ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

Hmmm thats a tough call. If she is saying that the chemicals wont harm the baby at all and you are confortable with that, then I say going back to work should be ok. Even though they say that you can do full loads of work, I would still try and take it as easy as you can. Hopefully the people you work with wopuld understand and help try and keep you and lo safe. Keeping busy def tends to help the mind since with hormones going all nuts youre bound to think about EVERYTHING if you are home alone all day. Thats just me though... busy= staying out of trouble for me lol

 

[mommylov]

Thanks girls, im just getting impatient, i had to take my *time since mc* ticker off my profile because everytime i looked at it it just reminded me of how long i been trying, time seems to be flying by but going so slow at the same time.. Im so fed up... i feel like moaning mirtle, but i just cant help it, i dont want to tell dh how i feel because he thinks im doing so well , i mean yeah i put on a smile some days and i chat away to people who chat to me, but as soon as i walk away i feel my whole face drop, as if i was being fake, if that makes sense, like i want to make people think im okay so it makes me think im okay.. And im just sat here like, i really need a baby in my belly now :/ Cmon angel baby ive had enough waiting, ive done my share, its been 15 months and 1 mc, ive done my fair share of waiting and hurt and upest over bfns.. xxxx

I did the EXACT same thing babe. My tickers came off too. We gotta stay strong... for our lo's. A worried, stressed out mommy doesnt make for a nice tummy for baby

 

[lilesMom]

oh tash , big hugs, i know the feeling i remember typing here some where, months ago that i felt fake happy and wasnt sure if id ever feel real happy again. xxx
i just kept up the fake happy til real happy sneaked back in xxxxxxxxx
but u need some people to not be fake happy with and thats what we for xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx hugs honey xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

thanks amy, occupied is better for me too so long as its safe xxx
il see what hosp says on thurs and make decision after that . thanks honey xxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Im really hoping they have something nice and safe for you Laura... praying for you!

tash, yes, REAL happy is much better and I really feel like everyone here is genuine ans sincere. We love you lots... I love all of you ladies loads and wish we would all just be happy and healthy and in a good place.

 

[lilesMom]

soon we will i hope amy, we have had enough crap, its time for a big long spell of good news for us all on this thread xxxxxxxxxxxx

ur new doc wil help u and things will be ok. xxxxxxxxx

tash , angel, bethany and all others wating will get their bfp. xxxxxxxxx

jen, me and jess wil have happy healthy bumps. xxxxxxxxxx

please santy it all i want for xmas xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Im sorry for not asking how u all are how terrible of me ! Jen i hope u feel better when uve made the right decision as to go to work or not Ames im sorry you are still having to go through this still! Just want your bleeding to stop for you!

I know, i keep thinking that happy will come and stay, but im like okay one day, upset the next, like a zombie the day after and today i just feel numb, ive just had enough, im sick of preparing for AF, like even now, ive realised the main reason i use FF is to find out when next AF is due, i havent bought nay opks or hpts, i just cant be bothered with paying for heartache by buying all the hpts and opks, my chart is eratic so im literally thinking this month is a no goer...

I just want to wake up one morning, and be happy..

then last night i went on paranoia mode, i was so excited about chris getting me a puppy ... But then i thought, well, what if he thinks its a replacement for a baby? What if hes given up hope, what if thats why hes getting me a puppy, what if hes hoping i forget about having a baby What if he thinks im obsessed Im thinking so many things i feel awful I had that brown discharge and then now im getting pms symptoms xxxx

 

[mommylov]

Oh I dont think thats it hun... I think he wants to see you happy again and maybe the puppy with give you guys some peace and something to love and one day you rbaby will love too!

 

[TTCSecrets]

thanks ames, i know im probably over thinking stuff, genuine pms symptom... i dunno, i guess i just want it to happen now, but its like today, i went into asda n got bits of shopping and stocked up on knicker stickers, and when i got home i unpacked them and i was like.. im obviously not thinking im oing to get pg anytime soon if im stocking up on knicker stickers :/ i even walked straight past the family planning aisle and didnt bother buying opks :/.... Ill probably feel better tomorrow i guess, just today its so heart wrenching, and im getting irritated with chris today because he keeps asking whats wrong cos im quiet n i feel like he should just know ...i need to calm down i think :/ xxxx

 

