TTC After Depo stories...any luck..advice?

[Tryin4our1st_]

I figured it wasn't the real thing but hey at this point I'll take what I can get cause even spotting for 2 days is a step in the right direction!

 

[Laucu]

Cd16 today.... Not sure when I O but cycles seem to be between 30 and 32 days so I should ovulate today, tomorrow or Saturday in theory. Dtd last night, not sure we'll get a chance again in the next few days but I think I should be covered.

Fingers crossed. I was so gutted last cycle that I'm not sure I can go on with it any longer really. It's too much heartache month after month.

 

[Raine96]

Close to positive. That means it's time to start bd cause I'll be ovulating this week!

 

[Laucu]

Close to positive. That means it's time to start bd cause I'll be ovulating this week!

Yay! FXed for you.

 

[Trying91]

Hi ladies how's every one getting on? Sorry not been on had no internet while on holiday. Hope your all doing good

 

[Laucu]

Hi ladies how's every one getting on? Sorry not been on had no internet while on holiday. Hope your all doing good

Hi! How was your holiday? Hope you had a good one.

Possibly 1-2dpo today. I'm on cd19.

 

[Trying91]

Brilliant thank you, had a lovely time. I'm roughly 10dpo today. Iv had very sore nipples since 8dpo and feeling abit queasy past few days (could be food or wine lol) I never get sore boobs or nipples wondering if it could be the air con in the hotel room? I'm going to buy pre seed if it's a bfn this month. Fingers crossed for u Hun xx

 

[Trying91]

I caved and took a clear blue. It's the only test I had Iv ran out of cheapies, I'm roughly around 10dpo and only used a good test because my nipples are absoloutly killing me even just my bra touching them hurts, Iv never ever had sore boobs or nipples so that's totally new for me. I feel quesy but not enough to be sick or put me off food and I do sometimes feel sick in the 2 week wait anyway, just not this much. I'll test again either tomorrow or Tuesday. I know not to trust blue dyes it's just the only ones Iv got xx

 

[cutieq]

Oooh fingers crossed!

 

[Trying91]

Thanks cutie, it's probably nothing seeing as we only bd once before ovulation, the rest was all days after ov. And I didn't stay laying down or anything after. Gonna order pre seed if AF shows and bd all through fertile window. It's been 11 months now I want my bfp xx

 

[Trying91]

Bfn yet again. Think I'm 11dpo today so think it would of shown. Have no idea why my nipples are hurting so much I'm gonna put it down to air con and change of weather! They have never ever been sore before do u think I'm safe to order pre seed today? Or should wait till AF arrives? I want to make sure it's here in time without paying for fast delivery lol

 

[Laucu]

Gah, so sorry Trying. You're not out yet though.

I had horrendously sore nipples last cycle. Figured it was just my body adjusting.

 

[Trying91]

It's just so weird iv never ever had sore nipples even when pregnant last time, only time they was sore was when I started breastfeeding. Ah well. I'm not testing again, I have no tests just a digital and I'm not wasting that. AF is due around Thursday (not 100% sure as didn't use opk this month) I'm getting fed up now to be honest. Nearly 12 months but my plan is to use pre seed and bd as much as possible in my next fertile window

 

[Trying91]

I was sure there was a very faint line on yesterday's test I could see it all day, but nothing at all on today's. I hate blue dye tests

 

[Laucu]

I know, it's hard getting bfns month after month.

I think after this month I am going to just switch off from it all, I am finding it all a bit too much to be honest. What will be will be.

 

[Trying91]

It sure is Hun. I hope your ok, fingers crossed it happens soon for us both. As much as i want to switch off from it all I just can't. I'm scared I'll miss ovulation or something. They say that's the best way though to just switch off from it xx

 

[Trying91]

Iv had very mild AF aches tonight, so guess that's me out. Not due on till Thursday but maybe I ovulated earlier than the apps say, if that's the case I totally missed bding before or during ovulation!

 

[cutieq]

I can't remember but are you temping? Those were far more accurate than my app predictions. Sorry for the bfn. Fx there's a shy bfp coming your way.

 

[Trying91]

No I don't temp cutie because my son has autism and is a very bad sleeper so it wouldn't be accurate for me, I usually use opk's which are spot on but with being on holiday abroad for 2 weeks I didn't use opk's, both my apps said I should of ovulated on the 16th and that's when my cervix felt open so I think I did ovulate then, AF aches have gone again now so we shall see, sorry for to much info but my nipples are still really sore and sensitive! iv never ever had that at all so that's the only thing giving me hope really but it's probably just another trick my body's playing on me xx

 

[cutieq]

Gotcha. No such thing as tmi here. Make sure in your app to track your symptoms it it's not overkill for you. It helped me to stay sane and not analyze every symptom. I'm still holding onto hope for you!