ttc after a d&c

[xoxo4angel]

 

[geegirl]

im sick of taking tests! 15months not one positive opk,or one positive pregnancy test! i tend to have about 3 months of af coming on time,then it goes all crazy and comes say either ten day early to ten days late so i can never judge when!and my boobs hurt from what i think must be ovulation all the way until af comes so i cant use that as a gauge.... very frustrating!!!! xxx

Geegirl arent you going to test? Do you know when you ovulated? xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[geegirl]

i bought a thermometer a while ago with good intentions to track, i am a spaghetti brain and forgot a few days ect.... did have bloods last month to track my ov and going for the results next week, also have my 1st appointment with fertility clinic end of this month, so hopefully have a few more answers well at least get the ball rolling! x

im sick of taking tests! 15months not one positive opk,or one positive pregnancy test! i tend to have about 3 months of af coming on time,then it goes all crazy and comes say either ten day early to ten days late so i can never judge when!and my boobs hurt from what i think must be ovulation all the way until af comes so i cant use that as a gauge.... very frustrating!!!! xxx

Have you tried temping? I started last month and it was quite helpful for figuring out when I ovulated and told me in advance AF was coming...might ease the frustration of not knowing.

 

[jen435]

Kaylee so sorry for your loss I am glad ur doing okay. I know how hard it is to lose and have to go through ttc again. Stay positive your lil one will come and we will be here cheering u on til ur lo is in ur arms and even after!

Amy so glad work is helping preoccupy your mind. I wish u the best and pray everything passes naturally so u can get back to ttc. dec would be such a lovely month. im still so very sorry u had to experience this again. Im glad u found a caring obgyn now thou and ur next lo will stay.

Jess thinking of you hope ur okay and all is well sweety.

Angel what a great plan! Turkey day baby!! oh I really want it to happen for u!!! Hope hsg goes well and is painless. I wish it was easier for u sweety.

Natasha yay almost positive opk get busy tonight just incase!! Sooner the better! hoping u have ur bfp sooon!!!

Geegirl hi! Im so sorry for your loss. I can understand ur frustration in htps being negative.. Wait as long as u need. We will be anxiously waiting hoping u have ur bfp soon!

Laura yes I was wondering about u working also. How are u feeling today? Hope ur lo is bouncing around today all happy!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Hi everybody, Kaylee and geegirl.. welcome sweet ladies. I am sorry about the way we have all met, tragedy has brought us all together. But believe me when I say that these girls here are friends for life. We all have a bond that a lot of people can't quite understand (miscarriage is so hard to understand for people who have luckily never experienced it).

Amy, love you and thinking about you. We will all be bump buddies soon enough. One positive thing that you can take from all of this.. that you are very fertile. Now you have a more proactive team over there (the docs) that seem to be taking care of you a whole lot better. I am glad that you got out today, it is much better than being home alone.

Jen and Laura, hope you girls are doing great. Just think, soon enough you will feel los kicking and squirming around in there, can't wait!!

Angel, thank you so much for thinking about me. It has been a stressful weekend waiting for the results. And on top of it, my husband was being an ass yesterday (hopefully he never comes across this thread, or I will be in a wee bit of trouble. lol.) I told him he should be ashamed of himself for acting the way he did, and he had the nerve to say he had a neck ache and didn't feel good and that's why he was acting up. I told him, "and I have a uterus ache, you don't see me bitching to you. For crying out loud, I'm about to get important test results." He apologized after. Just don't understand men at times, its like they get pms too. Actually I have read that they also have a monthly cycle and can get mood swings too. lol.

Natasha, I like your chart that shows all the info about ttc. It's pretty cool. So you are close oving I see, are you getting prepared with your dh? Hey, do they sell pre-seed over there? That is what I used last month I got pregnant. I think there is something to that stuff. I hear a lot of good things. Not sure if you use it, but if you don't, might want to look into it.

 

[jen435]

As for me I was in tears on the ultrasound table watching my baby bouncing around on the screen with a heartbeat of 171bpm. Dec 3 is when they will do a heart check scan. Praying its okay and feeling very thankful for a heartbeat and for u ladies. I wouldnt be holding myself together if I didnt have u! So thank you!

