ttc after a d&c

[TTCSecrets]

yeah He moved downto essex in july just after i found out i was pregnant, and he came back up this week and found out shes moved some other lad in and left all his stuff outside ... All because he went to go and be with his grandad during his last two months ( i mean hes a lovely lad and hes like family dont get me wrong! So i dont mind as much if it werent for the bd, but i did have a word with him the other day and i simply said look tommyboy, we are trying for a baby so, if things get a bit, in your face, i dont mean it to be awful but its our home and we are trying and he was completely cool with it, i just wanted to make sure i told him so at least its not like a big surprise to him and i dont wanna make him feel uncomfortable xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

What nice people you guys are Tash! A good friend...hopefully Tommy knows you guys are ttc and Chris can just give him the "leave for an hour" signal! Fx you O soon! I'm curious what tomorrow's temp will be!

I posted just after you. Glad you had the talk with him. I am sure he will stay out of your way.

 

[TTCSecrets]

Bless him, i mean he works and everything so hes going to pay us rent and ive said if he does i dont mind doing his washing and drying etc and all he has to buy is his own food if he wants something different to what we are having, and he has to buy his own toiletries, i mean obviously i buy toothpaste toilet rolls , the basics n stuff but he can buy anything else he needs. SO i think now that ive pre warned him he will understand that we arent just being wild lol!!

Oh and i made sure i told him to ignore the cupboard full of preg tests etc etc etc lol!! Trying to figure out how to put photos on fertility friend home page...hmmf..computer one tash nil xxx

 

[mommylov]

Oh thats terrible... hopefully he finds a girl that will know what she has and treats him right!

 

[lilesMom]

hi guys think im caught up, im very sleepy, damn gettin up at 5.30.
amy sweetie glad its easing xxxxxxx

tash hurray for lettin friend move in, poor guy what happend to him. glad he has nice friends xxx im sure he cant exactly give out u r trying for baby but better to be upfront alright xxxx

angel xxxxxx

jen thanks honey xxxxxxx
hi to all. im gonna keep it short cos i need my bed xxxxxxxxxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

Hope you like your haircut Laura!

I'll catch up with you ladies in the morning...getting anxious about my HSG tomorrow

 

[jen435]

Angel good luck tom!!
Amy hope ur okay sweety! Glad ur pain is easing up. Praying u are finished and hcg is at 0.
Natasha you are so sweet letting ur friend stay with u. Sorry about his previous gf. I hope he finds someone much better! keep temping sweety and bding try not to think of opks or anything just enjoy df
Laura goodnight sweety! Hope u sleep well! You too angel!

 

[mommylov]

Good luck tomorrow angel!

 

[horseypants]

angel, TONS of good luck for you! huggles huggles huggles sure wish i could be there to hold your hand. lol would that be super weird. tell me what happened as soon as ur back.

 

[aaronswoman79]

hey Ladies, I just got off of the phone with my doctor. She said all of my levels were perfect, of course I told her that my progesterone was low at 11.5 and she brushed it off. She said that it wasn't low and that the only reason they would be concerned is if my hcg is not doubling. I asked her about getting progesterone injections and she said that the only helps women with fertility issues or women who have had low progesterone with hcg that is failing to rise, or women with recurrent miscarriages who lose the baby early on because of low progesterone. Oh and she also said progesterone has nothing to do with sustaining a pregnancy that that is the placentas job. Then I told her, doesn't the placenta take over at about 10 to 12 weeks? And she said the placenta is already starting to take over. I though I barely even had a placenta yet. Then she brought up my loss at 19 weeks and that it had nothing to do with progesterone, that it was a problem with the placenta. I asked her if she could give me injections or suppositories and she refused to.

Jen, I also brought up the blood thinners and aspirin for the subchorionic hematoma and she said that they would do nothing for the hematoma, that it would have resolve on its own. At least I am taking the aspirin right now, so hopefully it helps. And guess what else? They refuse to give me a high risk doctor yet. They told me that I will start seeing a high risk doctor once my pregnancy proves to be viable past 7 weeks, that it is too early. And I know the high risk doc is going to have the same opinion about progesterone, because they all seem to have the same opinions here. I even asked a obgyn nurse about progesterone and she knew nothing about it.

This is so frustrating!

 

[jen435]

Just take ur baby asprin it should be enough to support good blood flow to the baby and nutrients to the baby thru the placenta. Yes u are correct baby is supported by ovary in early pregnancy and then yolk sac. At about 11wks the placenta takes over. My high risk doctor explained that all to me so I know its correct. The 81mg should be enough to prevent hematoma from becoming to big and cutting off nutrition to baby from placenta. I wish I could meet this obgyn of urs! From what I understood the baby asprin is sufficent enough and safest blood thinner when pregnant. So wise choice! did u say they saw two sacs with ultrasound or am I mistaken?

 

[aaronswoman79]

Just take ur baby asprin it should be enough to support good blood flow to the baby and nutrients to the baby thru the placenta. Yes u are correct baby is supported by ovary in early pregnancy and then yolk sac. At about 11wks the placenta takes over. My high risk doctor explained that all to me so I know its correct. The 81mg should be enough to prevent hematoma from becoming to big and cutting off nutrition to baby from placenta. I wish I could meet this obgyn of urs! From what I understood the baby asprin is sufficent enough and safest blood thinner when pregnant. So wise choice! did u say they saw two sacs with ultrasound or am I mistaken?

