ttc after a d&c

[lilesMom]

i know thy arent healthy but when im at my queasiest taytos/crisps can help xx

 

[jen435]

Thanks! I will have to try it! I have zone bars (dark choc w almonds) & orange vitamin water I try to drink. I changes to flintstone vits two daily too. Idk if this is really safe though

 

[lilesMom]

i drink ribena with added calcium, i dont even really like it that much when not preg
but it goes down better than just water .
oh and i just got dried apricots today , they r meant to be brill cos they help u go but r easy eat and keep down, only thing was the girl who told me that said be carefull cos they can be too good ifykwim

 

[jen435]

Thanks ill pick some up! Dried apricots yum! Worth a try!

 

[lilesMom]

r just roast chicken r turkey and nothing else goes down easy too but i suppose its different for everyone xx hope u fel better soon hon x

 

[mommylov]

Just took a fr digital..., pos in like 30 sec. I really hoped Monday brings me some answers. Figured since my new blood work yesterday showed hcg at 3 that the digis would read negative... Apparently not. Something has to be up.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Just took a fr digital..., pos in like 30 sec. I really hoped Monday brings me some answers. Figured since my new blood work yesterday showed hcg at 3 that the digis would read negative... Apparently not. Something has to be up.

Amy, I am at a loss as to what is going on. So what you are telling us is the less sensitive poas are coming out positive, but the actually blood test that is suppose to be more definitive has dropped from 90 to 3? But the poas are getting darker and darker by the day? Goodness girl, I am so sorry you have to go through this. All I can say is that you have to be able to get some answers by Monday. I am almost thinking they are not doing the blood tests right or something? I have no idea, because with chemical pregnancies the poas tend to get lighter and lighter positives by the day, but yours are getting darker and darker. This has to be a good sign, because every over the counter poas you are getting cannot be faulty or wrong. I have no idea hon. I am trying to figure out scenarios but I am stumped.

 

[mommylov]

I thought so too! Dh went out and got another different brand which was the fr ones and I was thinking it would've been negative but nope. I really don't know I hope that no one experiences something like this!

 

[jen435]

Amy it must be a good sign but so confusing. You have us stumped! Prayimg for definate anwsers on monday for u.

 

[mommylov]

Thanks ken but now dh is even worried its a bad sign

 

[aaronswoman79]

Thanks ken but now dh is even worried its a bad sign

Not necessarily Amy. Believe me, him being worried is totally understandable. I am sure he is worried also because he sees you worried. Our husbands never want to see us hurt or suffering. He is just concerned about you hon. Sounds like he loves you very much.

 

[mommylov]

Thanks Jess, he is amazing but usually doesn't worry do the fact that he is scares me. I'm really trying to not let this all make me crazy and probably sound like a broken record but I'm beginning to really be terrified that there is something wrong with me, pregnancy aside. I kind of come here to not to voice my thoughts a fears but to really put it out there incase someone else is going through the same thing (god forbid). Thanks for your kind words hun.

How are you doing?

 

[aaronswoman79]

Thanks Jess, he is amazing but usually doesn't worry do the fact that he is scares me. I'm really trying to not let this all make me crazy and probably sound like a broken record but I'm beginning to really be terrified that there is something wrong with me, pregnancy aside. I kind of come here to not to voice my thoughts a fears but to really put it out there incase someone else is going through the same thing (god forbid). Thanks for your kind words hun.

How are you doing?

Besides my whole life falling apart. Well, at least it feels like. The cute little girl you see in the pictures Amy, she has severe emotional problems and adhd. She was born like this and it is suspected she was injured during the birthing process (25 hrs of labor and umbilical cord wrapped tightly around her neck.) I am have been homeschooling her and it has been the most difficult thing I have ever had to do. I had her medicated but she had reactions to 2 medications plus gained a lot of weight, so I am very scared to medicate her.My husband and older daughter have no patience with her when they try to help her with school. Even though I am the one with her everyday teaching her, thats the reason why during the week I don't come on here until the afternoon. So it gets very frustrating, along with ttc and everything. Life is just so difficult at times.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Thanks Jess, he is amazing but usually doesn't worry do the fact that he is scares me. I'm really trying to not let this all make me crazy and probably sound like a broken record but I'm beginning to really be terrified that there is something wrong with me, pregnancy aside. I kind of come here to not to voice my thoughts a fears but to really put it out there incase someone else is going through the same thing (god forbid). Thanks for your kind words hun.

