ttc after a d&c

[lilesMom]

angel glad u and dh r good again xxxxxxxx

tash sorry ur temps are off but i know nothing about temps really so me looking would not help, sorry xxxxxxxx

amy it can take time but angel ir right if ur gut thinks its not right , then def best to check with ur doc , xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

yeah i think i just have too many unanswered qs at the mo, with work and scan thurs etc.... i like to know where im at and whats comin up, be easier again after this week xxxxxxxx
love and hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx to all x

 

[xoxo4angel]

It seems like you have a lot on your plate Laura...bound to cause anxiety. xoxo May this week bring you the answers you are looking for Cannot believe you are 12 weeks! I hope you can post a pic of your scan for us! Fx!

 

[lilesMom]

thanks angel ive been a ninny yest, im gettin back to normal now
im just gonna stop tryin to claw back control cos i cant have it anyway
what will be will be, and whatever happens , will be for d best in long run. xx
hope u had a nice weekend hon.

 

[lilesMom]

will def post a pic, il take a pic of my pics and put um up xxxx
12 weeks has gone fast but slow at times ifykwim xxxxxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

12 weeks can feel like an eternity once you've been through what we have! Looking forward to seeing the pics. Sleep well.

 

[TTCSecrets]

Angel i know, temps are being odd.. think im having anvoluatory this month, oh well least weve had practice with bding lol , getting the stamina up for next few monts of trying lol!

i know laura wow 12 weeks ! CAnt wait to see the scan xxx

Hope all u girls are okay xxxx

 

[lilesMom]

amy how u holdin up hon , u go to doc xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

Good morning (evening) ladies!

I'm with Laura, how are you today Amy? Has the bleeding let up? Thinking of you.

Tash. We don't know if you are having an annovulatory cycle...temping isn't always accurate because there is plenty of room for human error! Just keep BDing to keep your bases, or should I eggys, covered!

Jen ~ hope the 12 week mark finds you well! Ready for Thanksgiving?

Jess ~ Still on bed rest? Are your girls excited about the baby?

Laura ~ Do you get blood results for thyroid before Thursday? Fx for you!

and to the rest of you!

 

[mommylov]

Hi Girls, hope everyone is well...

Bleeding is still there but I thought it was tappering off last night then it came back but this morning it seems to be going away or atleast getting lighter so Im glad. Went to bed with a migrane last night and still have a but of a head ache this morning. I know I am a grumpy pants this morning because Colleguezilla didnt really do anything but just the sight of her this morning annoys me.. isnt that horrible? Going through a mc during the holidays and getting a migrane just makes me want to wave my white flag already. I should be planing out my nursery and getting ready for the baby in 3 months!

Anywho, enough Debbie downer mode from me.. hope you ladies are doing well and lots of love and hugs to you all!

 

[mommylov]

So she just snapped her fingers at me to get my attention.... where is my stick today?

 

[xoxo4angel]

Sorry Amy...nothing worse than having to deal with Colleaguezilla during a time like this! Let the emoticons deal with her:
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If only coleaguezilla knew what we were up to! Hope the day is getting easier for you I read somewhere it can take 4-6 weeks for bleeding/spotting to ease up after a mc. I really hope you are on the tail-end!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Hey girls!

Amy, bloody colleaguezilla! BLAH tell her to bugger off, how rude, clicking at u n stuff.. liek you are an animal :/ What a weird woman! I am glad that your bleeding is tapering off, suppose you feel at least the end is near xxxxxxx

Angel yeah temps are still all over the place, dont have a pretty chart this month at all lol!!

How are u all? xxx

 

[mommylov]

LOL Angel, I love the emoticons! Thanks Tash!

To make matters even worse, I told you girls aboutmy friend that was due a month before us and how we recvd her babyshower invite a couple of weeks ago? Well I was trying to go on her registry and pick things out for her and was talking to dh about it. He was like "Are you sure thats enough? Should we get this or that?". I finally responded with "LOOK, Im done talking about her and her baby. I cant handle this right now. Im currently bleeding out what wouldve benn our 2nd child. Of all pregnancies, hers is not one that I can talk about right now. I love her and want to get them a gift but really I can only handle so much right now" to where he responded with "Im sorry I didnt think about that. Send me the registry info and Ill take care of it ". I love him.. I have the absolute BEST hubby but sometimes get sad that I have to remind him of things liek to stop dragging on that convo. None the less he is taking care of it now and is the bestest!

Where is that fastforward button life that I was looking for...

