ttc after a d&c

[aaronswoman79]

Im agreeing with Ames Jess, I know of a girl who smoked the whole way through her pregnancy ( and by smoked i mean im surprised she had time to breathe in clean air between her fags) , and i know of a few occasions where she took Cocaine and Ecstasy in early pregnancy , one of the times was before she knew and the other times were when she knew ,And her baby was born healthy, full term and not a thing wrong! Im not condoning what she did AT ALL, but just saying that whats meant to be will be, and you are MEANT to have this lovely healthy LO..

You too Amy, im actually so happy for you! So happy for all you girls Just got to get me,Bethany,Angel and horsey's BFPs now

Just had my OPKs come through, ( only on CD5 and i peed on one but hey had to satisfy my POAS Addiction )

Just had a arguement with DH, think i am a bit touchy this week... ALthough i think i was in the right ( i always am )..Well..Most of the time... He smokes rol up fags and he seems to leave his left over tobacco all over the breakfast bar, and i must wipe it up several times a day, and today i got so mad that instead of scraping it all back into his tobacco tin i just wiped it with a cloth and chucked it, so then he was like fine i wont clean it up from now on i was like :S That wasnt the answer i was looking for :S And now we arent speaking, hes in the kitchen chatting to his friend, and im in living room watching the soaps...

Now he wants me to go with him to his friends later and im like * Why? SO i can sit in silence with you in someone elses home :S * So now we arguing because i wont go out with him... Hmmff.. God damn men and hormones, Dont do no good for eachother lol xxxx

Natasha, men truly are hard to understand. I don't understand a lot of things about my dh yet. They can act like defiant little babies. lol. You how when the toddlers go through the terrible 2's, it's like men get like that sometimes. Don't get it. I hope you too work things out today, so that you are no longer mad at him. Who usually breaks the silence when both of you are not on speaking terms?

 

[TTCSecrets]

Its always him who breaks the silence, i would keep on going.. But when i think about it really, I actually break the silence because, after an hour or two he must realise what hes said etc, and tries to make me laugh to break the ice, and i just give in and think of TTC and end up forgetting about it, but then i think that im being walked all over by forgetting everything, and he seems to want to wind me up more when he knows AF is here and how touchy i am everytime shes here since the MC ((( xxx

 

[aaronswoman79]

Its always him who breaks the silence, i would keep on going.. But when i think about it really, I actually break the silence because, after an hour or two he must realise what hes said etc, and tries to make me laugh to break the ice, and i just give in and think of TTC and end up forgetting about it, but then i think that im being walked all over by forgetting everything, and he seems to want to wind me up more when he knows AF is here and how touchy i am everytime shes here since the MC ((( xxx

I am sorry Natasha. I know how hormonal we can get. It really sucks. I am a hormonal mess right now. I hate to say this, and I wish I didn't feel like this but instead of feeling overjoyed that I am pregnant, I feel depressed still and terrified. Of course I wish I was very happy and I don't want to feel like this but I am thinking I have some serious hormonal issues going on, because I was feeling like this before bfp.

 

[horseypants]

amy, WOW, so happy for you!

and ladies, yes, the men r terrible and these hormones are the only thing worse! mine's made up his mind to vote for the bad guy today in the US elections. i'd ask for a divorce but we're not yet married. and also i woke up with ewcm this morning after a raunchy sex dream, so i made a appointment for this evening with DF and it's all i can do to behave and get mine lol ...i've been throwing fits just about every morning and night

 

[mommylov]

Thanks Tash & Jess!

Jess, dont stress hun (I know, this coming from the nut job that has been crazy for the past week) but I am really coming to terms with the fact that only so much is in our hands. You can be proactive about getting things checked out and making sure you are doing all that you can but in the end, whatever will be will be. I really need to read this to myself Im sure in the next few days/weeks! We are going to have our ups and downs emotionally and will worry because its only natural but try and enjoy as much of this as you can. I wouldnt worry aboout the advil... I really dont think it affected your lo and there are people out there that do HARD core drugs while pregnant and have healthy babies. Not that advil is hard core but just trying to make you feel better. Sit back and enjoy the ride of your 9 month HEALTHY pregnancy

Thanks Amy. Maybe I should stop researching on Google. Because I have read about women who took advil while ttc and ending up miscarrying, but others who did and went on to have a healthy baby. I know I can't control what I did before conception, and even the fact that I took 1 800mg advil at the dentist right around time of ov. I just never though we would end up conceiving. I took another frer this morning and right as I peed on it, you know when the window start changing color from the pee, I got a positive that second, didn't even have to wait at all. lol. And the positive line is darker than the other one! I hope that this is a good sign. I want my healthy baby so badly.

"DR Google" has been both my saving grace and worse enemy... stay away from there for now. To be honest, I feel like I got more clarity here than anywhere else. If it werent for you girls, I wouldnt have known about a lot of the thigs I know about now so hope that gives you some comfort. We will all make it through this one way or another!