How are you doing?

Besides my whole life falling apart. Well, at least it feels like. The cute little girl you see in the pictures Amy, she has severe emotional problems and adhd. She was born like this and it is suspected she was injured during the birthing process (25 hrs of labor and umbilical cord wrapped tightly around her neck.) I am have been homeschooling her and it has been the most difficult thing I have ever had to do. I had her medicated but she had reactions to 2 medications plus gained a lot of weight, so I am very scared to medicate her.My husband and older daughter have no patience with her when they try to help her with school. Even though I am the one with her everyday teaching her, thats the reason why during the week I don't come on here until the afternoon. So it gets very frustrating, along with ttc and everything. Life is just so difficult at times.

I am scared that she might end up bullying the new baby (when or if I have another baby). Hopefully since she will be 7 by then, I am hoping she will be a little better. She is very intellectually smart, she is 6 but understands philosophy, and is very very smart but her emotional level is that of a 2 year old. So there is a huge discrepancy with her intellectual and emotional. She is extremely sensitive and can be so loving. She is sweet, considerate and she pays attention to you when you are sad, but at other times she can be defiant and have no control over her emotions and this can last weeks on end. Right now we are looking into some type of special needs private school, but they cost between 30,000 and 42,000. lol. Its like shes going to an ivy league school. So yeah, we have no way of affording that.

 

[mommylov]

Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry You sound like such a great mom and are doing good by her and the best you can. Have you thought about maybe having her reevaluated by another dr? Poor little munchkin

 

[aaronswoman79]

Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry You sound like such a great mom and are doing good by her and the best you can. Have you thought about maybe having her reevaluated by another dr? Poor little munchkin

I have had her evaluated by several doctors and they give the diagnosis or pediatric bipolar with ocd and adhd. But when I tell other people about her problems they always say, but she looks so innocent and darling. lol. And I say she is darling and can be innocent but you don't want to cross paths with her when she is in one of her bad mental states. I have to say, I have been her number one advocate when other people lose their patience with her. But lately it has been so hard because of the miscarriage and ttc. How are you feeling right now Amy. Maybe watching a good comedy will help or some cuddle time with your hubby?

 

[aaronswoman79]

Where's Bethany? Is she ok? Has me worried, she has been absent for a long time. I hope I didn't scare her away with all my whining and moaning. lol.

 

[mommylov]

I've been talking to her a little on fb. She is doing ok, just getting settled in her new place. I told her that we all miss her like crazy and she said she goes too. She said she will be back soon hopefully

I have to second what everyone says because your dd does look so sweet and I'm sure she is despite her condition. You're bound to get a little frustrated even with your own child, you're only human. Doesn't make you a bad person or mother. I hope it gets better and sending you hugs!! Xx

 

[mommylov]

Just in bed watching king of queens. Pretty funny show

 

[TTCSecrets]

Hey my girlssssss!!!

Laura Jen how are u and bumps?

Jess hope youre okay... You are doing the best for DD youre a great mum!!

Amy any news yet or is it all happening tomorrow? I hope they ahve some great news for you!A bit stumped about all these different answers you are getting :S They need to hurry up and tell you you are PG and everything is progressing normally! so we can all stop worrying lol!

How is everyone else?

Im on CD3, Very very bad AF, as in it just wont stop and its kind of bright orange :S TMI but it is :S And the cramps are unbearable... Feel like someone is standing on my stomach and weighs 50 stone.. And we had a bonfire party last night with a few close friends last night and ive got a cold from standing outside watching fireworks Brilliant, hopefully AF slows down by the time i got to work tomorrow xxx