ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

lol @ song.. too cute!

I def want to get to the bottom of it just for our sake to know who was in our home. I dont really care to know him and plan on never seeing him ever again so I could care less of what we find in that regard. Just want to put this past us and next time we are only letting people WE know in our home... no boyfriends or girlfriends of our friends or someone THEY know... lesson learned.

 

[lilesMom]

amy tht is so weird about ut friends Dh , i agree u have to tell her though , hard and all as it is, if he is doing it to con her r something u would feel awfull afterwards,
i really dont get why people lie and make things up, r why some people just like drama
weird xxxx
hope she comes round and u dont end up losing her over it hon xxxxxxxxxxxx
spottin as far as i know too is normal had lots of patches of it after d and e , i know its a pain not kowing is it af r whatever, fx doc gives u result of 0 hcg xxxxxxx

angel now u have the song 'under the sea........ everything better where s is wetter ' in my head fx for u xxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Hi Laura! Yes its very strange... its strange that she would marry someone that she met on the internet and has known only for 8-9 months before they got married and has never lived with him. Its all bizare to me!

This mc was very different from my 1st with the d&c vs this one being natural. Im just waiting for the nurse to call and tell me where my levels are at. Im hoping that its at 0. Im now thinking too that I mustve had a period right after and thats why I bled fro so long and it came and went and came again... but I suppose I still need to wait one more cycle and then can begin testing.

How are you?

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[lilesMom]

yeah amy was fast work alright getting married , hope it works out ok for ye all xxxx
hope u get beyond this soon and get to testing, also hope ur holding up ok in the meantime xxxxxxxxxxxxx

im grand babe, nausea is back a bit but not as bad as it used to be so not too bad, i had 2 days it was gone and thought i was home free xxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

awww good!

 

[lilesMom]

i see bethany

 

[lilesMom]

gotta go have me some dinner , chat soon xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

:wave:

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[mommylov]

I know right! I know people that have met thier spouses online. I get thats the new way of meeting people but come on, be cautious. I feel she is extremely book smart but obv lacks a bit of common sense.

 

[TTCSecrets]

Ive ended up booking tomorrow off as well.. Cant handle the outside world at the moment, especially work and customers... I cant handle it, im okay, annovulatory cycle is still going... Not really bothered anymore to be fair.. Ive kind of given up a little bit, since my cousin announced her news to me ive kind of gone on a bit of a F everything kind of bender...

Hope youre all okay? xxxx Any news? xxxx

I havent caught up because i cant concentrate xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[mommylov]

Nurse just called and HCG finally came back negative! So now i have an appt with the dr next wed the 5th and we'll see what she says... more waiting sigh!

 

[mommylov]

Wait Tash.. what did I miss?!?! Your cousin is preggers? Is this the one that was dating the married guy? Im so sorry hun

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[TTCSecrets]

Amy oh yes,,, shes 8w1d... But, ive been checking out the dates and that baby cant be the married guys because he was on holiday for two weeks during her ovulation, but shes caused everyone a load of shit, and took pleasure in texting me saying that she must have a stronger cervix than me etc etc etc ((((((( Ive had a terrible time ames xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[TTCSecrets]

Yeah, thats what i mean, she has sent me some awful texts including...

* Im not telling anybody im pregnant until im at least 14 weeks because look at you, you told people when you first found out and your baby died at 12 weeks*

* YOu just need to get pregnant now ay?*

* I feel awful though because i know you are trying and i have one by accident on my first time trying*

* MY baby is a born fighter because i was told that my cervix tried to open but stayed firmly shut, maybe thats what went wrong with you, your cervix wasnt strong enough to keep it*

I was like first of all..I didnt announce my pregnancy, i went that huge due to water retention that people were guessing at 6 weeks!!! And i couldnt deny it!

SEcond of all i have been trying to get pregnant for the past 100 days u effing idiot dont tell me i need to get pregnant now

Thirdly, my cervix was obviously strong enough because i didnt miscarry, i had a missed miscarriage, which does not mean my cervix wasnt strong enough

Thats why i been a bit quiet... I feel like ive been kicked while im down xxxx

 

[mommylov]

Thanks Angel!!

Tash, OMG!!!! She sounds awful hun! please try and not let her get to you. I know its easier said than done and she is your cousin but you really need to stay away from her. If she is indeed pregnant and it is this guys' or someone else or whatever, let her be. She can go about her life the way she wants and have her child. You are going to be blessed with a healthy LO of your own. It sounds like she is just trying to get into your head so dont let her. Im so sorry.. she just sounds so evil spirited.