ttc after a d&c

[Lozzy1985]

They were very regular 28 day cycles but for last 2 months they have been between 28 to 35 days that's why im reluctant to test my OH is desperate for us to have a child and I feel like I'm letting him down all the time xxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

any update? u take it? xxxx
fingers crossed for u hon xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

They were very regular 28 day cycles but for last 2 months they have been between 28 to 35 days that's why im reluctant to test my OH is desperate for us to have a child and I feel like I'm letting him down all the time xxxxx

aw babe u r so not lettin him down, u know in ur head that that doesnt sound right xxxx there r 2 of ye tryin to make a baby and its more than likely not happening because ur body wasnt ready yet after the d and e .
it took me 3 afs to get a fairly normal af xxxx its better to wait a little till ur body is ready rather than get preg straight away and have a not sticky bean xxxxx dont out blame on urself hon, u r blameless, these things unfort happen, i dont know why bad htings happen to good people but they do and we just have to keep on tryint til we get there , :Hugs: sweetie, xxxxxxxxxx
let go of guilt and blame hon, cos u r in no way at fault here xxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

every singel one of us has had funky cycles after d and e , xxxxx but htey do go back to normal xxxx hoping u get ur bfp honey, xxxx
ps if u dont know any abbrevaitions just ask, we rused to um no, im not sure if u r xxxxxxxxxx

 

[Lozzy1985]

Thankyou so much for talking to me I'm slowly getting used to the abbreviations but stuck on bfp?? Lol think this must be the worst bday ever xxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

bfp is big fat positve on ur preg test that is, xxxx
we all have our low days sweetie, happy bday , soz u havent company for it, but u got me xxxxxx
it really would be the best present on ur bday, keeping my fx for u xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

Hi ladies! It's Hump Day!

Jen ~ Hope you were able to finally get some rest. Sorry you have to work today, I hope you get through it!

Tash ~ AF is still visiting me...she needs to wrap things up! I wonder if the people who call in to you realize you don't make the rules! Fx you have a peaceful day. As for the OPKs...as dark or darker is key to reading the lines. Can you post it here for us to look at? I'd BD just in case...I'll be anxious to see your temp tomorrow. Oh and I figured out how to post the full chart in your signature, let me see if I can find it again!

Amy ~ Half or whole I hope today is going along alright for you. I also hope you managed to get some rest last night. Where is that friggin when you need her!

Jess ~ Fx you find yourself on today. Hope your girls and DH rally while you are on bed rest!

Laura ~ To work or not to work...I'm all for not working and getting paid! I hope everything works out in you and your LO's best interest!

Kaylee, Lamb and Geegirl...how are you ladies today? Wishing you all the best on this journey and I hope we can be of assistance.

Lozzy ~ I too am sorry for you losses. You've come to the right place for support...hope today turnS out to be a Happy Birthday for you Don't be intimidated by those mean BFNs (big fat negative) on a pregnancy test! Either they are A. Wrong and you test tomorrow OR B. Signify another opportunity for you and your OH to try to make the perfect rainbow!

Horsey

My DH comes home in 2 more sleeps...the same day as my HSG, which I've oddly stopped looking forward to! Wish I had made it for Mon so DH could go with me! Guess I'll put my big girl panties on and go it alone!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Found it Tash ~ On FF under your chart click share. Then "Copy" the bbCode Code under Chart Thumbnail, not Simple Link. That I believe is the way for your full chart to be seen in your signature. Good Luck...I like your TTC Journey Ticker! Lord only knows what I've put in so far! I dare not keep track!

 

[lilesMom]

sorry u r goin to hsg alone sweetie , xxx take pocket ninjas with u xxxxxxxx

 

[Lozzy1985]

Thanku to lilesmom and xoxo4angel for the welcome today still not done the test yet these odd little Crampy pains I keep thinking are the start of my period and dnt wana test incase negative but want to to c if positive so I can have a happy bday coz it so isn't right now xxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

hoep things work out for u honey, keep us updated, xxxxxxx i gotta go for now but il be abck later tonight xxxx all d girls on here r great xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

sorry u r goin to hsg alone sweetie , xxx take pocket ninjas with u xxxxxxxx

Pocket my saving grace! I was told it isn't as painful the endometrial biopsy (that was AWFUL!), so that is a bit of a relief. Seriously, the things we go through to have a LO!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Thanku to lilesmom and xoxo4angel for the welcome today still not done the test yet these odd little Crampy pains I keep thinking are the start of my period and dnt wana test incase negative but want to to c if positive so I can have a happy bday coz it so isn't right now xxxxx

I too hope your day gets better. I'm assuming it is later in the day for you, so maybe it wouldn't hurt to wait to test until tomorrow morning. Waiting to test is the tough part, but the potential reward is worth it! Fingers crossed for you. (By the way, I was told cramps are quite normal early in pregnancy...so it could be either.)

