ttc after a d&c

[xxserendipity]

what times ur appointment Natasha? i didnt get to sleep till gone 3 and had to be up with the boys for school at 7 so knackered now seeing as hubby is on his way home now i might sneek off for a nap later x

 

[TTCSecrets]

Aww bless ya Appointment is at half ten, time is dragging!!! I want a nap later.. Im starting to feel more and more pregnant, i feel exactly how i did the week before i found out i was pregnant, i either am or my body is playing cruel pregnancy come downs on me xxx

 

[xxserendipity]

think it would be very early for symptons and unfortunatly our bodys to play cruel tricks on us at times but fingers crossed hun u never know xx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Its alright Danni we will have our bfps soon, im aiming for one by October, make it sound more realistic cos by then i should have had a cycle and AF and know where i am with ovulation, and just having sex every night except a few may help too haha, plus they say you are fertile for three months after so still got time Xxx

 

[xxserendipity]

testing my new signature!!!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Yayyyyy!!! Oooo thank god im thinking more positive, like this morning im actually not going to be upset if im not pregnant again ill just know that ill ovulate in the next three weeks unless i have an anovulatory cycle, even if i do theres still october Or even might get a christmas pregnancy Either way hopefully we will both we pregnant by christmas Im sure of it xxx

 

[Storked]

Just woke up from a "nap". And now that the spouse and I have put off our trip for next weekend, I can do whatever. Yay! If only I could convince my cat to go to bed with me- he only wants to nap during the day

Jen, good signs and symptoms! Is there any way you can grab the lead apron dear? and

Amy, yay for dates and you just made me miss soda so much lol! Will be strong. Glad you had a great time

Danni, I am not the most responsive on FB hehe. But you can start one if you would like and add me to it so what happened with the bike? Sorry things aren't going well honey

Natasha, do you sleep through alarms too? My mom even got me one once for deaf people and I slept through it as well KUP on the doctors!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Yeah i really cannot get up :/ Ive been off work since the MMC and go back on Monday but ive not been getting to sleep til like 2/3am so been sleeping in til about 12.. Need to sort that out before i go back to work Monday :/

Think im just gonna go with the brother alarm and have him get me up every day, even my partner doesnt get up with alarms, hes so funny, because his ringtone is his alarm tone he just answers the alarm then goes back to sleep hahaha!!

Ooo getting nervous now about doctors :/ Gotta leave in twenty mins.. Not looking forward to it xxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Right.. Doctors time!!! Speak soon girls xxx

 

[xxserendipity]

good luck hun xx Bethany he hasnt broken it thank god they think its seized up coz hes not been moving it coz of the pain, i'll add u hunni xx

 

[mommylov]

Thats true Horsey... I guess its the waiting game all over again!

Im going to request blood tests tomorrow, deep down im hoping its new pregnancy, but also just expecting the worst, i hope you all get your BFPs this month or next.. Would be nice especially since next time i get pregnant i dont want to tell anyone in case anything goes wrong, but will be nice to have support from the lovely ladies on here xxx

For sure!!! I dont plan on telling anyone except you ladies until I am at 20 weeks.. I MIGHT tell dh.. lol jk ofcourse I would tell him

I might even wait until my 3rd trimester to announce anything when I am preg. But I know a lot of people aren't stupid and are gonna see my huge stomach. I will just let them guess. I just don't wanna announce too early and have to tell everybody if something goes wrong.

See i said the same thing to the partner.. But he made a good point.. He said to be honest if u think about it, if someone has recently or in the past had a loss, i doubt they would want to ask you, because if you werent they would feel terrible, people will probably guess but not ask you, if that makes sense?

