to keep the faith.

 

[aaronswoman79]

THis has been such a shitty day. My daughter has been acting up so much, I don't even think I can home school her anymore. Her mental state is getting worse and worse, and i don't even know if I have the mental strength to deal with it anymore. My older daughter who is gonna turn 13 soon is also acting up. She acts like she hates me sometimes. I have horrible menstrual cramps, I am getting af probably tonight or tomorrow. I am for sure out this month. Now I get uterine cramping through out the month now at any time. It has me freaked out that they screwed up my uterus during the d &c. My mental state is so bad, I guess the worst pms ever, I have never felt this screwed up with pms or af. I have never had this cramping. My God, I am worried that my only 1 ovary I have is probably no longer working. Oh, and my due date was Dec. 29th. I am seriously thinking of just stopping ttc. Maybe its not meant to be.

 

[mommylov]

Jess don't quit! You girls are keeping me going so you have to keep going with us too! I'm sorry dd is giving you a hard time. This could be a stage they are going through with thier ages, especially your teen. I also feeling I am way more sensitive in my uterus after my d&c and from what I've been told its normal. I think after our uteruses build back up to what they were we won't be as sensitive. Please don't quit. You might also be a little hormonal given where you're at in your cycle which I feel I am too. You're not alone and we are here for you hun xoxo

 

[xoxo4angel]

Sorry you had a crummy day Jessica. I hope the situation with your youngest gets better. Hopefully you can discuss her recent behavior with her doctors and have her meds adjusted. And your 13 year old, I'd say her attitude is related to her age. I can remember being 13/14 and telling my Mom "you're trying to ruin my life!" Its part of growing pains! Now, as for giving up on ttc...nooooo! It's a long process and you'll get there! With one ovary it stands to reason it could take you 2x as long to fall pg. Don't give up yet! Your little one is taking his sweet time and waiting for the right condition to make his appearance! Faith is hard to come by, but it's all we have! xoxo

 

[xoxo4angel]

Amy I just noticed your new signature Keeping my fingers crossed!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Night ladies! Hope you are able to get some much needed rest

 

[mommylov]

Night angel xxx

 

[aaronswoman79]

Sorry you had a crummy day Jessica. I hope the situation with your youngest gets better. Hopefully you can discuss her recent behavior with her doctors and have her meds adjusted. And your 13 year old, I'd say her attitude is related to her age. I can remember being 13/14 and telling my Mom "you're trying to ruin my life!" Its part of growing pains! Now, as for giving up on ttc...nooooo! It's a long process and you'll get there! With one ovary it stands to reason it could take you 2x as long to fall pg. Don't give up yet! Your little one is taking his sweet time and waiting for the right condition to make his appearance! Faith is hard to come by, but it's all we have! xoxo

Thanks Angel! You made me feel a lot better. nighty night!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Jess don't quit! You girls are keeping me going so you have to keep going with us too! I'm sorry dd is giving you a hard time. This could be a stage they are going through with thier ages, especially your teen. I also feeling I am way more sensitive in my uterus after my d&c and from what I've been told its normal. I think after our uteruses build back up to what they were we won't be as sensitive. Please don't quit. You might also be a little hormonal given where you're at in your cycle which I feel I am too. You're not alone and we are here for you hun xoxo

Thank u Amy. And I know what you are going through has to be so rough. I felt kinda bad venting here when I know what you are going through right now. I hope that this weekend goes by swiftly for you, and did you tell us when you are going back to the docs for your follow up tests? I hope you get all the answers you deserve.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Just wanted to share a pic of my 6 year old this Halloween. She was Dorothy.

 

[TTCSecrets]

Jess hope youre okay hun, i was hit by AF yesterday I hope you get your BFP but even if you don't we will be about hte same in cycle and can get through it together!

Horsey i feel your pain about other people being pregnant, a close friend of ours came round last night to announce the fact his missus had had a baby a few days ago, i just stood there and him and DH just kind of looked at me as if they were waiting for me to say congratulations, and before i knew it, my eyes welled up.. He then said, oh we can bring him round soon to meet you guys and then i burst out crying and stormed off upstairs.. Feels awful, only people i actually feel happy for are the girls on here...

I see pregnant people everywhere, i mean even two more of my fish are pregnant and i just look at them in disgust lol!

Jess love hte pic of your little girl, so cute

Amy any news yet? Im getting impatient haha! God knows how you feel lol!

How are the rest of u girls xxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Oh and ive decided girls im gonna have to have hair chopped, thers no point growing unhealthy (FRAZZLED DEAD) hair, so i might as well get it chopped, leave it up for months so i dont have to look at it and grow it out , and not dye it ( im naturally a red head but it doesnt suit me as weird as that sounds ) Because i have dark brown eyelashes and eyebrows, i dont have any beauty spots on my face, my skin is fair but not redhead fair, so im just gonna have to bite the bullet

I have started using Amla Oil, its an indian hair treatment an indian friend at work gave me, she swears by it and she has lovely long hair and shes always dying it and using heat on it, besides hair grows dont it, although ive told the other half we cant get married until my hair is long again lol!! xxxx

 

[lilesMom]

amy thank god she is being helpful, ur doc that is xxxxxx
fx for good result or at least answers fast for u if not, so u dont have to suffer not knowing anymore xxxxxxxx

horsey honey , could u take an extra long weekend r something to give urself a break? can u go somewhere this weekend with a spa and pool and have facial and massage and try and give urself a chance to relax? might help a little if u r wound up xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

angel, im in shock, how can she find it gross, its the most amazing thing, its agift and tis very sad she doesnt appreciate it like we do xxxxxxxxxxxxx

im still cathcing up xxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

sorry jess u r havin a hrad time too, hope things look up soon,x
tash good idea on ur hair, im thinkin of chopping mine too , cos im growing out the dye and its 2 tone,

 

[TTCSecrets]

just been and had it chopped off Not as devastating as i thought it would be and by god it needed it , besides hair grows doesnt it xxx

 

[lilesMom]

im sure its beautifull hon xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Jess, don't be silly! We are all here to support one another. No matter what I have going on, I'm still going tone here for you girls and want nothing but the best for you. Even though we only talk on here, over time I have really feel like I have made some of the best friends a girl could ask for and truley love you ladies. Vent away Hun, we will all make it though our ups and downs and make it in the end with our lo's!

Arm~ didn't poas yesterday but did this morning and it came up pos even faster and darker too. Hoping to figure out what's causing this but I truley suspect a chemical pregnancy. I just don't get why they numbers from my blood tests don't add up. My new dr wants meto come in on Monday to do another quant and she is also wanting to do an rh test. Then I actually see the dr (and meet her) one Tuesday morning. She said she will go over everything with me then and maybe we can figure out the next step.

Hope everyone is having a good weekend! Xoxo

 

[mommylov]

Just wanted to share a pic of my 6 year old this Halloween. She was Dorothy.

She looks great and super cute!