ttc after a d&c

[lilesMom]

bethany we will miss u hon but i totally understand and like angel said we will be here for u when u cna come back xxxxxxxxxxx loves ya xxxxxxxxxx

angel worry showed up, u have the best attitude and i really hope u get ur happy news this month xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

every1 else hi chick s and
im really tired and a bit gobsmacked by how sad this all is so im leaving it a bit short, xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

kaylee so soory for all u have been through hon xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
and welcome, a good reason didnt bring anyone here but it is a great thread with some really lovely supportitve girls , welcome babe xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[aaronswoman79]

Jessica 1000 hcg is good! You arent high enough to see a sac. I couldnt see one til over 2000 for both pregnancies. Ill be praying. This thread has so much sadness atm I hope we can get some pma hear and some good news

God willing I get some good news, but honestly its so hard. Because I know that the risk for something to go wrong is so real and there, and it scares me so much. My last pregnancy started out crampy and look where that got me. I remember telling me husband at the beginning of that pregnancy when I was told there was threatened miscarriage, I told him that if I were to lose the baby that I would want it to happen early, because I was so scared to get so attached and I ended up losing my baby much later (my worse fears came true). Now I feel like I am in the same predicament, telling my husband the same thing.

You girls are probably the only hope I have (of course my baby is my hope too), I know that sounds bad, but nobody else seems to understand the way all of you do. Not even my husband.

Amy, one thing I can tell you, and I know this isn't going to help much, because the pain is so real. But things will get better. Once you get af back you can start fresh and really get taken care of by your docs. Even request a high risk doc, they will give you the TLC you need. And know this, you are not alone, many women have had this happen and go on to have healthy babies. Nobody knows as to why some women will suffer 1 miscarriage or even a few miscarriages first and then go on the have healthy children. I hope you get your answers, and your new doctor sounds amazing! You were very brave to keep going with your instinct this time around, and you kept questioning the docs and being persistent. Many people are scared to question authority and you weren't. Now all you need is the same from your doctor this time around, just some extra TLC. I hope you get the comfort you need from your hubby tonight.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Kaylee, I just read through your post. I am so sorry for what you have gone through. . You have come to the right place for support. We all understand your fears and sorrows, and we are all here for you. I have learned and immense amount of new things concerning trying to conceive, fertility, over the counter ovulation predictors etc. from these amazing women. If it weren't for them I don't think I would have gotten pregnant again (fingers crossed right now because of the reality that something could go wrong). We are all in on this journey together. When ever you need a shoulder to cry on (well you know what I mean hehe) or just need advice, come on here hon. That is so good that you have a good support system. Very very important. But I completely understand what if feels like to feel alone even with all of that support. It takes finding women through not so fortunate circumstances who have gone through what you have gone through. Take care, and I hope you find your answers and one day have your beautiful little baby in your arms.

 

[mommylov]

Thanks Jess. Trying to let it all sink in. I'm now afraid that I stopped bleeding and that it won't happen naturally. I don't want to go through another d&c so praying that this us just over with soon.

Try not to stress too much. I really think the is you rainbow baby

 

[aaronswoman79]

Thanks Jess. Trying to let it all sink in. I'm now afraid that I stopped bleeding and that it won't happen naturally. I don't want to go through another d&c so praying that this us just over with soon.

Try not to stress too much. I really think the is you rainbow baby

Amy, I never thought I would be saying this. But I will pray that you pass as soon and as painless as possible. So you can look ahead to the future and get to bding and getting your lo. With the proper health care and TLC you will get your lo. Time is on your side. Every month, there is a chance to get pregnant and although it can be stressful at times it is definitely something to look forward to. And you are still young Amy. Like I said, in the Bay Area the majority of women (most of them professionals) do have there children much older than other areas. And when I say that I mean like mid to late 30s. By then you will probably already have your cute little family formed.

 

[mommylov]

Thanks, I sure hope so. I have so many family and friends having babies right now and wish that I could join them. 32 now so the sooner the better.

 

[TTCSecrets]

Heartbroken reading through these posts..Amy again i know ive said before but you know we are here for you and we all love you! You are a lovely such sweet person, youve given us all so much advice and comfort and i hope we are doing the same for you, i agree,i know its not easy but once this is over and af is here, i would definitely request a high risk doc from the get go.. And make sure they take you seriously and do what i will do next time, ring them whenever you feel something isnt right, if thye say dont worry its normal press it even further... I told DH that when i get pg again, im going to literally be the worst patient ever, and i actually wont leave the doctors office until i know everything is okay...

Kaylee hi chick, you are in the best forum for support regarding the angel babies, and also great support and help if you ttc again, these girls are the best, i dont think i would have coped without them this past two months, i even talk about the girls in general conversation to dh, as if we all live near eachother, and he knows who is who now lol!
So sorry for your loss ... big hugs

Jen,Laura,Jess how are you?

Angel how is AF? Not too unbearable i hope

Horsey hope you okay

Bethany we miss you and understand you taking a break , thinking of you still

Well after all the arguing with dh the past few days, he came home from work last night, and we didnt speak, and then he said he was going out...He came home last night with a big massive bunch of flowers and stuff to cook me dinner, and had tears in his eyes and told me he was sorry, we had a big cuddle/cry and sorted things out, i told him that i think most of our arguements boil down to me still being so angry over the mc, and we are okay now ....

Hes gone to work this morning so im going to have a good clean up for when he gets home, have a nice cup of tea waiting, and we said we are gonna cuddle up on sofa all day and watch movies

Hope youre all okay

xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[mommylov]

Ya, she wants me to come back for more labs in a week to monitor my levels. She said that if I pass things sooner then I can come do labs sooner. She wants to start testing for next cycle as soon as I get to 0

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[mommylov]

Ya she does. She said she wants to check all levels through out my cycle. This lo was suppose to be due on dh bday. I told him that if we get everything figured out and I get pregnant on Christmas, the baby would be due on my bday

By during Christmas is the best! Hope you have a great time! Does this mean no aspen?

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[TTCSecrets]

Amy , hope you are comfortable and things are happening naturally xxx

Angel. Im hoping for a new year baby too, ive lost track of when i think i should O, it keeps going between CD17 and CD11 and i dont know where im at sometimes lol!

Ive decided to do a few home study courses though so im hoping that keeps me preoccupied instead of having a TTC brain all the time , hope af lets up for you soon so u can look forward to o xxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Amy you doing okay hun? xxx

 

[mommylov]

I'm doing ok, thanks for asking. Still light bleeding so haven't passed yet. Just wish this done already. trying to focus on the good but we still have our moments of sadness.

 

[TTCSecrets]

Bless you babe, you will have a heathy full term LO soon... I know its too early to ask really but are u going to still ttc right away once this is over? I feel awful for you. FX for you for a christmas baby . And glad you and dh have got eachother for comfort xxx

 

[mommylov]

We do want to try as soon as we can. The dr said that if we do pass everything naturally that we can try right away and with her monitoring and testing we feel more optimistic. It's about the only thing that is getting me through this right now.