ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

Ohhh ok! Sorry I missread that... my mind is all over the place right now

fx for you hun!

 

[lamb27]

thanks hun..im just taking it as it comes but would be great to be pregnant again now xx

 

[aaronswoman79]

its def red... like clear and red of that makes sense. Not a ton of solid bright red but def red. I only have light period like cramping but she told me that is normal with pregnancy. Im really thinking I am being punished in life and thats why this is so difficult. Why I cant just have a normal pregnancy and wnjoy every part of it.. sickness and all and NOT bleed I dont know. The bleeding wasnt enough to be on a pad or anything but def there.

Just got on and following your situation. I am not done reading through the messages, but just wanted to say that I hope the bleeding is just a one time thing and even if it isn't I am hoping it is not related to the baby, but more related to the pregnancy, because of the surge in blood flow. And I have told my husband the same thing, that I think I am being punished in life. He told me, God doesn't work like that. Hon, please, you are so sweet! You are one of the sweetest human beings I have come across. I know we don't know each other in person, but I feel like do know you! You are not being punished, I can't give you the answers as to why things happen the way they do. All I can say is that I hope and pray that you find the peace you need during this time.

 

[TTCSecrets]

Angel, i definitely need some kind of relaxing class lol! And ive decided id like to go into nursing but because i work full time, i cant go and study full time because i wont be able to afford to survive, ive looked at every option and theres just no way i can do it And plus 7 grand for a course i just dont have!!

Bethany i have made up with dh but only because the big o is in a week and i want to start early and bd every other ight rather than relying on opks and getting him to bed purely for baby dancing lol!

Amy!! I am praying everything is okay sweetie! Jess is so right you are lovely and so sweet and caring ! You arent being punished, ive actually had the exact same conversation with dh like jess was referring to, i asked him if i was being punished for something i dont realise, and he said that we dont get punished, we get given tests that he knows we can get through.. Dont mean to sound all patronising there, but sometimes i think it helps knowing that we are strong enough to go through what we do..

YOu have the results yet? I have no idea what time it is where u are ames?! xxxxx

Hope youre all okay!! xxx

 

[mommylov]

Thanks Jess and Tash, you guys are dolls

No, they office closes for lunch from 11-1 and its only 12:18 here. Im dying to get my results and I think they are just sitting there waiting to be read. Im terrified to hear what the results are going to be but at the same time anxious and hopeful. I havent had any trace of anymore bleeding but have been crampin gall over my uterus like period cramps. They were bad after my d&c and kind of feel like that right now so Im hoping thats a good thing. The dr told me to be worried if it was sharp and painful in one area and this is just all over. I have been thinking "Ut oh, the pain IS on the left.. oh wait now its on the right... now its all over my uterus...now its gone...now its back" and it has been driving me nuts. If I knew FOR SURE that me and my lo were healthy and fine, then I would be embracing this but I just have the biggest knot in my stomach and fear it isnt. I dont know what to think anymore with all the ups and downs for the past 9 days.

 

[TTCSecrets]

Aww Ames i really am hoping and praying for you!!

Im actually going to sit here and wait for u to put results up lol! Need to go for a bath but im actually debating taking the laptop up there too haha!

I dont know what to sya apart from im thinking of you xx

Cant wait til the office opens at 1, will u get your results if u ring after then? So anxious for you god help how you must be feeling!

Although i was told that pregnancy after a d and c can feel more *painful* so to speak because everything in there is different but the same.. Im hoping its okay for you, al this worrying is no good ! I just cant wait for them to say, the bleeding is normal, you LO is healthy, and that you have a long healthy 9 mo xxx

 

[aaronswoman79]

Thanks Jess and Tash, you guys are dolls

No, they office closes for lunch from 11-1 and its only 12:18 here. Im dying to get my results and I think they are just sitting there waiting to be read. Im terrified to hear what the results are going to be but at the same time anxious and hopeful. I havent had any trace of anymore bleeding but have been crampin gall over my uterus like period cramps. They were bad after my d&c and kind of feel like that right now so Im hoping thats a good thing. The dr told me to be worried if it was sharp and painful in one area and this is just all over. I have been thinking "Ut oh, the pain IS on the left.. oh wait now its on the right... now its all over my uterus...now its gone...now its back" and it has been driving me nuts. If I knew FOR SURE that me and my lo were healthy and fine, then I would be embracing this but I just have the biggest knot in my stomach and fear it isnt. I dont know what to think anymore with all the ups and downs for the past 9 days.

