TTC After Depo stories...any luck..advice?

[LatinGirl]

wannabump Besides a blood work, the best way to find out is with a pelvic ultrasound. The gynecologist will help you out and find out what is going on with you. I hope you get your appointment soon. Let us know how it goes.

 

[wannabump82]

Thank you Latin girl.. This is what makes this forum so great x

 

[wannabump82]

Yea I'd wait and see what the gyni says Hun, hopefully they will give you something to help. Do you know how long you will wait for your appointment? Xx

Not sure hun Im hoping not long though x

 

[wannabump82]

I've just looked back at the first time I posted on this forum and it was 29 December 2014...I can't believe how quick it's gone x

 

[Nicole_93]

Hello ladies, hope you all had a wonderful week! I am doing wonderful
So yesterday, af was supposed to make her appearance and never did, so far nothing. Not even s spec of blood in my cervix. It feels low, soft, and closed and if af was here or on its way, it shouldn't be so high right? Also, my cm has been a mix of ewcm but white. Like a snotty like cm along with creamy, lotion like. Then today, I ran to the bathroom thinking I just started and I fished out tons of watery, sticky, creamy, ewcm. It's like I am having them all at once. Soooo weird. Boobies are feeling tender and nipples are someone sensitive and I have this pulling type cramp, mostly on the left side but I get the occasional right side cramps too. Soooo not sure what my body is doing right now, but she is officially 2 days late today!! I have been gassy but I have been gassy for like a month and a half now so I don't know if that is anything new. I haven't poas yet, I'm waiting a few more days to see if she shows up or not! But I am feeling good either way! I'm kind of excited and nervous! Fingers crossed

Anyways, how are you ladies doing? Amy news?
Wannabump, so sorry you are going through this! That is awful. I'm hoping it's nothing major and you get a normal reading. When do you see the specialist?

 

[wannabump82]

Good morning ladies,

I have my appointment its for 7 March which isn't bad considering there could have been along waiting list. Just need to wait it out till then. I start testing for ovulation next week so I'll keep an eye on that so I can let them know if I am ovulating x

 

[Trying91]

Glad you got your appointment Hun and it's not too long of a wait. Good luck with the ovulation testing. Hopefully it will happen before your app and you won't need it : )

Hi Nicole, ooh sounds promising! I'm gonna be stalking here now for test pics! Keeping everything crossed for u!

Not much new here but I did manage to find babys heartbeat with my Doppler last night and this morning, Iv been using it for 2 weeks and couldn't find baby so it's a relief and very happy to finally find it. My sons meeting his new respite carer today (his last one left a few months ago) so we are just sat around today waiting for that, hoping he likes her! I met her earlier in the week already xx

 

[Nicole_93]

Well ladies, af is 3 days late. I'm too scared to test and see a bfn and for her to show up tomorrow. Not sure what to do? Should I give her a few days since my body is still out of wack or should I cave and test? D: I only have one frer left!

 

[Nicole_93]

Awww that is so awesome that you were able to find it! That is so cute! I cannot wait until I can hear my little ones heart beat I hope he likes her too, I'm sure he will warm up to her with no problems. I remember watching a show about the people who take care of kids with special needs, such a hard but yet beautiful job. I have always been interested in that field, hopefully all goes well!

 

[Trying91]

It's amazing finding the heartbeat but the little monkey hides behind the pubic bone so sometimes hard to find, tends to come out a bit after Iv ate though haha.

Oh it didn't go well with the respite carer, I have to ring her manager today and ask for someone else. She made no effort with my son at all, hardly even spoke to him. Sat on the sofa the whole time drinking coffee and gossiping to me, so bad I told her to leave early. She's paid to look after my son not to sit gossiping. She swore twice after me telling her the first time do not swear Infront of my son. He may not understand but he can repeat! So yea it was disastourous lol. In the end my son hid in his room till she left and would only come down when she had gone, he said 'not like' I said don't worry she ain't coming back lol. So the search still continues for a nice carer xx

 

[Trying91]

Sorry Hun Iv just realised I didn't reply to your first message. I'd totally be testing by now I wouldn't be able to wait haha, it's upto you if you want to wait a bit though. I'm keeping everything crossed for you!! Xx

 

[Nicole_93]

Af is 4 days late, no signs she's coming. I'm breaking down and using my last frer today. I just woke up so here goes nothing! Keep everything crossed!!