I think it will be hard for me to hold it, i was only three months at my MMC but i had put on a stone and a half and had a 6 month belly, hard to believe really, people started guessing when i was 9 weeks :/ xxx

You would think people would guess but not ask, in the fear that they could be wrong, but unfortunately some people can be very intrusive or not care if you have had a loss. Like in my family for instance, there is always that particular family member that knows the wrong thing to say at the perfect time. Like there is a family get together and say you don't wanna drink any wine, and some jack ass goes and says, "I knew it, you are preggers!!! haha." When in fact im not. You never know. I was showing early also. Since this was going to be my third child and I was 18.5 weeks, I looked more like I was 5 months, which is not that much bigger. But I looked very pregnant, and my little boy was kicking away. I knew his sleeping patterns, knew when he woke up. Very loud noises would make him jolt. And bam, 2 days later he was gone.
I think I will go in hiding with the next pregnancy.lol. Just to avoid anything. Plus my docs say I would be on complete medical bed rest because I had preeclampsia with first daughter, almost happened with the second, and had complications with this one.

mornin ladies had really bad trouble sleeping last night had everything swirling around in my head while layin there thinkin i had an idea and wondered if anyone would be interested n joinin a fb group if i made one?? i love babyandbump but would be so much easier on a fb group to keep up with everyones posts xx anyway on another subject the hubby came off hi bike yesterday on his way home from work and hurt his wrist it seemed fine last night so didnt think he'd broken it then today he woke in agony so hes had to take the day of work to go for an xray now i have bloody money to worry about ontop of everything else plus its a new job and hes still on trial so this could stop him gettin taken on long term he just rang and its not broken they think its seized up coz he's been avoiding moving it hope its feelin better by monday else we're buggered

Just woke up from a "nap". And now that the spouse and I have put off our trip for next weekend, I can do whatever. Yay! If only I could convince my cat to go to bed with me- he only wants to nap during the day

Jen, good signs and symptoms! Is there any way you can grab the lead apron dear? and

Amy, yay for dates and you just made me miss soda so much lol! Will be strong. Glad you had a great time

Danni, I am not the most responsive on FB hehe. But you can start one if you would like and add me to it so what happened with the bike? Sorry things aren't going well honey

Natasha, do you sleep through alarms too? My mom even got me one once for deaf people and I slept through it as well KUP on the doctors!

Hiya girls!!!

Natasha, gl today hun and kup!!!

Bethany, so sorry hun... Soda is yucky.. blah! I hated it.. it was the worst thing I have ever drank! (Better? ) So glad you have a free weekend now that youre not going on your trip. Whatchya got planned?

Danni, I too dont do much on fb either.. I play games here and there and will like a post but all in all I dont do FB. I dont even have a real name on there! lol I mainly joined to play games when bored or some of my friends & family post pics of thier kids which I like to see but Im not friends with a bunch of people I know in real life.

Jen, hugs doll!! What are you going to do about the apron????

Horsey, Jessica, Laura.. and anyone I missed... HI!

Daily to all!!!

 

[jen435]

Danni so sorry dh seized his wrist/hand. Sounds painful. Hope that heals fast. Btw yours and amys dhs im starting to think bikes are dangerous.

Natasha goodluck today! Your symptoms sound so hard to sleep with. Glad your bro woke u up! Kup

Bethany yay!!! Free weekends are great! Enjoy! Hope you and kitty get your nap in!

Dh is so fustrating no bd last night and he is holdin off til midnight tonight if hes in the mood. He did this to me last time. Im fertile now!!!! About to ovulate in 12-24hrs. Sorry i vent about this just makes my body feel less stressed to tell someone. Easier to let it go kinda. Im so mad at him its not even funny. Ill be able to get lead apron weds since i work in that office then at 745am. I have to be at work very early mon and tues so ill def be without apron. Worse comes to worse and the xrays look unsafe ill lie and tell them im pregnant and see if they have one for me to wear or refuse to take the xrays. I mean most.offices have a lead wall and ill be happy with that. Its a temp job so just dont want to anger them. I only work one day a week for next three monthes atm so hoping i get a magical bfp this month. I definately have my o pains now on my left side!!! Opk test i take in two hrs. If its positive im going to bother him at work i am not letting this pass me by! I hope those softcups work and i have many swimmers there as we speak after all its been 32hrs since last bd. Grr to men lol. All well im much better now

Horseypants jessica hi!!!

Laura miss you!! Hope your enjoying your getaway

 

[mommylov]

Danni so sorry dh seized his wrist/hand. Sounds painful. Hope that heals fast. Btw yours and amys dhs im starting to think bikes are dangerous.

Natasha goodluck today! Your symptoms sound so hard to sleep with. Glad your bro woke u up! Kup

Bethany yay!!! Free weekends are great! Enjoy! Hope you and kitty get your nap in!