Thanks Jen! I have 1 sac. But I am definitely waiting to go to the Perinatologist. Sometimes I feel we know more than some of these docs. I live in the Bay Area, home to older mothers who are seeing these kind of docs. Doctors who have gone to stanford and other prestigious schools, yet they don't even know about progesterone?? wtf! I am going to push to get my high risk doctor as soon as possible. Thanks so much Jen for helping me out. I am here for you also, if you ever need advice or someone to talk to. Love you!

 

[mommylov]

Grrr Jessica! I don't know why they are telling you that. My dr said the same thing jens dr did and I love my new dr. I get that they tend to take a relaxed approach to things whrn you've had "only" 1 mc but if the drs knew how agonizing this is for us and knew about your battle then I would think they would listen. I'm so sorry and hope that despite thier opinion on progesterone that they really take good good good care of you and lo. If it gets to a point to where you don't trust them, you can always take your medical records and go to another dr. Hang right and hopefully the aspirin does its job!

 

[mommylov]

I talked to my nurse today and did my bloodwork. Should get the results tomorrow. The nurse said my dr wants to wait until my levels get to 0 and for me to have 1 cycle. She doesn't want to risk any false positives or negatives while testing which I can appreciate and agree. I was just hoping for a Christmas baby and now it's not going to happen. At this rate ill be lucky to have a baby by next Christmas

 

[TTCSecrets]

Jess sorry for your doc being an asshat! What an idiot, i feel we know more than them sometimes too!! I mean i was watching coronation street last night, and because a character missed her period , long sotyr short because i dont know if u guys have coronation street over there, but shes being a surrogate for another character and her boyfriend isnt happy about it, and he said to him, calm down im only two weks pregnant, I was lliterally shouting at the tele TECHNICALLY YOU ARE 4 WEEKS PREGNANT YOU DUMB IDIOT god tv program do your homework even i know that!!!.. Rant over But seriously i would just keep pushing jess, i completely agree, you need to push or get a different doctor, i dont blame u!!

Aww amy that sucks about one cycle ! But! If your hcg levels go down quite quickly, as i dont mean to sound harsh but they dropped alot before they confirmed the mc didnt they? So! If they drop quickly and AF turns up quite soon, you could still be in with a chance! We wil just hope that everything goes smoothly and it returns to normal, i heard that af returns quite quickly if mc is done naturally, i had my d and c and had my af 3w3d later whichwasnt too bad! Maybe even a new year baby for you! Chin up sweety, you might feel better once you get your blood results today and see how much theyve dropped! Let us know how it goes xxxxxxx

The rest of you, hope youre all okay, im okay, just plodding along lol, KEEP CALM ITS FRIDAYYYYYYYYYYY!!

Jen, i dont think im going to buy any more opks, i think im just gonna carry on bding like i am, we cant stop at the moment :/ LOL! How lustful lol! And every day chris asks if im ovulating yet and im like i have no idea, so at least when we bd its not pressurised, its actualy fun like it used to be Im half hearted on TTC this month, im taking my temps but i give up on opks etc xxxxx

Oh angel, my temp rose a bit today but still not enough to show o :/ No idea, i wonder if im going to even ovulate this cycle ? xxxx

 

[mommylov]

Good lock today Angel! Let us know how it goes

 

[xoxo4angel]

Activating pocket ! Waiting on RE to show up...wish she'd come on I'm anxious!

 

[xoxo4angel]

HSG DONE! Was NOT painful at all! I watched it all on a screen. My left tube was flowing freely. My RE and the Radiologist started saying they didn't see the right tube...before I understood what they were talking about I saw a POP and the right tube started filling. What a relief! They suspect there was some "debris" blocking my right tube! Now we are at all systems GO! I'm glad I went and super glad it wasn't painful. Thank you all for your well wishes and fx this does the trick.

Horsey...you could've held my hand, you prob wouldn't have wanted to though...they were cold and clammy (*ewww shweddy palms!*) .

 

[TTCSecrets]

haha angel at the schweddy palms thing haha!!

Aww glad it went well and you got the all clear!! Are u ready and rearing to go? Will u be able to still try this cycle after that procedure? hope so! I really dont know where im at today, spoke to the doctor today and shes confused too, they always are though lol, got them terrible ov pains again so thinking ive either already ov , am oing, or am about to :/ suppose temps will show me soon, however my temps have been so eratic this month and im not doing naything differently :/ and i dont have the heating on when im in bed so god knows, hope all u girls are okay .. im just about to have a bath, waiting for dh to come home so i can make him a cuppa tea first though, i left work at 1pm today cos i felt in pain, so been trying to clean as if i keep moving it eases, which was kinda hard to do at work since im in a call centre and sit on the phone from 8 til 5 lol

hope u all okay, any news from anyone?! xxx


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[mommylov]

Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Im so glad!! This month is going to be it for you!!

Just got a call from my nurse and my results came back... Im at 19. Getting to 0 slowly but surely.

Hope everyone is doing well!