ttc after a d&c

[TTCSecrets]

Ill pray that everything goes smoothly and naturally for you, like you say at least then you can be monitored etc and start again right away, its hope for you, and you do have time on your side, your not too old at all and you will get pg again ! And you will have ahealthy full term lo! I just know it Im charting and such but just trying to relax this month because the stress of it all is ridiculous. It seems to consume my every thought, constantly googling things and ending up with af etc, we will all ahve our rainbow babies sooon xxx

 

[mommylov]

Thanks tash, praying for you too!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Im gona go get a nice bath and put all my clothes away, dh has judt finished putting up our bedroom cupboards, i have a lot of organising to do to say the least, take care speak soon xxxx

 

[lilesMom]

hi guys hugs and love to all but most espeacially to amy xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

hi guys hugs and love to all but most espeacially to amy xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

hope ur holding up as well as can be hon, ur right to try focus on pos, u have new doc on ur side now and she will make all the difference to u having sticky bean next time xxx

 

[mommylov]

Thanks ... Just can't stop

 

[lilesMom]

aw in sorry hon xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
i know hte feeling from last time, it is so horrible , i wish i could help

 

[mommylov]

Thanks, you girls have been such good friends to me.

 

[lilesMom]

only cos ur a pet and we love u xxxxxxxx
u deserve happiness and lo and u get it babe, i just know u will xxxx
at the mo i know it doesnt feel like it but u will honey xxxxxx

 

[aaronswoman79]

Love you Amy. Been thinking about you today. I am on bed rest, been cramping a bit, and it scares me of course. Tomorrow I go for hcg levels. Then I go to obgyn Monday to see if the pregnancy is viable or ectopic. So scared. I hope you are resting and taking it easy with your sweet dh. Maybe have a glass of wine (not sure if you drink at all). I don't know if your up to watching movies or anything, but sometimes a romantic comedy or regular comedy might help smooth things by. Just trying to give suggestions, but I know everybody mourns in their own way. I just hate to see any of your sad or stressed. I am thankful that you are no longer in limbo and now you can look to the future. When ever you feel down or feel you need to vent, we are all here for you.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Natasha, so glad you are your hubby made up now its time for makeup hehe. I hope this cycle brings good news for you and that you are your hubby are doing good together. I know about the ups and downs, me and my husband have had plenty of them. Communication is always the key, but at times its hard because we feel these men don't understand us. I think as the relationship matures, the man usually does too( I would hope), so time does help. Your dh sounds like a sweet man, especially with all those surprises he had for you.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Laura, are you feeling better hon? You are almost 12 weeks right? Or over 12 weeks? Hows the morning sickness going. I hope its easing up for you. Mine started today, 3 days earlier than the last pregnancy. Sore boobies are here too. Now all I hope is that this baby sticks and in the right place (uterus). Was just watching that movie Leap Year and though of you, since the lady went to Ireland. Now I really want to go to Ireland, one day. Its so so beautiful. Then I can drop by and visit you and LO.

 

[TTCSecrets]

Hey Jess, yeah he is sweet, i do honestly think that most of the time its the stress of the TTC and also still a bit of anger about the mc. We are a strong couple, we both are really stubborn in arguements too, me because i know im right and him because hes a man lol! But Friday was the first time he actually *gave in* nd apologised and bought me flowers lol so i think we are making progress with the stubborness within him hehe.. Well weve certainly made up for time with bding..

Hope you are okay , and i also hope it goes well with your hcg levels, cant wait to know everythings viable and okay. I can understand you are scared, i would be too, they say cramping is normal in early pregnancy though, especially after mc , i have spoken to several doctors who state a d and c or mc doesnt affect future pregnancies but i spoke to a gynae woman who stated thta it is daft and foolish to think it doesnt affect it. Of course it does. I just hope it goes well for you..

Im hoping i get a BFP this month but to be honest im not expecting it, ive kind of gone from obsessing about it to being a bit complacent. Im bding, but its out of affection and feeling like it, ive not done an opk yet this cycle as i od so late last cycle, and i just cant be bothered to hold my pee in for hours and not have anything to drink lol!!

It will happen when its time for me, theres nothing i can do to hurry it up, just thinking baout expecting af each month so at least im not dissapointed when she comes. xxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Amy hope youre okay today babe , well not okay, but as okay as you can be

Bethany we miss you and hope you and DH are okay

Jen,Laura, hope you are both doing well

Angel how are you ? Has AF pissed off yet ? Lol she needs to if not !! We need you to start BDing and grabbing that rainbow egg lol!

Horsey where you been?!

Anyone else ive missed ?
xxx

 

[lilesMom]

Laura, are you feeling better hon? You are almost 12 weeks right? Or over 12 weeks? Hows the morning sickness going. I hope its easing up for you. Mine started today, 3 days earlier than the last pregnancy. Sore boobies are here too. Now all I hope is that this baby sticks and in the right place (uterus). Was just watching that movie Leap Year and though of you, since the lady went to Ireland. Now I really want to go to Ireland, one day. Its so so beautiful. Then I can drop by and visit you and LO.

hi honey glad ur resting up and fx for ur results but im sure they will be great, xx i had cramping for weeks and weeks, but it was mild enough and doc told me it was totally normal, i know how hard it is not to worry , we can only try our best but it does sneak in too when our guard is down
im 11 weeks today on the 11th of the 11th
my sickness is gone funny, i used to have it every day but now i can have a really good day and then extra bad day r 2, then good day, its gone patchy but thst normal cos the placenta starts taking over at 10 weeks,
yest and today im just starving all the time , i hope this isnt what i be like all the time i be huge
ireland is nice but quiet and mellow , dont expect too much of it
i suppose im immune to it cos im here all the time
but it would be lovely to meet up

 

[lilesMom]

natasha ur attitude sounds great ur dead right not to put urself under pressure xxxxxx
fx for ur relaxed approach which often has better results and is much easier on u mentally while trying and hurray for affectionate BD always good
we have started bding again too since im less nervy all docs and consultant said it was fine ages ago but i was too nervous. but it doesnt seem to ahve done any harm
only good xxx

 

[lilesMom]

amy honey, lots of tlc for u, big huge from me xxxxxxxxxx
ive been praying for u and sending u angels. i know u might be cross with um now (i was for abit after) but hoping it might help some bit xxxxxxxx
we all love u to bits and wish this wasnt happening to u hon xxxxxxx
best wishes to ur hubby too, hope he is holding up ok xxxx
bit of a silly thing for me to say but make sure u eat even if u dont feel like it.
its important o take care of u for ur sake and for ttc again sake xxxx
i hope that doesnt sound weird but i dont want u neglecting urself xxxxx
hon xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

angel how u doin hon, u ok?
hope ur just busy having a nice weekend

love and to all xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Oh Laurs im glad for you! You can start relaxing a bit more now

Actually wish we didnt all live in different countries, would be lovely to actually all meet up , would be lovely !

Yeah i do feel more relaxed this cycle, i dont quite know if its a good thing in the sense that im not stressing and i feel mentally alot better, or if it means im becoming not bothered by it :/

I think ive been more distracted, ive decided to take some home courses and try and get into university next year , just part time, but ive finally decided on a career i want, so trying to get money for hte courses and sort some desk space out in the house is keeping me occupied

YOure up early LAura? xxxx