 

[mommylov]

aww tash and Horsey.. men can be really annoying sometimes. As great as my hubby is, he has his moments for sure as well. I honestly think they have a time of the month too... no joke. Since we actually go througha mentral sycle and ovulating and chiild birth, I feel like ours is legit and thiers is bogus but none the less I do feel it still exists. Come on here and we will pick you up! heheh As for staying good for bd.... I would be too! hahah

 

[mommylov]

oH on another note... dh and I made a vow that we BOTH wont vote this time... we are both on op ends so we would just counter eachother out so no need!

 

[aaronswoman79]

oH on another note... dh and I made a vow that we BOTH wont vote this time... we are both on op ends so we would just counter eachother out so no need!

Neither did dh and I. We actually both don't like Obama or Romney (have done countless hours of research), so in our minds we knew we couldn't vote for either man. I have plenty or reasons to not like them. But don't want to get into that on here. lol. I have a strong political opinion, but as for now I have many other things to worry about. That is why I don't really comment when everyone on here talks about politics, because since I have an opposite opinion than most of you I don't want this forum to turn into a debate. I respect all of your political opinions. I could list tons of reasons why I believe we are in deep sh*t in my opinion with either man, but I am not here to convince anybody to change their opinions. One thing I will tell you what I have learned these past years, in my opinion it doesn't matter if the candidate is a dem or repub, I know plenty of lies come from either party. That is partly why I have kinda lost faith in a lot of politicians, and then all these smear adds. lol. This is the first time since age 18 that I am not voting.

 

[mommylov]

dh said the same thing... I hear ya. I dont like to get into it too.. I dont know if you remember but one of my coworkers was in my face about it and I told her to stop.. wasnt even tryin gto debate or talk about it but she wouldnt let up.

Speaking of her... Guess who is back to her old ways? Her great attitude post vacation didnt last very long. Im going to try and not let it get to me though esp given the circumstances. Need to be ZEN! Colleguezilla will NOT affect this pregnancy!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Jess ~ for a quick +ve today! It might be hard to believe, but you are so totally preggers! The bit of ibuprofen you took was not enough to cause any damage...your lo was still at the cellular level, so no harm done! As for politics, well I like how you said, "I don't want this forum to turn into a debate."

Amy ~ Glad they confirmed pregnancy. Let's watch those numbers rise! Grow LO Grow! The progesterone should fix you right up! And counteractive votes <~~~ Fair enough!

Tash and Horsey ~ I love a good argument with my DH, he rarely argues with me, so these moments are few and far between. For some reason AFTER we get all peeved at each other, I get a feeling! Yep...ba bam chicka wow wow! He is my Optimus Prime!

Bethany ~ Hope the beach was lovely! Ours is too and windy. That Nor'Easter is coming in.

Laura ~ Sleepy is good! In fact that 2 hour nap is REALLY GOOD! I'm sure LO is busy growing away in there!

Jen ~ Hope you are keeping warm!

and to anyone I may have missed!

 

[aaronswoman79]

dh said the same thing... I hear ya. I dont like to get into it too.. I dont know if you remember but one of my coworkers was in my face about it and I told her to stop.. wasnt even tryin gto debate or talk about it but she wouldnt let up.

Speaking of her... Guess who is back to her old ways? Her great attitude post vacation didnt last very long. Im going to try and not let it get to me though esp given the circumstances. Need to be ZEN! Colleguezilla will NOT affect this pregnancy!

Oh no Amy!! Stay away from Colleguezilla, do not let her affect you in any way. Have you announced your pregnancy at work yet or to other family members? The only ones who know is my hubby, mom, and daughters (right when I tested and saw the positive I had a mental breakdown in front of my daughters.. I really couldn't control it I had been holding in so much anxiety, stress, and so many other emotions for the past 3 months) My 6 year old automatically said, "You're pregnant mommy?" lol. She is a smart one!

 

[aaronswoman79]

dh said the same thing... I hear ya. I dont like to get into it too.. I dont know if you remember but one of my coworkers was in my face about it and I told her to stop.. wasnt even tryin gto debate or talk about it but she wouldnt let up.

Speaking of her... Guess who is back to her old ways? Her great attitude post vacation didnt last very long. Im going to try and not let it get to me though esp given the circumstances. Need to be ZEN! Colleguezilla will NOT affect this pregnancy!

Luckily dh and I see eye to eye on politics. I turned him to my way. lol. j/k. Actually we like watching documentaries and researching together, so we basically end up agreeing about politics. But there are other things of course we don't see eye to eye on. That's why they say couples compliment each other, not just by what we have in common, but with out differences. Wouldn't it be boring if a couple agreed on every single thing and never had a difference of opinion about anything? A lot of interesting conversations come from having a different opinion, and it doesn't even have to turn into a debate or argument, if anything to teach each other a little bit about our beliefs and why we believe in what we believe. That is too bad that your work Colleague can't respect that not everybody is going to agree with her.