Angel I post ultrasound pics tonight promise. Im exhausted and need to sleep. I couldnt sleep at all last night.

Laura im craving a personal pan pizza from pizza hut. Im nuts! Zofran works some what! Headaches are brutal but ill survive. Your scans thurs right??? Sooo excited for u!

 

[geegirl]

you ladies are amazing!!!! i mean my dh is wonderful but you know there is only so much they can understand right? who else has been trying for over a year on here?? im going bonkers!!! so so sorry for all of your losses, i feel what you feel x

 

[jen435]

Geegirl and jess ugh men! Im considered lazy annoyin and my husband is telling me im pushing him away I cant cook n clean like I,did and they just dont,get it. Glad urs appologized jess and urs is kinda understanding geegirl. Mine shows no emotion and he doesnt hug unless he wants something. Its annoying!

 

[jen435]

Jess sooooo??? Did u hear from ur doctor??

 

[aaronswoman79]

AFM I got the test results this morning. I asked the nurse what my hcg levels were, and you know what is the first thing she said, "I see your hcg results.. this is odd..." Then she goes on to say, "I think you need to be seen by a doctor very soon.." My heart started beating very fast. I was so freaking scared. Then I asked her while I was shaking, what was wrong and what did the hcg results say. Then she said, "Your hcg more than doubled, I don't know how that is..." I was thinking wtf (sorry for the language) isn't that a good thing? Then I asked her, "Aren't they suppose the double?" She said, she didn't know what was going on.

So, I proceeded to tell her I had a pregnancy confirmation on Friday and my hcg levels were only at 1,000. She said on Friday my hcg levels were actually 1,200 and they have gone up to 3,200. She apologized left and right, she actually thought I was still waiting for hcg to go down from last pregnancy, so that is why she was confused as to why they more doubled. So she said that that was very good results, the 3,200. She also said that even if it only doubled a little after 48 hours, that still would have been good. I basically took the test on Sunday afternoon though.

So in 56 hours my hcg went up and almost tripled.. this is good right? lol. I am sorry I am still paranoid. Oh, and then I told her I needed to go in and get a scan to make sure that the baby is in my uterus. And she says she is almost certain it is, because hcg levels that go up healthy are healthy pregnancies. But she wants me to come in on Thursday, they want the hcg to be at least 5,000 to get a clearer picture. Just in case they can't see the sac today, they don't want to add added stress to me.

I am trying to be happy, but I am also so scared. Oh and remember when I told all of you that when I went to the er, the ultrasound tech told me that at 4 to 5 weeks we should have seen a sac. The nurse told me that is totally false. That every pregnancy is different, especially if I have a longer cycle and I ovulate a couple of days later than average, that can make a hug difference and that 4w6d to 5w0d is still extremely early for some women, especially if hcg is lover than 2,000. Man, this is all promising, but so stressful. Please God let me keep this baby.. please!! to all!

 

[geegirl]

oh i know that one all too well, its a state of depression you know your grieving. i felt very guilty for a ridiculous reason and they dont get that sort of thing. i dont get a cuddle if they want anything other than 'play' time or prompted! eghhhh men indeed! i just think positive to be positive to make positive happen. what your mood generates can effect EVERY thing conscious or not... i am a great believer in the power of the mind. my mum always said unhappy momma unhappy household! Thinking of you ladies xxx

Geegirl and jess ugh men! Im considered lazy annoyin and my husband is telling me im pushing him away I cant cook n clean like I,did and they just dont,get it. Glad urs appologized jess and urs is kinda understanding geegirl. Mine shows no emotion and he doesnt hug unless he wants something. Its annoying!

 

[geegirl]

i have every faith in you! sending all my positive vibes too you!! feeling hopeful xxxx

AFM I got the test results this morning. I asked the nurse what my hcg levels were, and you know what is the first thing she said, "I see your hcg results.. this is odd..." Then she goes on to say, "I think you need to be seen by a doctor very soon.." My heart started beating very fast. I was so freaking scared. Then I asked her while I was shaking, what was wrong and what did the hcg results say. Then she said, "Your hcg more than doubled, I don't know how that is..." I was thinking wtf (sorry for the language) isn't that a good thing? Then I asked her, "Aren't they suppose the double?" She said, she didn't know what was going on.