Dh is so fustrating no bd last night and he is holdin off til midnight tonight if hes in the mood. He did this to me last time. Im fertile now!!!! About to ovulate in 12-24hrs. Sorry i vent about this just makes my body feel less stressed to tell someone. Easier to let it go kinda. Im so mad at him its not even funny. Ill be able to get lead apron weds since i work in that office then at 745am. I have to be at work very early mon and tues so ill def be without apron. Worse comes to worse and the xrays look unsafe ill lie and tell them im pregnant and see if they have one for me to wear or refuse to take the xrays. I mean most.offices have a lead wall and ill be happy with that. Its a temp job so just dont want to anger them. I only work one day a week for next three monthes atm so hoping i get a magical bfp this month. I definately have my o pains now on my left side!!! Opk test i take in two hrs. If its positive im going to bother him at work i am not letting this pass me by! I hope those softcups work and i have many swimmers there as we speak after all its been 32hrs since last bd. Grr to men lol. All well im much better now

Horseypants jessica hi!!!

Laura miss you!! Hope your enjoying your getaway

Danni, so sorry about dh's wrist... and I think Jen is right, our dh and these bikes, sheesh! I think we need to take thier toys away from them.. WE should be thier only toys right now, right? heehhe Hope he feels better soon dear.

Jen, sorry dh is holding out. Whats his reasoning for not wanting to bd? I hope the cups work too... still not sure I get how that all works but I hope it works for you!! Remember we were talking about maybe him fearing going through a loss again... do you think that is the reason why he is holding out? Hugs chicky

 

[mommylov]

Oh Danni, dont know if you know my dh's bike story but basically 3 weeks ago (and 3 days before I got cleared from my dr to try again) he went on a bike ride with his friends. He went to this track that he showed me pics of from the week before and I saw they had some areas where you can go on some jumps. Basically told him to avoid those areas and what happened.... he went there and jump, sigh. Came home that night and could barely walk then called me the next morning and told me that he needed to go tot he dr because he could walk. I took him to urgent care and he bust both knees (tore both mcl's and one acl). He has been in braces sicne on both legs and did PT for a few weeks and is now getting better. We were told this week that he luckly doesnt need surgery but he is still not 100%. Makes bd a bit challenging and kind of weird but still nice. Ugh, men! lol

 

[TTCSecrets]

Hey ladies! Thanks for the good lucks! How are we all??

Well i must say the doctors was pretty pointless too :/

She flat out refused a blood test because in her words *its pointless* i told her all my symptoms n how they have reappeared after 4 weeks of being gone, she said well it could be a new pregnancy but we can't be sure really, and i was like, yeah i know thats why im here? Blood tests or something? And she basically said that doing a blood test will only tell me the level my hcg is if any, and id have to repeat one in a week so will be three weeks before i get an answer, and in three weeks ill be able to do HPT, so basically she didnt want to waste her time :/

Now im left peeing on sticks that are negative, and i dont wanna go buying expensive ones to test next week/ She told me to test on the 17th because thats when my peiod is due, and i said well how do you know when my period will be due to DnC n she said, i dont know, im guessing...

They are paid all that bloody money to guess?! Seriously?

So now im debating on popping to ASDA nad getting a load of First Response ones ( from what i hear they are the most early one you can find ) And just accepting the money, doing one tomorrow morning, and then one next week at 4 weeks post DnC

God this is awful, do the doctors not realise that every day feels like an eternity when waiting to POAS?!

I guarantee you ( i know this sounds awful ) that she hasnt been through TTC after MMC as im sure if she had she would have understood and been more helpful

She did say its doubtful to be remaining tissue or an infection because i would be in pain, she said either new pregnancy or its all in my head :/ Which i knew anyway? xxx

 

[mommylov]

Hey ladies! Thanks for the good lucks! How are we all??

Well i must say the doctors was pretty pointless too :/

She flat out refused a blood test because in her words *its pointless* i told her all my symptoms n how they have reappeared after 4 weeks of being gone, she said well it could be a new pregnancy but we can't be sure really, and i was like, yeah i know thats why im here? Blood tests or something? And she basically said that doing a blood test will only tell me the level my hcg is if any, and id have to repeat one in a week so will be three weeks before i get an answer, and in three weeks ill be able to do HPT, so basically she didnt want to waste her time :/

Now im left peeing on sticks that are negative, and i dont wanna go buying expensive ones to test next week/ She told me to test on the 17th because thats when my peiod is due, and i said well how do you know when my period will be due to DnC n she said, i dont know, im guessing...