 

[TTCSecrets]

I truly know what you mean ames, i really do Big cuddles xx

I am struggling, eberyone is getting pregnant, people on soap dramas i watch religiously, people i know, even my fish are pregnant and i just sit there like Dont look, dont look..Even one of chriss friends came round a few days ago and was like my baby girl was born today, and i was like oh..great, and just stormed off, felt awful but i heard chris remind him and he was sorry but i was still upset , im so scared of getting pg again im like, i dont want to go for any scans or midwife appointments because as soon as i do, its real, and i dont want to have to go for scans and then something bd happen.. My positive mental attitude has gone the past few dys, especially since ovulation just does not seem to be occuring :/ And i have no idea when af is due, any time between 28th Nov and 3rd Dec, so im a bit like, oh god just hurry up and get it over with :/ partly so that af is done with before christmas, cant be doing with that emotion over christmas :/

Ames i completely understand (sorry for my selfish rant there) but i truly hope we can all just get our rainbows soon, its got to happen, i see so many girls getting pregnant , im not saying they dont deserve it, but maybe not want it as much as i do, thats a better way to put it, and i feel myself looking up at the sky and saying.. SEriously? Am i that bad of a person?? xx

 

[lilesMom]

love and hugs to all, xxxx

amy hope it gets better for u real soon xxxx, hurray for dh, i think we will always have to remind um of stuff cos they r male but at least he responds properly when u do xxxxxxxxxxxxx hoep ur holding up alright chick xxxxxxx

tash sorry hon ur struggling at the mo, i know how u feel, when u r ttc it seems like the world and his dog or in ur case fish r preg , xxx sometimes things just get on top of us but try to hold onto the fact that u can get preg and will, xxxxxxxx soon i hope xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx soon enough for m and m s xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

angle hi honey, hope u rwell and enjoying dh being home,
how r u chick ? xxxxxxxx

jen hi hope u and bumpy r well xxxxxxx

u too jess xxxxxxxxx

hi to all other girls, where ye gone, ye r very quiet, hope ye all ok xxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Dont be sorry about venting! Thats what we are here for... You girls do and can relate and thats why I love talking to you. I hate it when those that cant relate, talk about something that has NOTHING to do with what we are going rhough... that aggrevates me. We are all in this TOGETHER and I know that we will get there. I like what Angel said, that when it takes a little longer to get pregnant that maybe it means that our LO's are just being picky to make sure the right one comes along. God forbid anyone has to go through this let alone more than once so Im really thinking that your perfect little bean is in the making. Everything does happen for a reason... Im thinking that my 2 mc made me change to a dr that truely cares about me and my family. Maybe this wait is to make sure things happen at the right time for you too. Im praying that it happens soon hun! xoxo

 

[mommylov]

Thanks Laura...My "thanks" button is gone so THANK YOU! Ya, he is usually very good about things but every once in a while he slips. No one is perfect but he is perfect for me in that he gets me. It may be too that he thought I was stronger than I really am. I try and stay strong and keep going so sometimes when I just cry or have emotional outbursts like that, Im sure in his head he is thinking "OKAAAY, she is not as ready for this convo as I thought she might be". Bless him because he does try and never gets angry or mad... I wouldve been like "OK, I didnt know jeez! You dont have to get snippy!" whereas he said "Im so sorry, I really didnt think about that. Love you". Bestill my heart... god knows he's what keeps me going.

 

[lilesMom]

thank god u have proper support chick, what u r goin through is so hard , u need ur rock xxxxxxx
i think everyone thought i got over mine faster too, the brave face is good in a way but impossible to keep on 24-7 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
love and hugs chick xxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

went to my doc again today,
she wa shte one who was adamant i needed lgiht duties in work, but work said no they dont have um for me.
so now she says i will be fine if i want to go back but its my call.
she sadi ask um in the hosp too on thurs.
im not sure what to do, i think i may try go back nad if i get sick again from chemicals r feel pains then i can come back out again......
il wait and see what hosp say to me on thurs anyway but financially and mentally im prob better off goin back and being occupied so long as my body can handle it
she reckons it will not do baby any harm.
what do ye reckon? its weird choice, im not sure whats right.
but im not paincky over choice anymore cos i know i have options xxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Thanks girls, im just getting impatient, i had to take my *time since mc* ticker off my profile because everytime i looked at it it just reminded me of how long i been trying, time seems to be flying by but going so slow at the same time.. Im so fed up... i feel like moaning mirtle, but i just cant help it, i dont want to tell dh how i feel because he thinks im doing so well , i mean yeah i put on a smile some days and i chat away to people who chat to me, but as soon as i walk away i feel my whole face drop, as if i was being fake, if that makes sense, like i want to make people think im okay so it makes me think im okay.. And im just sat here like, i really need a baby in my belly now :/ Cmon angel baby ive had enough waiting, ive done my share, its been 15 months and 1 mc, ive done my fair share of waiting and hurt and upest over bfns.. xxxx