So, I proceeded to tell her I had a pregnancy confirmation on Friday and my hcg levels were only at 1,000. She said on Friday my hcg levels were actually 1,200 and they have gone up to 3,200. She apologized left and right, she actually thought I was still waiting for hcg to go down from last pregnancy, so that is why she was confused as to why they more doubled. So she said that that was very good results, the 3,200. She also said that even if it only doubled a little after 48 hours, that still would have been good. I basically took the test on Sunday afternoon though.

So in 56 hours my hcg went up and almost tripled.. this is good right? lol. I am sorry I am still paranoid. Oh, and then I told her I needed to go in and get a scan to make sure that the baby is in my uterus. And she says she is almost certain it is, because hcg levels that go up healthy are healthy pregnancies. But she wants me to come in on Thursday, they want the hcg to be at least 5,000 to get a clearer picture. Just in case they can't see the sac today, they don't want to add added stress to me.

I am trying to be happy, but I am also so scared. Oh and remember when I told all of you that when I went to the er, the ultrasound tech told me that at 4 to 5 weeks we should have seen a sac. The nurse told me that is totally false. That every pregnancy is different, especially if I have a longer cycle and I ovulate a couple of days later than average, that can make a hug difference and that 4w6d to 5w0d is still extremely early for some women, especially if hcg is lover than 2,000. Man, this is all promising, but so stressful. Please God let me keep this baby.. please!! to all!

 

[aaronswoman79]

oh i know that one all too well, its a state of depression you know your grieving. i felt very guilty for a ridiculous reason and they dont get that sort of thing. i dont get a cuddle if they want anything other than 'play' time or prompted! eghhhh men indeed! i just think positive to be positive to make positive happen. what your mood generates can effect EVERY thing conscious or not... i am a great believer in the power of the mind. my mum always said unhappy momma unhappy household! Thinking of you ladies xxx

Geegirl and jess ugh men! Im considered lazy annoyin and my husband is telling me im pushing him away I cant cook n clean like I,did and they just dont,get it. Glad urs appologized jess and urs is kinda understanding geegirl. Mine shows no emotion and he doesnt hug unless he wants something. Its annoying!

Amen to that geegirl. And your mom gave you good advice. Sometimes my husband starts to cuddle me and I think ,oh how sweet, and then the cuddling turns to touching, and then I know what he wants. Men are weird creatures hehe. Oh I looked at your status, you have 5 year old. Sweet. That is good, it means you have had a healthy child. And you will have a healthy child again. I have 2 daughters, one is almost 13!! and the other is almost 7!!. I had the first when I was 20 and second at 26. Now that I am in my ealy 30s pregnancy is much harder on the body. Can you imagine my older daughter will be over 13 years older than my youngest. At least she can help me change diapers and help out. haha. She says she doesn't want to be anywhere near diapers, and that if its a boy she definitely refuses to change a boy. lol.

 

[jen435]

Wonderful news jessica! Sending positive sticky vibes ur way!!!

 

[geegirl]

My friend said the other week, 'spooning always leads to forking' hahaha quite apt i think! i had my daughter quite young i was 18 years old and since left her not so nice father and married a beautiful man. he has a 8 year old boy from a previous relationship so we should in theory both be working hehe so there is hope just taking a verrrry long time! its amazing live in babysitter right there for you she will fall in love with her sibling and do anything needed i bet you! does she know about the min a boys nappy is off out comes pee, i cant tell you how mant times my nephew has peed on me! x

oh i know that one all too well, its a state of depression you know your grieving. i felt very guilty for a ridiculous reason and they dont get that sort of thing. i dont get a cuddle if they want anything other than 'play' time or prompted! eghhhh men indeed! i just think positive to be positive to make positive happen. what your mood generates can effect EVERY thing conscious or not... i am a great believer in the power of the mind. my mum always said unhappy momma unhappy household! Thinking of you ladies xxx

Geegirl and jess ugh men! Im considered lazy annoyin and my husband is telling me im pushing him away I cant cook n clean like I,did and they just dont,get it. Glad urs appologized jess and urs is kinda understanding geegirl. Mine shows no emotion and he doesnt hug unless he wants something. Its annoying!