 

[Nicole_93]

Awww that is terrible!! She aounds so awful! I can't believe someone in her profession would take her job so unseriously. Well, I would defiantly be calling and requesting someone new and maybe telling them that you don't believe she's be a good fit for anyone. I'm sorry Hun, hopefully the next one is better for him! Poor guy

 

[Nicole_93]

Well 15dpo and a bfn on the frer. Hmmm, guess it's not this cycle. Just hoping af shows up so I can get to a new cycle. Such a disappointment to get all excited for nothing. :/

 

[Nicole_93]

Ohkay ladies, just wanted a second opinion. So I've been logging my usual stuff this month and I noticed I had spotting the 11-13th and it was just a day after my "fertile" window. Maybe I ovulated late because I had ewcm that whole week, up until the 16th. Maybe I'm grasping at straws here but maybe I ovulated late and I could only be 10-12dpi currently. Even then, I would probably show positive, right? Since I don't do temping or anything I can say for sure but the spitting was so small, i can't see it being anything else.

 

[Trying91]

I have spoke to her manager and requested a new carer, I didn't go into detail I just said she didn't make an effort with my son and that in the end he went and hid in his room. So now they are looking for a new carer. Fingers crossed, he hasn't had a carer since end of October! He absoloutly adored his last one and so did I but unfortunatly she left the job. I'm sure we will find one soon! (Hopefully!)

Aww I'm sorry about bfn Hun, and no not necessarily would you get a BFP as early as 10-12 dpo. Some women don't get them till 15-16dpo. Give it a few more days, i'm still keeping everything crossed for u Hun xx

 

[Trying91]

Also wow you have been bding a lot! Lol xx

 

[Nicole_93]

Ahahaha yes, we bd a lot xP especially lately, I don't what whars gotten into us lately but we can seem to keep our hand off eachother this past month or two. We've been having many date nights, drinks and all that. Hahah
I thought I was 15dpo because af was supposed to show and my fertile window on the app, but I noted ewcm up until the 16th? So maybe I just od later in my cycle(if at all)? So it would only make me in the 10-12dpo range, give or take. So maybe there's still hope? I'm just so bummed, I wasted my last frer!!! Grrr! Well if she doesn't show by the first of the month, I'll be retesting. Cm is like ewish(snotty) and creamy like. Thick and sticky. Kinda yellowish in color too. Like tented yellow. So strange.

Awww that is the worst, I'm sorry she quit. That must of been hard for him and you guys. Hopefully they will give you someone just as good and helpful, I know it can be hard to find a good match. is he atleast doing Ohkay without one?

 

[Nicole_93]

So me and my oh just ordered pizza because I am like literally STARVING, to the point I feel so sick. Well, I went and picked up our food and it smelled sooo terrible! Like, my pizza smelled like human gas(gross! I know) and then I'm trying to eat and getting more and more of an upset stomach, like I was to throw up kinda feel? Blahhh, hopefully this goes away because it's really playing mind tricks on me.

 

[Nicole_93]

Still, af is a no show. Cd34 and it's driving me mad!! Ahaha I went to the pharmacy to get my prescription and as I waited, I looked over and there were pregnancy tests and I wanted to buy them so badly. I just hate paying 4-5 dollars more. I live in a small town with no grocery stores near buy and my dollar store doesn't carry them apparently. I might hold out on buying more until I can go into town but if she doesn't show within the next 2-3 days, I'm buying them!! That will put me at either 16ish dpo or 18ish dpo. For the most part, my cycles have been on time, give or take a day or two so this is just odd. Cramping still like af is right around the corner. Wish time would go a lot quicker!! D: