ttc after a d&c

[TTCSecrets]

Aww Amy i know its easy for me to say but dont give up hunny!!! Youv had a lot of confusion and different and conflicting information you are bound to be all over the place!!
I dont care what anyone say a positive is a positive!! Im actually praying for you and LO! When will you get answers? As in definite answers? This is doing you no good with all this stress and worry and upset! The doctors need to be pro active and not so dismissive.. You probably just got a shy bean who wants to make mummy worry

The d and c wont have stopped you having babies hunny!I asked my doctor today if it has any effect and they said that the only time it can affect it is if there are complications during the procedure or if you have many of them, and even my doctor said that even if you have 10 d and c's it still doesnt cause much of a risk! You are fine!! xXxxxxXxXXxxx Big cuddles Ames xxx

 

[aaronswoman79]

Amy, were you able to talk to the actual doctor? Hon, believe me, there is always a solution. There is no reason for you to think you cannot have children. The worse case scenario is that you are not pregnant. If this is so remember this... you always have a chance every month. Of course I am hoping that you are indeed pregnant, but if you aren't hon. Look at what Laura says the docs told her sis that she couldn't have children with endometreosis, she had 4 children. Of course I am not saying anything is wrong with you, but believe me, there are so many options. If this indeed a chemical pregnancy, it still means you were so close, and that you are able to conceive Amy. It means you are fertile and there is no problem. It has to be one or the other, you are either pregnant or it is a chemical, but remember if it is a chemical it is very common, and nothing wrong with you hon.

 

[geegirl]

ladies, a question about boobs.... since my mc last year my cycle has done whatever it likes. i cannot remember what it was like before hand since i had the coil for 3 years before and no af. Anyway what i wanted to know does anyone elses breasts hurt from the point of ovulation right up until af, and if so do you get that pain that soon if you are pregnant. Mine have done this ever since my mc, and when i was pregnant with my 5 year old my breasts didnt start to hurt until after missed af?.... would value your opinions very much! thankyou xxx

 

[lilesMom]

geegirl with all that was goin on i forgot tosay welcome and sorry u have to be here too xxx
my boobs never hurt till i w as preg so i cant help but i know lots of people do get sore boobs for af x

 

[aaronswoman79]

ladies, a question about boobs.... since my mc last year my cycle has done whatever it likes. i cannot remember what it was like before hand since i had the coil for 3 years before and no af. Anyway what i wanted to know does anyone elses breasts hurt from the point of ovulation right up until af, and if so do you get that pain that soon if you are pregnant. Mine have done this ever since my mc, and when i was pregnant with my 5 year old my breasts didnt start to hurt until after missed af?.... would value your opinions very much! thankyou xxx

Yes, I now notice the sore boobs I never noticed before. And it happens around time of ovulation. It sucks because it also fools me into thinking that I might be pregnant. I never really got sore boobs as a sign of pregnancy. With my first 2 pregnancies I never got sore boobs even up til delivery. With my last one I did feel sore boobs, but not as a pregnancy symptom, I got the sore boobies later on maybe toward the middle of the 1st trimester. Hope this helps.

 

[geegirl]

geegirl with all that was goin on i forgot tosay welcome and sorry u have to be here too xxx
my boobs never hurt till i w as preg so i cant help but i know lots of people do get sore boobs for af x

thats what i thought, as i said when i had my daughter 5 years ago they did, but i havent a clue whats going on with my body! i mean i over analyze everything but then dont we all in here? its been like it for ages now and gets my hopes up that im preg,but then BLAM she rears her ugly head.... i dont even know if i ov never had a positive opk so im assuming that the point when they start hurting is ov?? BLAH, will keep people posted.... in the 2 week wait! eeekkk xx

 

[geegirl]

ladies, a question about boobs.... since my mc last year my cycle has done whatever it likes. i cannot remember what it was like before hand since i had the coil for 3 years before and no af. Anyway what i wanted to know does anyone elses breasts hurt from the point of ovulation right up until af, and if so do you get that pain that soon if you are pregnant. Mine have done this ever since my mc, and when i was pregnant with my 5 year old my breasts didnt start to hurt until after missed af?.... would value your opinions very much! thankyou xxx

Yes, I now notice the sore boobs I never noticed before. And it happens around time of ovulation. It sucks because it also fools me into thinking that I might be pregnant. I never really got sore boobs as a sign of pregnancy. With my first 2 pregnancies I never got sore boobs even up til delivery. With my last one I did feel sore boobs, but not as a pregnancy symptom, I got the sore boobies later on maybe toward the middle of the 1st trimester. Hope this helps.

same boat!!!! x

 

[xoxo4angel]

AMY!!! You are in the limbo from Hades! HCG of 3?? You are not out yet Amy. Ok, this new Dr is bound to have a follow-up scheduled for you! A follow up to discuss what has happened or to confirm a viable pregnancy. IF and Lord forbid, IF it was a mc, then you express your concerns about your D&C, then tell her you would like tests run. One is going to include an HSG. That's where they run the radioactive dye and look at your uterus, tubes and ovaries. I was supposed to have it done back in July, but I fell pg! The bonus to this HSG is my RE told me many many women fall pg within 2 months of having it done!