They are paid all that bloody money to guess?! Seriously?

So now im debating on popping to ASDA nad getting a load of First Response ones ( from what i hear they are the most early one you can find ) And just accepting the money, doing one tomorrow morning, and then one next week at 4 weeks post DnC

God this is awful, do the doctors not realise that every day feels like an eternity when waiting to POAS?!

I guarantee you ( i know this sounds awful ) that she hasnt been through TTC after MMC as im sure if she had she would have understood and been more helpful

She did say its doubtful to be remaining tissue or an infection because i would be in pain, she said either new pregnancy or its all in my head :/ Which i knew anyway? xxx

Oye! Are you kidding me?!!?!? I dont understand why she couldnt do a blood test. I dont believe that they would need to do multiple. I mean my dr did one without me even asking for it because she knew how badly we wanted to move on and my levels were at 16 by then. She had take so many blood samples before but that was to confirm the pregnancy and then after D&C they did one and she told me to take a hpt a week later and that if it wasnt - to come back in which I didnt need to because by then it was -. Either way, if your levels are in the 100's or even 1000's then I would think that would tell them something! The fact that mine were at 16 told my dr to tell me to wait a week to take my hpt. If it were high, then Im sure she wouldve wanted to do more testing but just that one test DOES help and they got the results the NEXT morning!

I only have used the first response for the same reason (because it detects faster) and I took an ept when I was pg just to confirm it but other than that, I stick to first response. I know they are a little pricier but I just trust them more. Im so sorry your dr couldnt put your mind at ease today I say try and wait to test until next week. Testing everyday may make you go crazy and spend lots of $$$ We are here for you!!!!

 

[mommylov]

Oh and as far as left over tissue.. I went through the same thing (The girls here know). So after my d&c I went in for a follow up a week later. They did an us on me and found something on the right side of my uterus. Thats where the baby was so they thought it was leftover tissue. Gave me meds to try and pass it at home and then I came back after another week and it was still there so then they thought it was a fibroid. Went home and after a week I passed something about the size of a dime but it was brown and kind of hard (Sorry TMI). I went back and they told me it WAS leftover tissue and that my body naturally took care of it... I didnt have pain or anything.. thought it was af. So even though you have tissue in you, it doesnt mean that you will be in pain just means that it isnt LIVE tissue. Thats what my dr told me. She did check me for infection before I passed it and told me that if I was in pain then to worry. All in all, I was worried the whole time and it felt like it too me FOREVER to get cleared from the dr. Everything happened within a month ... d&c 7/19/2012, cleared from dr 8/21/2012, af came 8/30/12... hang in there hun! xoxo

 

[jen435]

Im so sorry about ur doctor they obviously dont feel our pain. We are here for you! Could u possibly call your family doctor (make up an excuse your af is late got faint positive or something) just for bloodwork script? I only used that once (after d&c) since i was 5wks after and they sent me a script bc i honestly didnt want to go to ob at that point. It was to heartbreaking for me. My family doctor understood. I ended up not using script due to fear but maybe you can call yours and ask?

Just finished putting pool chemicals in! Only needed alklinity so it was easy! Its sooo hot today! I think im jump in for last time in two hrs. (filters running now)

Any plans for weekend?

Oh and does anyone feel ovulation twinges? I did on my left side today lasted a min or two wow was it crampy! Hopefully those swimmers fertilize it!

to all!!!

 

[mommylov]

No O twinges yet but I know its coming.. I felt it after d&c but didnt know that was O until now hehe.. just waiting for the work day to be over then either tonight or tomorrow... we start Im so hopefuly this cycle and praying we catch that eggy on the first try again fx!!

Other than that, the only other plans is maybe unpack some more stuff in the house.. maybe go for a walk or something. How about you? Pool sounds nice!!!

 

[jen435]

Sounds relaxing amy! catch that eggy!!! to you!

Question does anyone have o- blood type and understand rh factor??? Im trying to understand it but ill be honest it confuses me.