ttc after a d&c

[lilesMom]

hi guys, xxxxxxxxx

jen hope ur ok honey, thats awfull insurance may not cover it and about ur job xxxx
big hugs honey xxxxxxx hope ur holdin up ok, praying for u and bumpy xxxxxxxxxx

amy big hugs too sweetie xxxxxxxxx, sorry its not over for u yet, wish it would be so u can start to move on xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx meant in the nicest way xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

tash hurray for Ov bd , could be ur month sweetie, xxxxxxxxx hope so xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

jess we miss u xxxxxxxxxxxxx

hey lamb, how u doin hon? xxxxxxxxxxxhi and love to all.

nearly thurs thanskgiving and scan didnt realsie it was thanksgiving too

went to my meditation healing class tonight, it was amazing , i felt like i had been steam rollered after but in a good way. its the first week that i didnt cry for lile on the way home. i think ive just finally let her go. wil always love her but now im not sad when i think of her anymore, just happy she is happy xxxxxxxxxxxxx
love ye all xxxxxxxxxxxx



angel hope ur ok and scna went really well xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Tash, this is a first for me too. I didnt mc naturally the frst time either. No bleeding or cramps or anything, just no heartbeat and baby only measured 8 wks when it was my 10 wk scan So this is all new for me. Some people say they bleed for a while. My levels are going down. Last blood test showed my HCG at 19 so this week will hopefully show closer to 0. Im meeing with my dr on the 12/5 (in 2 weeks) but if I dont stop bleeding soon then I will def tell her before that. I would think they would want to do a scan to make sure that everything came out but I take it they have to wait until Im dont bleeding.

Laura, so glad you had a good class today and that you are in better spirits regarding your Lile. She is looking down on her mommy and little brother/sister with her heart filled with love. Im sure she is going to help you guys through this journey.

 

[TTCSecrets]

Yeah definitely ames. let them know before then if u still dont stop bleeding, or at least it should be tapering off and not still heavy!
I was the same, heart stopped beating, no cramps nobleeding no nothing, heart stopped beating two days before my 12 week scan Was terrible... So sorry for you ames ( I really am, will be thinking of u and wishing it will just go away for u xxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Hugs to you Im just so sad that we all had to endure such pain

You guys actually made me call so I left my nurse a voicemail so Ill just wait for her to call back and see what she says. It definitley has tappered off and is lighter than a few days ago but just not dark or brown like I want it to be. Its still red. Gets to brown but then goes back to red so that leads me to think its almost done. I asked the nurse on the voicemail just incase. So thanks for the nudge ladies to call!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Good glad yu have called! Just want to make sure youre okay xxx

 

[lilesMom]

i second natasha , glad u called amy, its more than likely normal but i wouldnt know either since i only had mmc too so.... better to check so we all can not worry xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx i knwo i have read lots of women saying it lasted a long while alright xxxxxx xxxxxxxxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

ive just been reading up on a miscarriage blog and most people who miscarried between 5 and 9 weeks had bleeding that lasted 4 weeks, so im sure there is nothing wrong ames but im glad you called doc anyway just to make sure!

Girls, we must get our positivity back, i understand we have all had terrible things happen, ames and jen are still going through a very tough time which i fully respect and appreciate, and we will all be okay... I know we will, we will be catching up on this forum in a few years talking about our babys and what mischief they are upto ! And i would like to say we will look back on these terrible conversations about the ordeals we have been through, but we wont, all we will be talking about is how happy we are and how far we've come! I promise this to you girls!

xxxxxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

Amy ~ Hope you hear that your experience is normal. My natural mc went on for about 9 days, so anything more than that is new to me.

Laura ~ Glad you are at peace with Lile...your relaxing class sounds AMAZING!

Tash ~ (sound effects and all!). Now we can watch your temp rise! Love the names you have planned out for your puppies!

Jen ~ Insurance I pray they come through for you...a mc due to an incompetent cervix that has been caught this early would be tragic! C-section is worth the prize in the end!

Horsey ~ hi.

My scan and bloods came in...I have a 13mm follie on the RIGHT side. Dr said with the size of my follies and the bloodwork I won't ovulate for another 4 or 5 days...she told me to keep poas and I can expect it to go +ve in 3 days. So I suppose I'll attempt to make a leftover turkey baby!

 

[lilesMom]

its great that u know angel and it is coming soon xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

tash ur right pma xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Thanks ladies! She called me back and said that it is normal but I shouldn't have heavy bleeding, cramping, or padding clots which I'm not so that's good. She said that if my bloodwork comes back after this week and my levels are not at 0, then she will do an ultrasound otherwise I should be in the clear so just have to wait. She did tell me that I could get my period right after miscarrying and if there is no break in between then its hard to tell but that might be the case.

Fx for you angel!!

 

[jen435]

Angel thats amazing and exciting!! Id bd tom and the day after then go at it everyday for a fee days. Good thing u had ur tube emptied!!

Amy i am glad u calle your obgyn. Awaiting her call recommendations.