Amen to that geegirl. And your mom gave you good advice. Sometimes my husband starts to cuddle me and I think ,oh how sweet, and then the cuddling turns to touching, and then I know what he wants. Men are weird creatures hehe. Oh I looked at your status, you have 5 year old. Sweet. That is good, it means you have had a healthy child. And you will have a healthy child again. I have 2 daughters, one is almost 13!! and the other is almost 7!!. I had the first when I was 20 and second at 26. Now that I am in my ealy 30s pregnancy is much harder on the body. Can you imagine my older daughter will be over 13 years older than my youngest. At least she can help me change diapers and help out. haha. She says she doesn't want to be anywhere near diapers, and that if its a boy she definitely refuses to change a boy. lol.

 

[aaronswoman79]

My friend said the other week, 'spooning always leads to forking' hahaha quite apt i think! i had my daughter quite young i was 18 years old and since left her not so nice father and married a beautiful man. he has a 8 year old boy from a previous relationship so we should in theory both be working hehe so there is hope just taking a verrrry long time! its amazing live in babysitter right there for you she will fall in love with her sibling and do anything needed i bet you! does she know about the min a boys nappy is off out comes pee, i cant tell you how mant times my nephew has peed on me! x

oh i know that one all too well, its a state of depression you know your grieving. i felt very guilty for a ridiculous reason and they dont get that sort of thing. i dont get a cuddle if they want anything other than 'play' time or prompted! eghhhh men indeed! i just think positive to be positive to make positive happen. what your mood generates can effect EVERY thing conscious or not... i am a great believer in the power of the mind. my mum always said unhappy momma unhappy household! Thinking of you ladies xxx

Geegirl and jess ugh men! Im considered lazy annoyin and my husband is telling me im pushing him away I cant cook n clean like I,did and they just dont,get it. Glad urs appologized jess and urs is kinda understanding geegirl. Mine shows no emotion and he doesnt hug unless he wants something. Its annoying!

Amen to that geegirl. And your mom gave you good advice. Sometimes my husband starts to cuddle me and I think ,oh how sweet, and then the cuddling turns to touching, and then I know what he wants. Men are weird creatures hehe. Oh I looked at your status, you have 5 year old. Sweet. That is good, it means you have had a healthy child. And you will have a healthy child again. I have 2 daughters, one is almost 13!! and the other is almost 7!!. I had the first when I was 20 and second at 26. Now that I am in my ealy 30s pregnancy is much harder on the body. Can you imagine my older daughter will be over 13 years older than my youngest. At least she can help me change diapers and help out. haha. She says she doesn't want to be anywhere near diapers, and that if its a boy she definitely refuses to change a boy. lol.

Hey hon, wow you are sooo young. Iv'e got 10 years over you. lol. I also left the father of my 1st child (he was evil, literally), and I went on to marry a great man. I guess we have something in common. Oh and I have no idea about changing little boys. lol. Have never changed one. If I do indeed have a boy, it will be very interesting. hehe. I will be sure to wear goggles when I change him. lol.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Wonderful news jessica! Sending positive sticky vibes ur way!!!

Hey hon thanks, I just realized something, you signature says my name is arronswomen, it sounds like my husband has a lot of mistresses. lol. Thought it was cute and funny. Anyways, thx for the positive vibes, I really need them right now, and so glad that your ultrasound was awesome and you saw your little bundle of joy moving. Have any intuitions or feelings about what you are having? Right now I am so filled with worry, I can't even think of that. I just want a healthy baby, girl or boy.

 

[TTCSecrets]

Jess i love the charting! Actually couldnt imagine TTC without it now and im only on 2nd cycle charting lol!! Well worth the money for vip access with all the fertility info!!

Well i thought i was close to o but i just did an opk and its lighter than it was yesterday so i think it may be like last month where i had two surges, and that ended in AF so not hopeful about this month!


Hope all you ladies are well.. Jess brill news at doctors ay!!
Jen Laura hope bumps are okay!

Geegirl Kaylee how are you?

Horsey Angel how are u ?

Bethany we are missing you! Hope youre alright xxx

Anyone else ive missed?

Im just sat on here watching the soaps and snuggled in the duvet while DH cares to my every whim haha! xxxx