ttc after a d&c

[xoxo4angel]

Geegirl ~ Hurray for FS appointment. I hope they can give you the answers you need! Temping...well, I have to set an alarm to wake me up daily to take it. It took me about a week to get the hang of it!

Jen ~ So glad you got to see your lo...I bet you are on now...get your rest though, I am sure it was difficult to sleep last night.

Jess ~ Your HCG more than doubling is amazing! Happy and Healthy 8 months to you! Come on Thursday!

Sorry DH's are being a pain...we wouldn't love them if they weren't though. Their differences are most likely what attracted us to them. Falling pregnant after a loss can be very trying on a couple, whether your LO is in there growing or an eggy waiting to hatch. for those of us ttc and to those who are leading the way with their bumps!

 

[geegirl]

ohh i know the evil, we had to be moved to a secret women's refuge and move cities away from friends and family, lucky i now know he is over 200 miles away and frankly given up on us! i have an old soul i think! yh only 2 years ago was my first boy experience was educating to say the least many more folds than little girls haha! i honestly dont know what i would do witha little boy :/ eekkk! x ps. glad you got out of your situation i know how hard it can be xx

My friend said the other week, 'spooning always leads to forking' hahaha quite apt i think! i had my daughter quite young i was 18 years old and since left her not so nice father and married a beautiful man. he has a 8 year old boy from a previous relationship so we should in theory both be working hehe so there is hope just taking a verrrry long time! its amazing live in babysitter right there for you she will fall in love with her sibling and do anything needed i bet you! does she know about the min a boys nappy is off out comes pee, i cant tell you how mant times my nephew has peed on me! x

oh i know that one all too well, its a state of depression you know your grieving. i felt very guilty for a ridiculous reason and they dont get that sort of thing. i dont get a cuddle if they want anything other than 'play' time or prompted! eghhhh men indeed! i just think positive to be positive to make positive happen. what your mood generates can effect EVERY thing conscious or not... i am a great believer in the power of the mind. my mum always said unhappy momma unhappy household! Thinking of you ladies xxx

Geegirl and jess ugh men! Im considered lazy annoyin and my husband is telling me im pushing him away I cant cook n clean like I,did and they just dont,get it. Glad urs appologized jess and urs is kinda understanding geegirl. Mine shows no emotion and he doesnt hug unless he wants something. Its annoying!

Amen to that geegirl. And your mom gave you good advice. Sometimes my husband starts to cuddle me and I think ,oh how sweet, and then the cuddling turns to touching, and then I know what he wants. Men are weird creatures hehe. Oh I looked at your status, you have 5 year old. Sweet. That is good, it means you have had a healthy child. And you will have a healthy child again. I have 2 daughters, one is almost 13!! and the other is almost 7!!. I had the first when I was 20 and second at 26. Now that I am in my ealy 30s pregnancy is much harder on the body. Can you imagine my older daughter will be over 13 years older than my youngest. At least she can help me change diapers and help out. haha. She says she doesn't want to be anywhere near diapers, and that if its a boy she definitely refuses to change a boy. lol.

Hey hon, wow you are sooo young. Iv'e got 10 years over you. lol. I also left the father of my 1st child (he was evil, literally), and I went on to marry a great man. I guess we have something in common. Oh and I have no idea about changing little boys. lol. Have never changed one. If I do indeed have a boy, it will be very interesting. hehe. I will be sure to wear goggles when I change him. lol.

 

[geegirl]

think an alarm is a good idea! yes bring on the 30th woooo! x

Geegirl ~ Hurray for FS appointment. I hope they can give you the answers you need! Temping...well, I have to set an alarm to wake me up daily to take it. It took me about a week to get the hang of it!

Jen ~ So glad you got to see your lo...I bet you are on now...get your rest though, I am sure it was difficult to sleep last night.

Jess ~ Your HCG more than doubling is amazing! Happy and Healthy 8 months to you! Come on Thursday!

Sorry DH's are being a pain...we wouldn't love them if they weren't though. Their differences are most likely what attracted us to them. Falling pregnant after a loss can be very trying on a couple, whether your LO is in there growing or an eggy waiting to hatch. for those of us ttc and to those who are leading the way with their bumps!

 

[geegirl]

well thankyou, speaking to you ladies have cheered me up a great deal hope you are happy and healthy x

Jess i love the charting! Actually couldnt imagine TTC without it now and im only on 2nd cycle charting lol!! Well worth the money for vip access with all the fertility info!!