Amy, if this helps at all, I have been experiencing uterine cramps since I had my first cycle after d&c and till now. I had the same cramps before I even oved and I still get them now that I got the bfp. Pregnancy after d&c is definitely harder. We just need a lot more support and understanding now, especially from our families. I am even expecting to spot at some point, because I am hearing it is common, especially after a d&c. I will also be waiting here to see how your test results come. I have a feeling all will be good though.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Amy, I am worried about you. I hope that you got good test results, that is if you got the results yet. I am about to go out. But I hope your day is going better and you some kind of reassurance now. I too feel paranoid. Sorry tmi, but I feel extra wetness down there. I never get like that down there, but I keep thinking I am bleeding and have to keep going to the bathroom and checking.
I am reading it is from the mucus plug forming and hormonal changes, so I guess is should be a good thing? But I keep checking all day long, thinking I am bleeding. I am paranoid obviously from the last pregnancy. I don't wish this upon anybody, having to feel like this. And I hope to God that everything gets better for you here on out. I want so badly for you to have a healthy lo, for all of us to have healthy lo's.

 

[TTCSecrets]

Amy? Any news? Worried? xxx

 

[lilesMom]

Good decision Amy! Take it easy until your progesterone has had its time to do its thing!

G'morning Bethany!

Aside from meow having worms and hiding out from him, how've you been Laura?

hi sweetie, i felt really sick all day, im making up for my 2 days feeling better couldnt really eat till a little while ago, until 9 o clock tonite i had a few bites cereal, half banana and a slice toast but ive finally eaten something proper and feel a little better. xxx
how u doin chick? xxxxx
hope tww is goin ok for u hon and fx for great news at the end x

 

[lilesMom]

Love you girls too! and good morning to all! Geez... losing my manners through this caos

you so arent sweetie , im reading on but so glad bleeding has stopped, silly meds for now but good meds for long term xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

thanks hun..im just taking it as it comes but would be great to be pregnant again now xx

hi hon how u keeping? xxxxxxxxxxxx
il keep my fx for u sweetie, x

 

[lilesMom]

just finished reading , amy hope ur ok and got good news sweetie xxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Hi girls, resting at home now. I was about to go to the er because I am having wicked cramping but dr called and she my levels were perfect and said it was safe to rule out ectopic. She said if it were ectopic, my levels wouldn't be rising as fast as they are so that's good. She did want me home on bed rest for the next frw days with feet elevated. I called dh and he came home so he is here with me. Still in pain but trying to rest and hopefully it gets more tolerable. My nurse just called to check on me a reassured we are looking good so far. Progesterone is above 20 nuw so that's a plus. They are keeping me on it until 12 weeks. Thanks for checking on me dolls!

 

[jen435]

Amy So glad everything is well for you sweety!!! Stay home a few days and rest if its doctors orders your LO will love you for it! Keep your feet up and have DH cater to you Its almost the end of the week anyways. Glad you found such a caring doctor!!! Yay for your first U/S!!!

Jessica im so sorry about your daughter. I am so glad though that you have answers. This baby will be just fine stay positive sweety. You and Amy will be due around the same time and I cant wait to compare pregnancy pics and baby pics (as long as you girls post em!!) Please make a countdownmypregnancy account?? Laura you should make one too.... I understand if you girls want to wait a little longer though.

Praying for all 3 of your lil ones (unless amy and jess have multiples! (never know)

Laura glad you ate and i feel stomach pains as well. My ob said as long as its not as severe as PMS cramping not to call. So I am assuming some cramping is normal? Did you call your doctor to check?

Bethany YAY FOR ELECTION RESULTS!! Im sorry your feeling as pms though :/ I would definately ring your family doctor talk with them but I am thinking they may tell you to see OBGYN. Worth a try though to ease your mind. I must say though your symptoms could mean a bfp is coming so dont rule it out til witch shows her ugly face. Fxd for your BFP and her to stay away for a good reason!!!

Angel I hope you get your BFP!!! Lots of Prayers and fingers and crossed for you ladies!! Id love for you and bethany to get bfp's together

girls

Horsey hi sweety!! How are you? Did that clomid help you at all? Sorry if I missed it if you already anwsered that but I cant recall. Fxd for a bfp for you soon as well. Where are you in your cycle?



Natasha hey!! Im assuming AF is gone or almost gone now? Time to start looking forward to Ovulating. Now that your house is complete for the most part your body is more relaxed and can make the magic happen! I will be praying!!



Amy sorry about your co-worker. You sound make a HUGE tri-fold poster board and put it up so you dont have to even look at her. Maybe she will get the picture!!

If I forgot anyone I am very sorry! I am trying to catch up too 20+ pages!

 

[mommylov]

Jen, these cramps were really bad but my nurse said that everything looked great. She told done cramping is normal do don't frer but if its bad accompanied by heavy bleeding, that's when you need to go in stat!!!

Love to you all. The pain has gotten a little better but def still there so going to try and rest. Xoxo

 

[mommylov]

Just bled some more... Sigh. This just doesn't make sense

 

[jen435]

is it from the progesterone??? Is it alot?? Does your ob have a emergency number to call to contact them??? I would call. Im sorry your going through this amy. I am praying for you!

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[jen435]

thanks angel! how are you?