 

[lilesMom]

thanks amy and angel. xxxxxxxxxx
i feel better after my relaxy class
hi to all xx

 

[aaronswoman79]

Jess ~ for a quick +ve today! It might be hard to believe, but you are so totally preggers! The bit of ibuprofen you took was not enough to cause any damage...your lo was still at the cellular level, so no harm done! As for politics, well I like how you said, "I don't want this forum to turn into a debate."

Amy ~ Glad they confirmed pregnancy. Let's watch those numbers rise! Grow LO Grow! The progesterone should fix you right up! And counteractive votes <~~~ Fair enough!

Tash and Horsey ~ I love a good argument with my DH, he rarely argues with me, so these moments are few and far between. For some reason AFTER we get all peeved at each other, I get a feeling! Yep...ba bam chicka wow wow! He is my Optimus Prime!

Bethany ~ Hope the beach was lovely! Ours is too and windy. That Nor'Easter is coming in.

Laura ~ Sleepy is good! In fact that 2 hour nap is REALLY GOOD! I'm sure LO is busy growing away in there!

Jen ~ Hope you are keeping warm!

and to anyone I may have missed!

Thanks Angel. I was also reading that if I didn't have a healthy lining the baby wouldn't have been able to implant. I hope everything is good. The thing I didn't mention on here is that I was having quite a few symptoms for a few days before I got the positive, but I though I was just going crazy. The first weird thing that happened is I pulled out the digital ov predictor that I bought at the beginning of my cycle. I remember when I first used it on cd 13 I got no smiley face, then on cd 14 I got the smiley face ( I was thinking this can't be, that soon after only using it twice?) Then 4 hours later no more happy face (this was the last recorded use until cd 26). So I figured I only caught the end of my surge and I lost my chance for this month. But we still bded that night with my horrible toothache and everything. Then we bded the next night cd 15, skipped cd 16 and then bded on cd 17. One of these night was the magically night. hehe.

This is where it gets weird. I was curious last Tuesday, which was cd 26, even though I knew I could no longer us the clearblue ov predictor for the month, I used it anyways and I got smiley face. But I bought a frer and took it that day and the next day and got 2 negatives. I started thinking, was is possible that the opk, being digital, had my last testing recording when the surge already went down and when I took it for the heck of it on cd 26, last Tuesday, it detected an increase in hcg rather than lh hormone and it showed the smiley face because of it? Anyways after I got the frer negative on cd 27, like clockwork all of the symptoms started, and I kept denying them, even on here because I was in denial of everything. I was so sure that I wasn't pregnant that I was ignoring everything because I didn't want to keep my hopes up.

A few things that have happened that I know happen with each pregnancy, sensitive nipples (not quite hurting but just sensitive), increase in peeing, like if we go out and I don't use the restroom I literally have to run to the bathroom when I get home, usually only happens when I am pregnant. Horrible reflux, which I have read is the increase in hormones, and the one key thing that happened. Two nights ago when I was brushing my teeth my gums started bleeding, and this is very unusual because I floss after everything I eat, at least 3 times a day and my gums never bleed, that was the one that made me very suspicious. And I realized it was the increased blood flow. Since this is my 4th pregnancy (praying this one lasts until the end) I am very in tune with my body. So I hope listing these symptoms help all of you, especially when you think you might be pregnant. I ignored mine because I just didn't want to keep my hopes up and get crushed.

 

[aaronswoman79]

thanks amy and angel. xxxxxxxxxx
i feel better after my relaxy class
hi to all xx

So glad you feel better Laura! Pregnancy has a lot of ups and downs, doesn't it? With all the hormones and body changes. I hope you found the peace you needed after your class.

 

[lilesMom]

thanks hon, congrats again x

 

[xoxo4angel]

Thank you for sharing Jess!

Amy ~ The Return of Colleaguezilla.

Laura ~ Well, fx you are close to it!

I would really like to go on to bed (it's 5:30p) to see what my temps are like tomorrow, but I kind of what to see what Virginia does. Hope my vote counts...darn Electoral College!

and and warm wishes for all of you ladies!

 

[lilesMom]

thanks angel head ot bed , results of election wil be there when u wake up xx
there is a part of my class where we send healing to whoever we want , i always send to ye too xxxxxx
i lit a candle on monday for ye all too at my local grotto (its near my doc i go every mon) , i lit a speacial one for amy this week too xxxxxxxxxxx

heres to bfps all round xxxxx
bethany i think ur testing wil go well, fx for u xxxxxxx
fx for all of course , just singling bethany out cos she is so close

 

[xoxo4angel]

Thank you Laura.

 

[TTCSecrets]

Laura glad you feeling better and more relaxed
Amy, im really happy for you, *Big Cuddle*
Jess you too, so excited for you, and now it begins lol!!
Bethany when do you test??
Jen how are you?
Horsey whats new?
Angel, HAHA optimus prime lool BOW CHICKA WOW WOWWWWWWW


Ive just done a huge tidy up of the bedroom ready for the arrival of my flat packed wardrobes tomorrow.. Actually sick of having a floordrobe now, im more than ready for these cupboards lol!

Lots love xxxx