[lilesMom]

i agree with amy natasha, i really think he is just gettin the puppy cos he thinks it is a good present that wil make u happy xxxxx
having choppy changy moods is completly normal chick i was the same, i could go a few days and think maybe im ok now after the loss, but then i could wake up floored again the next day xxxxxx not nice but totally normal xxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

thanks ames, i know im probably over thinking stuff, genuine pms symptom... i dunno, i guess i just want it to happen now, but its like today, i went into asda n got bits of shopping and stocked up on knicker stickers, and when i got home i unpacked them and i was like.. im obviously not thinking im oing to get pg anytime soon if im stocking up on knicker stickers :/ i even walked straight past the family planning aisle and didnt bother buying opks :/.... Ill probably feel better tomorrow i guess, just today its so heart wrenching, and im getting irritated with chris today because he keeps asking whats wrong cos im quiet n i feel like he should just know ...i need to calm down i think :/ xxxx

i have 6 r 7 seven different packs in my house , i got great satisfaction out of puttin um away in the spare room not to be used for a while, u will too honey very soon. xxxxxxx it doesnt mean u dont care r wont get preg, it just means htey were prob on offer r something, xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
we wil have yrs to use um after LO unfrotunately , ha ha xxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

I feel the same.. after I got pregnant the first time, I gave colleguezilla all my tampons in my desk drawer thinking I wasnt going to need them for a while... we will get there one day

 

[lilesMom]

I feel the same.. after I got pregnant the first time, I gave colleguezilla all my tampons in my desk drawer thinking I wasnt going to need them for a while... we will get there one day

soon i hope sweetie, i lit a candle for ye again today at a holy well. i do every monday , its near my docs xxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

gotta go on my t/mill, il be back xxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

I feel the same.. after I got pregnant the first time, I gave colleguezilla all my tampons in my desk drawer thinking I wasnt going to need them for a while... we will get there one day

soon i hope sweetie, i lit a candle for ye again today at a holy well. i do every monday , its near my docs xxxxxxxx

You are sooo sweet Laura, thank you so much for that!

 

[TTCSecrets]

thanks guys, and ive just started a random arguemen with him.. for no reason at all really... n i know that, but its just like, im so frustrated i cant just all of a sudden start being down about the fact im not pg because he will just be like oh i thought u were doing okay, whereas if i argue with him , at least i can vent my frustration, bad thing to do i know, but i think its how im dealing with it today.. then ill get into bed and cuddle up to him n say sorry n hopefully that will be forgiven... rahhh go away pms symptoms! or just hurry up af and come, but because i cant see o on my chart i have no idea when af is even go to come! GRR xxx

Hope u all okay, im just so blody tired too, dont think that helps, i lit a candle for u last night too ames, it was a rose scented one i bought with a rose picture on the glass jar its in cos reminded me of u because of ur dispay pic xxx

 

[mommylov]

awww tash! Does he know that you are PMSing? As much as we want our hubbys to just know whats going on... it isnt always a good thing. For a while there years ago, if I got annoyed with something my dh would say "Is it that time of the month?". I would get so made and would respond with "No, I dont need to have PMS to get annoyed with your clothes on the bathroom floor!".. men! heheheh but as they take us with our flaws we have to take them with thiers

 

[lilesMom]

tash dont go just on temps, didnt u say u had a patch of good ov cm?
i never temped and only opkd for a tiny bit but goin by my 'horny' patches and increased cm patches worked for me both times i got bfp. ur body knows when it is most fertile a lot of the time and gives us signs. some people get fake signs r dont get signs so they need opks and stuff, nothing wrong with that but if u do get signs listen to um and bd and u will get bfp xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
u said u bd a lt so u r covered honey, u r in with the ebst chance possible with lots of bd so lets keep our fingers crossed for u sweetie, ur not out til the ugly shows her mug xxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

angel where u at , we miss u xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

laura, i didnt have any ewcm, just a whole lot of watery cm cd7-cd13, and now its gone sticky and creamy... i bd alot, so much actually that im exhausted now, but i feel that i have to keep bding in case i havent o'd yet, i havent had any distinctive ov pains like i did last cycle either... i think im just having a bad day, i feel really impatient and ive just sat and had a cry and chris was like whats wrong, so i told him and he just kind of did that look as if to say * i want to tell u everything is going to be okay and it will happen when its ready but i know its not what u want to hear so i wont say anything at all* .. which i understand, but i feel really down today, i have apologised for trying to argue with him..

And ive just read a post on facebook where a girl has twins 3 months old and is pregnant again and u can tell its not wanted and shes asking for advice, and again, im like SERIOUSLY?!?! WHY NOT MAKE ME PREGNANT INSTEAD O HER? I ACTUALLY WANT ONE!! xxx