Thank u ladies. No im not even protected by fmla because im part time amd we have less then 50 employees. Pa has no protection for small business employees. If doctor takes me out its practiclly me tellin my job i quit. Cant collect or anything and dentist doesnt have to hold my job bc he only has 5 employers and cant funtion without all of us. So state protects small offices in pa. Stinks but i already.callled state and asked. My boss doesnt even have yo give me maturnity leave unpaid. Hr can replaceme and not tell me. All well. Im more worried about my baby. I have to wait til dec 3 ugh to know anyyhing. Not happy my dh isnt being supportive making it harder. Plus im consyantly throwin up everywhere and he is tired of that even though im cleaning it up. All well im just fed up

 

[aaronswoman79]

Hi girls. Miss all of you. I just wanted to give a quick update. I thought I was miscarrying today because I spotted red once when I cleaned myself. Went to the er and checked hcg and did ultrasound. I got some promising news but a couple things make me paranoid. Now I am only measuring 5w 6d, I should be measuring 6w 0 or 1d according to last weeks scan. But this is where it gets weird. Last week they could only measure the gestational sac because it was too early to see anything else. This time they saw the yolk sac, fetal pole (baby) and the heartbeat measured 110 bpm. They first detected the heat beat on abdominal u/s and then on transvaginal u/s. So as to why I am measuring another 2 days behind?? I have no idea, but doc says that doesn't matter much because the fact that you can already see baby yolk sac and heartbeat means he/she has grown and that they got a the pic for another angle and by another u/s technician (at least that's what he says, so who knows). Another thing that worried me is that my hcg is no longer doubling. Last Tuesday it was 7,000 and almost a week later it is only 28,000. So it is no longer doubling. My goodness, I am so scared out of my mind. Don't know what to think of this pregnancy, am so scared to keep my hopes up and get it taken away.

I hope all of you are doing good and have a Happy Thanksgiving. I know I said I would keep away but just wanted to check in. I do really need to take it easy and rest, it is just so hard. Love you all!

 

[mommylov]

Aww Jen I'm sorry that really blows I can understand your dentists point if view but at the same time I would want him to understand yours. Darn PA, move out her! Co wouldn't do that to ya! They say going through this journey is often a test for relationships. I'm sure everything is frustrating for the both of you. I hope you guys can come together and that dh is more supportive during this time. We are here for you too hun. Xoxo

Jess, I'm glad that they were able to see the baby and that the baby looked fine. As for being a few days off, I wouldn't worry about that hun. They say it can take weeks even months for things to measure right. It also could be the way the baby is angled. Try and take some deep breaths and don't get worked up. I know it's easier said than done but I don't want you to make yourself sick worrying. Hugs to you girls!

 

[TTCSecrets]

amy i truly hope youre bloodwork comes back at 0!! I really do!!

angel hope you get a good scan and theres some wonderful eggys there waiting to pop!!

I always imagine ovulation to literally be like a pop lol!!

LAura yes, got to have pma, from now on, i know il have bad days but , pma all the way lol

Im just sat watching jeremy kyle , how sad, but relaxing , o work, i could get used to this wednesdays off business

Gonna have a good clean up after this cup of tea, and then gramma is coming round at 3pm Yay!

I keep wanting to sing... Its beginning to look a lot like christmas.. Eeeevverrywheereeeee wee gooooooooooooooo

MUAHHAHA

CHRISTMAS IS A COMING! xxxx


And Jess i agre with Ames! They usually take up until 12/16 weeks to get the dates matching and stuff try not to worry!! I hope it all goes well bab xxxx

Aww Jen thats crap Hugs hun xxxx

 

[lilesMom]

jen sweetie , its horrible feeling sick and having a load of worry on top, one makes the other worse xxxx hope u feel better soon honey and things improve for u xxxxxxxxx

jess i was gonna say what tash said, its only between 12 and 14 weeks that the dating is accurate , thats why in ireland ur 12 week ish scan is called the dating scan xxxxx
i was put behind 5 days on my first scan and next scan i wasnt xxxxxxxxxx

amy thank god its normal, its kinda goood if its af isnt it? can they get started with monitoring faster ? xxxxxxxxx
honey xxx

natasha i was listening to xmas songs tthe other nt, they r my fave things about xmas

angel happy bding xxxxxxxxxx

ive lost a few pounds over last week due to my newish found hatred of food ha ha
no harm though, i can afford um xxxxxxxxxxx
overall ive put on 4 pounds first tri so not too bad,but ive changed shape already xxxxxxx

love and hugs to all xxxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Ooo laura are u getting a bump yet When i was pregnant people were guessing when i was 6 weeks pregnant I think its because at the time i was quite slim, so anything was noticeable, was awful, couldnt even deny it it was blatantly obvious lol! I think i must have carried alot of water or something !

I love christmas songs too, i dont like the presents and all tht stuff, theres something about the smell of christmas, like christmas candles, and seeing tinself and lots of shiny baubles, and the christmas songs, its such a lovely time of year xxx

 

[mommylov]

Hi girls, trying to get out of bed ATM and get started with the day. Hope everyone is doing well

Laura, she doesn't want to start monitoring yet because she doesn't want to assume anything. She said its better to wait after our next cycle so they know exactly what's going on which I understand. I hope it all happened quickly.

 

[TTCSecrets]

Ames, maybe you had your AF straight after MC ? God i hope that AF gets you soon! Never thought id say that to any of our girls! But at least then thats a new cycle and oyu can start again and get the help from docs u need xx

 

[mommylov]

Thanks doll! Me too, never thought I would say it either but come on af!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Well ive been looking at my temps, and even though i had two days of abundant ewcm, my temp isnt rising yet, so this is going to be one of two things, either a mssively long ass cycle, or anovulatory, !!!

So everything is going okay? Im glad for that, youve had enough heartache you need some happiness!
You at work today? xx