I REALLY REALLY hope things are ok with lo!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Geegirl ~ In the past my bbs would feel heavy and hurt after O. Then a week before AF came they would be quite tender (often starting at my armpit). Earlier I was joking around about mashing my boobs, but I really can't use them as a gauge.

 

[lilesMom]

im gonna log off girls , nt nt xxxxxxxxxx
amy xxxxxxxxxxxx
love to all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[geegirl]

Geegirl ~ In the past my bbs would feel heavy and hurt after O. Then a week before AF came they would be quite tender (often starting at my armpit). Earlier I was joking around about mashing my boobs, but I really can't use them as a gauge.

im going to ignore my boobs from now on haha same as mine, so im thinking the month i dont have sore boobs is the month it will happen.... god i dont know any more, wish i had answers!!!! x

 

[geegirl]

im gonna log off girls , nt nt xxxxxxxxxx
amy xxxxxxxxxxxx
love to all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

nite nite x

 

[mommylov]

So new dr's office just called and they want me to come in and are having me come in on tues morning. They also ordered more labs (Another HGC and a RH) so they are def being alot more proactive about me then my last dr was which is good. I think it was a chemical preg of some kind too but now just wishing af would come or something. Also scared that if it was, I didnt pass yet so Im hoping they will have answers for me on Tuesday.

 

[geegirl]

So new dr's office just called and they want me to come in and are having me come in on tues morning. They also ordered more labs (Another HGC and a RH) so they are def being alot more proactive about me then my last dr was which is good. I think it was a chemical preg of some kind too but now just wishing af would come or something. Also scared that if it was, I didnt pass yet so Im hoping they will have answers for me on Tuesday.

i have gone through a verrry similar situation, ended up having an internal scan and was a chem dc, BUT there are success stories so think positive positive will happen, got everything crossed for you! x

 

[aaronswoman79]

So new dr's office just called and they want me to come in and are having me come in on tues morning. They also ordered more labs (Another HGC and a RH) so they are def being alot more proactive about me then my last dr was which is good. I think it was a chemical preg of some kind too but now just wishing af would come or something. Also scared that if it was, I didnt pass yet so Im hoping they will have answers for me on Tuesday.

Oh Amy, don't put those angel wings up yet. You pregnancy still might be viable. I guess time will tell. I hope you end up getting good news and if not, i hope you get your af swiftly so that you can continue ttc journey.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Amy I am so sorry that you are going through this. I am very worried about you and I hope that you find out what is going on as soon as possible!

 

[horseypants]

guys im having a really hard time with other people being prego, i mean bad jealousy. my favorite coworker is pregnant with twins and just announced it. there are a few other important people too, but she is literally my favorite person i work with and im having such a har time. my stomach sank when i read she's having twins on facebook (i found out she's prego yesterday). It was all i could do to get myself out of the office for lunch and i was still so upset when i got back here, i apparently left the keys in my car and the car RUNNING in the parking lot and came back in to my desk and started back up trying to work for the last half hour. someone came in and asked is it my car that's on in the parking lot. im such a zombie i couldn't believe it. i need to just force myself to be happy for other people. a coworker's wife who i really like is about to have her baby and so is my neighbor. it's so hard. and it keeps getting worse. it was supposed to be me dec 3. amy im so sorry. i keep writing things to you cause i feel your pain and was in that limbo once. mine didnt turn out well and i am praying yours does.

 

[mommylov]

Thanks ladies.... Horsey sorry you're having a hard time with the news. I really know you are going to be there soon too though... You all will!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Amy. I hope this weekend goes by VERY quickly for you and DH. I wish there was something I could do to make this easier for you. Chin up doll...your new Dr sounds FAB and I am glad they are moving quickly. We'll get through this with you.

Horsey. Left your car running...that's a classic! My EDD was Dec 4. My pregnant doppelganger is due Dec 1 and she's all preggers and happy and 39 and never wanted kids and wasn't even trying and just told me last week that she thinks its gross there is a living being growing inside her and is disgusted by the thought of breast feeding...I hope my run on sentence with massive use of AND gets the point across that I am NOT happy with her. I know this is difficult and unfair. I hope you find a way to have a good weekend.

 

[xoxo4angel]

Bethany where are you??