Well i thought i was close to o but i just did an opk and its lighter than it was yesterday so i think it may be like last month where i had two surges, and that ended in AF so not hopeful about this month!


Hope all you ladies are well.. Jess brill news at doctors ay!!
Jen Laura hope bumps are okay!

Geegirl Kaylee how are you?

Horsey Angel how are u ?

Bethany we are missing you! Hope youre alright xxx

Anyone else ive missed?

Im just sat on here watching the soaps and snuggled in the duvet while DH cares to my every whim haha! xxxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

I am going to watch a movie now...Marvel's The Avengers (hope it isn't odd that I'm a fan. I grew up with 2 older brothers...) My DH isn't into Marvel Comic based movies, so now is my opportunity to lounge on the sofa and take it in! Thinking of you all! xoxo

 

[TTCSecrets]

Glad youre all okay... Just watching the soaps and it seems everyone is getting pregnant or just had a baby lol! Oh dear.... And im not sure if my new ticker is motivating me or depressing me lol :/ Hmmm xxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Im not sure if they sell pre seed over here in uk, might be worth me getting some because i dont seem to have alot unless i look for it if that makes sense xxx

 

[lilesMom]

im still catching up but im gonna forget everythign if i dont post something now
think i may be gettin abby brain i donno if its too early r not although while ttc i had it abit too so maybe obsessed brain ha ha xxxxxxxxxx

jen give ur hubby a kick in hte ass, they all need it from time to time.
he doesnt understand whats its like to be preg and so sick nearly all the time.
so u gotta make him xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
i had a roll for dinner with ham and cheese, u would swear i had a 4 course meal, im anusoues and the burps that r coming from me sound like a trucker ( no offence to truckers just trying to think of a manly man )

angel , that sounds great, ur pkan i mean hoep its painless as well for u ,is it supposed to be ok? xxxxxxxxxx only thing i heard is that soooo many people get preg within 3 months of gettin it done , so fx for u sweetie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
cant wait for ur bfp xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

jess hope ur good sweetie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx il prob read ur results a si go on xxxxxxxx

amy , love and hugs, glad work wasnt too bad, distraction prob best.
fx for natural and pain free as poss for u xxxxxxxxxx love u xxxxxxxx

geegirl and kaylee, hey girls , long time no talk
if ur having trouble looking up posts, all the ones u have previously posted on are in your 'userCp' tab at the top of ur baby and bump home page xxx
and seconding angel , any probs with abbreviation just holler, we al had to learn um and some of um seem silly till someone explains um xxxxxxxxxx
welcome again and fx for bfps all round xxxxxxxxxx

tasha hope u had a lovely rest sweetie xxx

i have 2 more pages to read , by time im done typing this il prob have 4 more to read ha ha xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
to all xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

I am going to watch a movie now...Marvel's The Avengers (hope it isn't odd that I'm a fan. I grew up with 2 older brothers...) My DH isn't into Marvel Comic based movies, so now is my opportunity to lounge on the sofa and take it in! Thinking of you all! xoxo

i love films like this, my fave films r the xmen ones, lethal wepons, shawshank redemption...... all kinda boyish films.
and i have 5 sis and 6 bro, i just prefer actiony films
romantic com not really my thing
enjoy xx

 

[lilesMom]

Im not sure if they sell pre seed over here in uk, might be worth me getting some because i dont seem to have alot unless i look for it if that makes sense xxx

they sell it in 2 stores in cork os if we have it, u def have it.
google stockists xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
do u have sam mc cauley chemists? they do it here xxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

i still donno bout work guys cos i went to my doc for letter and to get bloods sone today but i was there for nearly 2 hrs cos there were loads of people there and when i came out was too late to call my boss, il ring tomor . kind of nervous which is silly
either way isnt the end of the world

 

[aaronswoman79]

geegirl, all I can say is wow about what you had to go through, so glad you got away from him. My ex was also a psycho. After I had the baby, he admitted to me that he had killed someone. Didn't know whether to believe it or not, but that was the end of my relationship. He did keep trying to get into our lives. He almost killed me when I was pregnant, he brutally abused me.. brutally. I left him several times, but he always crept back. I can make a movie from what I went through with this guy. Thank God my daughter made it through the pregnancy, and he eventually got his. I found out in late 2006, that he was arrested for being a serial rapist. He got convicted of raping several women, threatening them with a deadly weapon and the list of convictions goes on. He in now spending 50 years to life in prison. He will get out the soonest when he is in his mid to late 80s. I always wondered if he would someday get punished for the anguish he put me through, well he did, and that chapter of my life had been closed forever. My daughter will never know him, and will always call my husband her daddy. My husband came into her life, when she was 3 and has always been her father.