 

[mommylov]

Hi Lozzy welcome and sorry for your losses. Im going through my 2nd mc at the moment and understand your pain. My first was a missed mc and I had to ahve a d&c as well. This one seems to be resolving itself naturally but I am going in for testing this week just to make sure. You came to the right place for some great support.

Hi girls, hope everyone is doing well. I managed to get a decent amount of sleep last night but still waking up in tears. I did have an interesting dream last night.... I had 2 kids, 1 girl and 1 boy and theier names where Mason and Aubrey (Not what I thought they would be but I love it). The dream was so clear that I woke up this morning like I had them and they were sleeping in the other rooms. Obv I was heartbroken to see empty bedrooms but hoping that the dream was a sign of whats to come and not of what Ive lost. Today is Indian New Years too so maybe thought they played a role in the dream too. Started bleeding a little heavier today so maybe Im on the verge of passing any day... I sure hope so.

Love you dolls and wishing everyone well!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Hi everybody. Hope all you ladies are going good today. Amy I am thinking about you and hope that you are feeling better today. I send you hugs and kisses .

I just got my hcg levels back, they went up from 3189 (I believe) to 7048, so they more than doubled. My urinalysis came back fine but...... my Progesterone was only 11.5. And the nurse had no idea what that meant. She didn't know anything about Progesterone, and this is a obgyn nurse. I told her to have my doctor call me as soon as possible because by what I am reading 11.5 is a bit low for a 5 week pregnancy. These people here at kaiser seem to think that Progesterone have no play at all in your pregnancy, and half don't even know how it can affect pregnancy. So, I am going to talk to my doctor hopefully later today because I don't want to play around with this low progesterone. I have a feeling she is going to tell me that my progesterone is not too low. I am sick of babysitting these people.

 

[xoxo4angel]

So my pregnant doppelgänger (DH's bestfriend's gf who was due 3 days before me) is in active labor...what is this gutted feeling I am having? Why does this happen when DH is away. Aww shucks, I want to be sad, hurt, but there is a new LO coming into this world. *sigh* Why do I always take the high road...Dear Lord, I have been really patient and am doing all I know how. I know you are busy, but when you get a second (preferably in the next 8 days) can you let my body have a good egg and have DH's swimmers meet up with it? 37 years ago a woman asked you to give her a girl, she said she'd name her Angel, well that's me, I'm Angel. xoxo

Phew...sorry. Had a moment...

 

[xoxo4angel]

Amy ~ What an amazing dream! Happy New Year! Good to hear your flow is getting heavier. Fx the Dr tells you everything is clear in the next couple of days!

Jess ~ Stay on those Dr's! Glad HCG is up there...what a relief.

 

[TTCSecrets]

Angel hope youre okay with dh being away!! AND GO AWAY AF FOR GODS SAKES!! Leave us all alone!!
Amy hope youre bearing up okay hunny xxx
Jen Laura hey girls how are u both?
The rest of you how are u all??

Lozzy hey and welcome!! I am so sorry for your loss but Lilesmum is right, all the girls on here are great! If u want to chit chat, moan, cry , or have a laugh we're your girls!! We have all found alot of comfort on here god knows i have! And take the test!!! I know its upsetting, we all do, im on fourth cycle since d and c and ive seen more BFN's ( big fat negatives on preg tests ) than ive had hot dinners ! It gets easier, especially when the girls on here comfort you with each BFN! HOnestly you will be fine, doesnt feel like it now, but we are all here, theres always at least one of us on here, we're all on different time zones so thats quite good

All of u girls i love u all dearly!

Oh angel, im quite interested to see what temp does tomorrow, but it did rise last month and drop again and then i had another pos opk and it spiked again and stayed up so thinking ov will come late again this month Thanks for info on how to show chart i think i may do that soon!! xxxxxxxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Jess i see u online! How are u today? Any news? U feeling better? xxx

 

[aaronswoman79]

Jess i see u online! How are u today? Any news? U feeling better? xxx

Hey sweety!! How are you hon! Missed you. My hcg levels more than doubled from Sunday, so they are 7048, but.... my Progesterone is only 11.5 and the docs are brushing it off, but I will push for the progesterone suppositories or injections. I have a feeling they are going to treat me like I am a crazy woman, and try to refuse to give them to me. I go to Kaiser Hospitals here in the states. They are suppose to be good with preventive medicine and taking the correct measures, but I am starting to question them, since I talked to a nurse who had no idea about Progesterone, and this was a obgyn nurse. correct me if I am wrong but there people have to go to school right? You would think somewhere on the line they learned about Progesterone??