ttc after a d&c

[lamb27]

hey lamb how are u xxx

im ok thank you..how are you xxx

 

[lamb27]

Hi Jen, I am soooo sorry to hear about your cervix. I read up a bit about it and it seems like quite a few people have been in the same situation and have been fine. Im praying for you hun and hope that everything goes well. When do you find out if insurance covers it and when will you have the procedure? Seeing as how you are tiny, I thought that you might have a c section either way but wasnt sure. Oh Im just really praying for you and LO. Oh, and if the dr puts you on bed rest, can your job really let you go? Isnt that illegal? So sorry you have to worry about all this and dh's job and what not... I wish I could just hug you right now!

Angel, let us know how it goes with the scan! Hope they see a nice, healthy large eggy!

Laura, you are going to see you LO soon!!! Yay!!!

Jess, I know you are on bedrest and cant get to a comp but just incase you read this we are thinking of you and wishing you well!

Tash, glad you got some good bd in! Now look at your tummy and tell those swimmers to catch the eggy!!!

Bethany & horsey, missssss you!

Hiya Lamb, how are you dear?

Hi to anyone Ive missed! :wave:

im ok thanks,how are you hun xx

 

[TTCSecrets]

lamb im okay! I think im having a cycle where i dont ovulate, temps are very erratic and i dont know what my body is doing haha! how are u finding thngs? Are u trying to conceive i forogt? Xxx

 

[mommylov]

Hey Tash, Thanks I just want to be done with this all too. Not sure if af came right after but either way I have to wait for another cycle. They want to see a clear blreak in between to make sure they do testing at the right times.

Hi Lamb, Im ok.. going through a 2nd mc at the moment so its a little rough. How are you? Where are you at on ttc?

 

[TTCSecrets]

Hmm i keep looking at my chart and its ugly looking, shows no clear indication of ov, and i need to ov soon .. Its geting me down because the longer it takes to ov, the longer my cycle will be, and i want this cycle done by december so i can try for a xmas baby!! GRRRR ANGRY

 

[mommylov]

Im sorry hun Im no good with regards to temping because Ive never done it. I only have used 1 OPK and preseed. You having the EWCM is a great sign and with all the bd you are getting in, I think you are going to catch the eggy!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Thanks ames I hope so, i cant be doing with a long cy le that ends in af, i wouldnt mind if it ended in a BFP, im impatient now haha xx

 

[mommylov]

I can imagine! The waiting is really what kills you in this process. Its much easier to go through all the actions of ttc (POAS, BD, Temping, OPK's, etc) but then waiting is what is the hardest!

 

[TTCSecrets]

ive just told chris what im thinking abou my cycle and he got a bit blunt with me, says he thinks i should give it a break, so i then informed him that its obviously only me who wants a baby and he was like no but i think u should just let it happen he says its not natural to do it how im doing it :/ I got upset and he was like i dont mean it horribly, but i was like no thats fine forget it xxx

 

[lamb27]

Hey Tash, Thanks I just want to be done with this all too. Not sure if af came right after but either way I have to wait for another cycle. They want to see a clear blreak in between to make sure they do testing at the right times.

Hi Lamb, Im ok.. going through a 2nd mc at the moment so its a little rough. How are you? Where are you at on ttc?

so sorry to hear that hun..im ok thanks,erm were just taking it as it comes xx

 

[lamb27]

lamb im okay! I think im having a cycle where i dont ovulate, temps are very erratic and i dont know what my body is doing haha! how are u finding thngs? Are u trying to conceive i forogt? Xxx

hello oh dear not good,im ok still finding it abit hard but have good days,trying in a fashion but taking each day as it comes xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

Hi Ladies! Half way to my sister's now! OPK was negative (as predicted), so no hotel tonight!

Hope you all are doing well. Catch up soon!

Tash ~ I too don't understand what is going on with your temps. Have faith you are doing all that you can...DHs really don't understand, so don't take what he says to heart. You know he wants a LO too!

 

[mommylov]

Tash I second Angel.. they just dont word things right but it def sounds like he wants a LO too.

Lamb, thanks hun. Sounds like you are taking a good approach to ttc

 

[TTCSecrets]

I know he does but he seems to prefer the laid back approach and i feel bad for trying so hard, hes said hed rather me take a break from opking and charting but i dont feel that i can :/ It feels like im giving up if i dont try and do opks or charting :/ Cant imagine waking up and not taking my temp xxx

 

[mommylov]

BTW... Hope you all have a wonderful Thanksgiving!!!! Sending lots of love to you and your families

 

[mommylov]

I know It would be hard for me too. I just feel like had we not done all that we have with OPKs and KNOWING whats going on, then we wouldnt be able to start testing to make sure that everything is ok.

 

[TTCSecrets]

great...weve just argued, im sick of trying to have sex spontaneously for him just to say no... and ive brought up the fact that i bet he never said no to any girls in the past before me , ive had enough of this shit xxx

 

[mommylov]

Oh no! Try and take a walk or something hun.. you're bound to say something you dont mean right now because your emotional and he may not just understand that.

 

[TTCSecrets]

i know, i need to calm down now, im so irritated, i cant do right for doing wrong, i lose his child and try and get another one and im still not doing the right thing :S ? I just dontget it xxx

 

[mommylov]

First off, YOU didn't lose his child. It was gods way of taking care of things the way it was meant to be. I'm so sorry you are upset babe. Wish I could give you a big hug. I'm sure a part of his reaction was frustration as well. They don't like to see us hurt or go through this.