 

[Kaylee44]

Hi girls, thanks again for the well wishes.. cramping still today but sstill waiting to pass. Im at work and its been nice to kind of keep my mind of off things a bit but hte cramps def remind me of what is going on right.. hope you all are doing well and have a good day/night.

Hang in there. Tough to have the cramps and bleeding. I've had a lot today and yesterday, but last time I had a missed miscarriage and it's definitely better passing naturally. You'll recover quickly and the holidays are a great time to try again. There will be a lot of love in the air!

 

[lilesMom]

my god jess thank god u escaped that psycho , god , scary xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

[Hang in there. Tough to have the cramps and bleeding. I've had a lot today and yesterday, but last time I had a missed miscarriage and it's definitely better passing naturally. You'll recover quickly and the holidays are a great time to try again. There will be a lot of love in the air!

kaylee u r a sweetie, sorry u had to go through this twice xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx fx for fast bfp for u hon and sticky bean xxxxxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

I agree with that, the holidays are definitely a great time for love making !! I think thats why me and DH have been at it like we've just met for the past week, been talking about christmas and getting some decorations up and stuff

Actually feel so happy at the moment, if we take out the fact im still not pg, everything else other than ttc i am really happy WOuld be better if all us girls were sorted , just wish i could fast forward through all this and get us all to our safe healthy LO's...

Girls random question, completely unrelated to anything, but if i dont fall pg before christmas so i can buy him his personalised *youre gonna be a dad* m and m's.. What can i buy him ? He has aftershaves that ive bought the past few christmasses and birthdays, and if i buy him anything edible i end up eating it, clothes he is too picky... In fact, i dont know what to buy for any of the family :/ Mum,gramma,sister :/ xxxxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

Paused the movie while I make myself dinner. Laura ~ I LOVE X-Men too! Wolverine is yummy Sorry you are still in limbo about work, but as you've said, it isn't the end of the world. I am sure things will work out in your favor. Is your next scan this Thursday or the following?

Jess ~ I agree with Laura...Thank the Lord you were able to get away from your ex and that he is serving time permanently for his evil ways. Reading about what he is incarcerated for has given me chills! So glad you got yourself and your daughter away from that life! You are a brave woman!

Tash ~ You cannot rule the M&Ms out yet! You have to stay positive...maybe the power of persuasion is the trick? Bummer you didn't get your +ve OPK yet...keep poas doll and decorating for the Holidays! It will happen!

 

[lilesMom]

angel yup wolverine escaped the ugly stick alright
yeah im relaxing about work, it can only go 2 ways and both would be ok
scan is thurs week, doh! a bit of a ways to go yet.
but im kinda treating these 2 weeks as a bit of a hol now cos i should be goin back to work and things arent as up in the air as they were
what u making for dinner? nosy laura

tash , hurray for xmas shopping, the shops look so cute dont they

 

[jen435]

Jess ill fix that e to an a. Im sooo sorry didnt realize that. Ill have to get on a pc first. so glad u saved urself from evil ex. U are very brave sweety.

Hope all goes well for u laura with work I have a feeling ill be lossing my job soon with no collecting but my babys safety comes first.

natasha movie tickets dinner gift cards are always nice. I always get my parents their fav coffees & teas as a gift also. Always can give fanasy handsoaps from bath n body works never have enough of them. Candles are nice too add also. For dh men are hard. Does he like sports? Hobbies?? something around the house he owns u can add too? I bought a grill cover for mine last yr.

 

[lilesMom]

tash i forgot to say, me and oh have been together a long itme so now what we do is set a price limit and we tell each other what we want
this yr i want a voucher for facial and/or massage and oh wants of all things a ferret finder he always wants weird things last yr it was a metal detector

for girls i think meal vouchers or salon wouchers never go astray
but i do think perfume and sets r good too
happy hsopping,
i have some of my shopping done too, gonna try and do it befor ei go back to work me thinks, be easier on me.

jen thats awfull about ur job, i hoep u dont lose it but still ur right u and LO r more important than any job xxxxx